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27 / M / straight / Available

Patterson, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
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Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries and it matters a lot
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
—
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am blunt, charming, and supercute.

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My Self-Summary

I'm a very straight forward person. I prefer to be real honest, always speak my mind and I usually know what I want. First off, I'm in a very happy relationship but her and I like to play with other girls or just make friends :) if you're not comfortable with that or judgmental, don't bother messaging me.

I enjoy meeting new people, watching movies, playing video/board games and working on my music. I prefer being out with a small group of friends, but I'm open to new things whether I end up liking it or not I'll always be honest about it.

I'm pretty easy to get along with and I love to laugh! I like complete communication in any type of relationship, I think that matters the most as it's pointless to not speak your mind just in order to avoid conflict. I can be quiet sometimes at first but I can really open up a lot if I feel comfortable with a person and I can become quite the silly bastard lol.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm 27, work full time as a security manager, and just finished my BS in Criminal Justice this year, still deciding where I'm going to go from here with that. I also work on a lot on my music, I compose electronic music and sing or at least attempt to :)

I’m really good at

music, poetry/lyrics, being uber cute, cuddling/kissing (I have a masters degree in that)

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile, big brown eyes, or my arms

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies: Gladiator, Braveheart, Equilibrium, The Island, Memento, Marvel Films, Sin City, 300

Music: De/Vision, Depeche Mode, Seabound, NeuorticFish, Mind.in.a.box, those are some of my favorite synthpop/ebm bands. I like pretty much anything electronic, ambient, techno, house, trance, etc.

Food: Italian

TV: Nip/Tuck, House, Dexter, True Blood, Heroes, The Office, Six Feet Under

The six things I could never do without

1. Love 2. Passion 3. Sex 4. Friends 5. My cats 6. BBQ sauce...yes...deffinitely BBQ sauce

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Dreams, love, sex, traveling, massive ammounts of chocolate, darkness, and the future. Psychology, sociology, and human nature are some of my biggest interests. I'm always pondering over human behavior, studying psychology and body language.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either at home watching movies/tv, playing video games, chatting, or working on my music.

OR...

Out and about with friends, drinking, bars, clubs, dinner, etc.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm more terrified of a spider on my wall vs. a gun to my face

You should message me if

You want to meet a couple of great people!
You are open-minded,kinky and non-judgmental!
You aren't a fakey flakey.
You're actually interested in conversation.
You have a sense of humor.

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