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VanillaMiinus

21 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Transfeminine, Transgender, Non-binary, Other, Genderqueer

Transfeminine, Transgender, Non-binary, Other, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–100
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 5
Orientation
Queer
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Status
Open relationship
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What am I? Idk really. I try to be good at things I find cool. I aspire to be crafty and to try and be self-sustaining while failing at it p hard (failing in my own conceptualization I guess)

I enjoy learning, but university is sapping at my soul and it's p shitty. I realize that I don't get out very often, and in the summertime I want to be social, but in th ewinter time I need to conserve my energy (though hopefully this will change when I move into a more healthy environment)

I enjoy things that look nice/have an appreciation to floral aesthetic. I'm an artfag and I enjoy films, photography, music, TV Shows, food. I try to be less of a snob compared to how i come off. I guess you'd have to judge that.

I am feminine, though I look masc. Idk.

My gender is all over the place though I tend to identify more on the feminine side.

they/them/their if you're cis
she/her/hers if you're queer/trans or a cis person whom I trust/am comfortable with.

I like people specifically. Hate 'em generally.

This is my Art Photography Blog. Just to show how absolutely faggy I am.

I am in a wonderful relationship at the moment, it is sadly at very long distance; he lives in Calgary. His name is tianhui

Instagram: steepedflowers

INFJ
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Studying/working at Carleton for this year (Social Work and Indigenous Studies)

Working on Carleton residence in charge of ~70 first-year students. It's as fun as it sounds

That's about it really. I would like to lead a more interesting life/find queer friends. I'm bad at making friends lol. I always try to impress people I dislike and stay quiet and observant and inert with people who I enjoy/would want to hang out with.

Trying to travel
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Idk. These are things I consider myself to be good at. This is my perception, and it may not match up to yours.

photography;
cooking;
being self-critical;
being critical of oppressive structures in our society;
being an artfag (love film/music/aesthetic);
emotions I guess;
knitting;
crying;
being depressed lololol
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Proooooobably height. Kinda really tall.

After a while probably how easy it is for me to laugh.

And how I dance to songs in my head if I'm not really doing anything (just dawdling down the street or in the supermarket or something). I'm restless when standing still.

How obsessive I can become over some film and directing styles (pretencieux)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS: Cider House Rules, A Song of Ice and Fire Series, In One Person, How to Dress your Family in Corduroy and Denim, Harry Potter Series, One Day In The Life Of Ivan Denisovich, 1984, Animal Farm, Three Day Road, Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, and more that I can't remember.

MOVIES:Too many to list... I enjoy sci-fi, and quirky, and independent pretentious films. Like really any genre will do it for me (mostly not horror though. That one is more difficult for me to enjoy because the plots are soo flat. There are a few that I enjoy, though)
I listed a few directors I enjoy below.

SHOWS: The Office; Parks and Rec; Archer; Bob's Burgers; X Files; Fringe; LOST; House of Cards; OITNB; Game of Thrones; Steven Universe; It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; Orphan Black; How t Get Away with Murder; Hannibal (so much queerbait tho).

DIRECTORS: Joe Wright, Xavier Dolan, David Fincher, Lars von Trier, Steven Soderbergh, Quentin Tarantino, Sarah Polley, Denis Villeneuve

MUSIC: too many artists to list. GO here to look : http://www.last.fm/user/VanillaMiinus

FOOD: Most things. I like spicy things. I try not to eat things from a box/ cook fresh for myself/loved ones as much as possible. I don't necessarily enjoy cooking, I just enjoy impressing people (though that can be said about most of my artistic endeavours. I feed off of praise)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
NO PARTICULAR ORDER:

Internet/information;
A sense of rhythm;
kisses/cuddles/physical affection;
Silliness/self expression;
love? idk;
Being comfortable by myself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what is truth?

Is there a universal truth we could all achieve through observation and objectivity? (nah. that's garbage)

Is there a universal truth nobody can access because everybody's perception has a bias due to socialization/environmental factors?

Or is there no universal truth at all, and is it just our perceptions of reality which determine personal truths, and can become collective truths in forming culture and society?

like this is me on a daily basis. Essentially me critiquing Eurocentric paradigm/worldview/framework and how it was colonized into this dominant way of thinking into epistemic colonialism/violence.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on many things. I like most things. But most likely hiding in my room
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a hairy backside?
idk
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want a[nother] queer friend and you are queer. I would like some plz.

If you see something that interests you and wish to talk about it. I respond to almost everybody :3

if you're not a dick I guess.