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Vanya64

45 / M / straight / Single

Johannesburg, South Africa

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My Self-Summary

I am who I am. I am a single parent. I enjoy the peace of my home. No wild parties for me. Good food, good company and ambience is my pleasure.I enjoy spoiling a woman in every way possible. I am different to any man you have known. Those of you who live beyond South african shores naturally understand that the chances of us meeting are remote but that does not prevent us from being IM friends(unless you are prepared to pay your way here.!!!). We can still can have a mutually beneficial friendship.

You know what? I can sit and type all kinds of wonderful things about myself but what do they mean? Nothing! The best way to get to know another person is through active communication. All I have said about myself I believe to be the truth but there are other things about me I could not think of writing here. So best way to get to know me is to 'talk' to me.

What I’m doing with my life

Just getting on with my life, trying my best to be a good parent to my children. Oh, and looking for good company.

I’m really good at

Listening(I think!)And being me. Giving orders. Motivating others. Confronting my fears.

The first things people usually notice about me

Now how must I know! My knees?? My arrogant swagger?? My command of the Martian vocabulary??

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Historical, philosophical, biographical etc. sciene fiction. No murder mystery, horror or love stories.
Food? As long as it tastes good I like it. Music: Gospel, jazz, (old)blues, the real classics, and some other alternative stuff.

The six things I could never do without

My spectacles, my daughter, oldest son and youngest son. My morals, beliefs and principles. God

I spend a lot of time thinking about

You, me, other people and the link between us all. Which of you is going to be spending the rest of their lives with me.

On a typical Friday night I am

At home. Or playing Dads taxi.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I don't believe in unconditional love.

You should message me if

You have a brain and can use it. You can accept me for who I am and not what you imagine me to be. You are comfortable with who you are, pimples and all. You are seriously looking for your future HUSBAND, not just lover or part time toy.

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