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Vandereck
27 / M / straight / Single
Somerville, Massachusetts
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 5' 8" (1.72m).
- Body Type
- Fit
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Atheism and somewhat serious about it
- Sign
- Aries but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- Graduated from college/university
- Job
- Artistic / Musical / Writer
- Income
- —
- Kids
- Likes children
- Pets
- Likes cats
- Languages
- English
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am creative, dynamic, and tongue-in-cheek.
My Self-Summary
Other stuff… I like Mac computers (no viruses!), I have a crazy tendency to collect books on things that interest me; I really relate to Erasmus: “When I get a little money I buy books; and if any is left I buy food and clothes.” I like to cook, and have recently been exploring homemade soups: Thai Hot and Sour and different kinds based on Japanese Dashi. I have a clean canteen, and I try my best to think of the environment, bringing a bevy of bags to the supermarket, recycling when I can, using public transit, walking wherever possible. I love learning about/seeing animals, and go to zoos wherever I visit. I have a special fondness for cats, otters, octopi, puffins, flying fox, wildebeest, komodo dragons, sea horses, killer whales, okapi, tapirs, rhinos… I have recently rediscovered gardening (I used to garden with my mother when I was a kid), and have been growing vegetables and herbs in containers on my fire escape and looking forward to when I can actually work some real soil! I hate Ailanthus Altissima trees and will rant about them for as long as you want to hear: they don’t even make for good firewood!
I have begun to move from beer to wine, but I still like playing with mixology. I am a big Tetris fan and can play pretty much indefinitely without losing. I always play when I’m talking on the phone. I play tournament chess when I can, but it has a tendency to get in the way of my work, so sometimes I go into pseudo retirement. When I have the chance, I order unusual ice cream flavors: chai tea, cake batter, moose tracks, grasshopper pie. I like to travel, though writing my first book has limited my opportunities until now. I walk all the time, frequently many miles a day, and have found that Boston is so small you can pretty much get wherever you’re going on foot. I used to walk from Brighton to Arlington Heights occasionally… now I mostly just trek all over Cambridge and Somerville, and sometimes ride my bike (though I prefer riding on the Minuteman Bike Trail).
I believe heartily in Ambrose Bierce's observation that learning is the faculty that allows us to recognize mistakes when we make them again, so I try not to go head over heels with things in life, but just let them develop. In relationships, I like to share thoughts and feelings, humor, stories... I am not worried about finding something perfect, but hope to find some overlap, share in eccentricity, and enjoy another person’s company. Spontaneity is great, and novelty is what life is all about. I think it’s important to feel that friends and romantic partners have new things to bring to your life, new things to share that broaden your horizons, and I almost invariably find that a measure of playfulness is central to attraction.
What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
The six things I could never do without
... I'm sure I could stop there and survive.
3. Wikipedia
4. Rich, dark, black coffee
5. My leather coat (a second skin I've had since I was thirteen)
6. Expanses of nature: greenery, woods or mountains or the seashore--someplace real and vibrant and living that feels distinctly of the earth.