...and now that we've got that out of the way...
I am quirky and a bit weird.. but I've met some of my best friends that way, and wouldn't change that for the world.
Based on things people have told me about myself, I'm a bit of a contradiction..
I am hard working, but rather lazy. I'm forgetful, but I remember everything,. I'm a very independent person, but I need someone to lean on. I am an organized disaster. I like everything to be clean but I'm pretty messy. I'm too nice to people, but I can be a bitch. I know what I want, but can't make a decision to save my life. I'm carefree, but I over-think everything. I am very creative, but I don't have any talents. I am rather smart.. but I do a lot of stupid things. I am the go-to person who can't seem to do anything right. I know I am a good person, but I have no self-confidence. I am the world's biggest procrastinator, but I get things done. I can stay cool under pressure but I constantly worry myself sick. I love to have fun, but I tend to be boring. I am driven to try new things, but scared of change. I am far too trusting, but I don't trust anyone. I can be rough, but I'm also gentle. I am strong, but I am weak. I am empathetic and apathetic. I love a good adventure, but I am comfortable with the familiar. I am proud of what I've accomplished, and disappointed at where I am. I am a pessimistic optimist (or as a coworker put it, a realist). I am generally chipper - I tend to look miserable. I am a quiet person but I can be rather loud.
I enjoy being outdoors. I am not particularly girly. I am far more forgiving than I should be and have an inability to stay mad at anyone. I take far too many pictures (I take pictures of everything, but mostly my cats and the sky). I enjoy science and math. I don't like being alone.
I know my STI status and would be happy to discuss it with you privately.
Also, I'm heteroflexible, poly-friendly and kink friendly (I am a bottom). You can find me on FL, same name.
I am looking for someone who will be both my significant other and my friend. Someone who will be there for me, and who needs me there for them too. That being said, I need someone who is independent as well. I want to be your significant other/friend, not your mother/babysitter.
I am looking for someone I can have fun with and share activities with. Someone who loves to go on adventures be it the beach or zoo or vacation or just something simple like exploring the neighborhood or trying out a new restaurant. Someone who enjoys staying in and watching a movie just as much as going out. Someone who wants to hang out with me but also understands I need to have time for myself and other friends as well. I don't want anyone who is too clingy or jealous, but at the same time, I want someone who wants to cuddle and be around me. I also want someone who understands that I like to do things for myself, but who will still be willing to do nice things for me every now and then (and know that I will do the same). Also, I'd prefer someone who is also kink/poly-friendly (but at this point I'm looking more for a primary relationship than to be a second or date a couple).