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30 / M / Gay / Single

Seattle, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Don't be a Seattle Flake and we'll get along just fine. I'm exceptionally kind, perfectly amazing, and probably the best person you'll ever meet. That being said: I'm not a doormat. You should not be either. Don't make a plan you cant keep, and don't string someone along if there is no interest.

You need to be outgoing, and direct.

You need to have manners.

I'm a geek, or a nerd, depending on your definitions. I like games, technology, and science. I think logically. My mind is logical and methodical, most of the time. I try to stay inside my own head on a frequent basis, and feel the world is a place that sustains you rather than defines you. Not that I'm an ascetic, but I prefer not to let events shape me too much. I've been through enough of that to have learned better.

I'm only really looking for companionship. Relationship material. Partnered guys (even open) please move on. Also not really looking to vastly expand my circle of friends.

Please don't take offense if I turn down an offer of just hanging out. If you're interests are purely platonic, I'm not going to waste your time or mine by pretending I'm OK with that.

Bonus points if XKCD, SMBC, The Bloggess and Wonderella are on your RSS feed.
What I’m doing with my life
Life is filled with work (Government), games (ask me!), gym (running!) and my dog (Blue Heeler).

My life is not on any rail straight path, but I arrived at a place where I can clearly envision what I truly want for my future. And, I have the means to attain it. As a product of my generation and extreme poverty growing up, it took me a bit longer to get where I wanted than I expected. But, I arrived educated with good job and no student debt!
I’m really good at
Anything I put my mind to. You are too! There are a few things in this world that require a certain makeup, mental or physical, but those things are far outnumbered by our limitless brainy ape selves.
The first things people usually notice about me
The easy answer is eyes. Mine are light gray blue. Details are hard, and what is noticed is not remembered. I'm outgoing, and I can fill a room with personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Escapist fantasy and sci-fi are my usual go to for any kind of fiction.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends! I try to reserve this night for meeting new people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I keep very little back. I've been told that sometimes I wear my heart on my sleeve.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You are actively seeking romance, and a relationship. Also, if you are able to sustain an interesting conversation and keep lines of communication open. If you describe yourself as easy going, try to mean that!