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My self-summary
uhhh. idk. I'm changing a lot? Life is chaos, etc.

I like learning new things. either from books or from experiences. I'm a p adventurous person I guess.
I'm big on things that look nice/enjoy arranging artsy crap. I'm an artfag and I enjoy films, photography, music, TV Shows, food. I try to be less of a snob compared to how i come off. I guess you'd have to judge that.

I am feminine, though I look masc. Idk.

My gender is all over the place though I tend to identify more on the feminine side.

they/them/their if you're cis
she/her/hers if you're queer/trans or a cis person whom I trust/am comfortable with.

I like people specifically. Hate 'em generally.

This is my Photography . Idk i like showing off.

Instagram: steepedflowers

INFJ/P; sagittarius
What I’m doing with my life
I'm going to school and I'm also trying to function as a human being with basic self care. I'm kinda failing at both.

but that's really about it. I wish I had more energy for things I enjoy, or at least things I used to enjoy. Depression kinda sucks all the fun out of stuff.
I’m really good at
Idk. These are things I consider myself to be good at. This is my perception, and it may not match up to yours.

being self-critical;
being critical of oppressive structures in our society;
being an artfag (love film/music/aesthetic);
emotions I guess;
being depressed lololol
The first things people usually notice about me
Proooooobably height. Kinda really tall.

People on the street seem to notice how much I talk to myself, and how quickly I get embarrassed about it.

After a while probably how easy it is for me to laugh.

And how I dance to songs in my head if I'm not really doing anything (just dawdling down the street or in the supermarket or something). I'm restless when standing still.

How much I like music
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: Cider House Rules, A Song of Ice and Fire Series, In One Person, How to Dress your Family in Corduroy and Denim, Harry Potter Series, One Day In The Life Of Ivan Denisovich, 1984, Animal Farm, Three Day Road, Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, and more that I can't remember.

MOVIES:Too many to list... I enjoy sci-fi, and quirky, and independent pretentious films. Like really any genre will do it for me (mostly not horror though. That one is more difficult for me to enjoy because the plots are soo flat. There are a few that I enjoy, though)
I listed a few directors I enjoy below.

SHOWS: The Office; Parks and Rec; Archer; Bob's Burgers; X Files; Fringe; LOST; House of Cards; OITNB; Game of Thrones; Steven Universe; It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; Orphan Black; How to Get Away with Murder; Hannibal (so much queerbait tho).

DIRECTORS: Hayao Miyazaki; Denis Villeneuve; Xavier Dolan; Lars von trier; Steven Soderbergh; Sarah Polley

MUSIC: too many artists to list. Here's some off the top of my head: Flying Lotus/Captain Murphy; FKA Twigs; Bjork; Perfume Genius; Antony and the Johnsons; CocoRosie; Tim Hecker; Yamantaka//Sonic Titan; Austra; Trust; Feist; Dirty Beaches; Godspeed You! Black Emperor; Jordaan Mason; Alvvays; Little Dragon; Sexwitch; Lykke Li; Beach House; Alt-J; Mykki Blanco; Boards of Canada; Sigur Ros; Jennifer Castle; Grimes; The Knife; iamamiwhoami; Robyn; Beyonce; Nicki Minaj; Brian Eno; Jessie Ware; MIA; Owen Pallet; Purity Ring; Swans.

There's a lot more.

FOOD: Most things. I like spicy things. I try not to eat things from a box/ cook fresh for myself/loved ones as much as possible. I don't necessarily enjoy cooking, I just enjoy impressing people (though that can be said about most of my artistic endeavours. I feed off of praise)
The six things I could never do without

A sense of rhythm;
kisses/cuddles/physical affection;
Silliness/self expression;
love? idk;
Being comfortable by myself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what is truth?

Is there a universal truth we could all achieve through observation and objectivity? (nah. that's garbage)

Is there a universal truth nobody can access because everybody's perception has a bias due to socialization/environmental factors?

Or is there no universal truth at all, and is it just our perceptions of reality which determine personal truths, and can become collective truths in forming culture and society?

like this is me on a daily basis. Essentially me critiquing Eurocentric paradigm/worldview/framework and how it was colonized into this dominant way of thinking into epistemic colonialism/violence.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends on many things. I like most things. But most likely hiding in my room
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a hairy backside?
You should message me if
If you want a[nother] queer friend and you are queer. I would like some plz.

If you see something that interests you and wish to talk about it. I respond to almost everybody :3

if you're not a dick I guess.