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VaughnOliver

41 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:39am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm artistic, enthusiastic and creative. I'm game for just about anything so long as it's in the spirit of fun. I like fun. I also like cooking, reading, and good conversation, and I'm not averse to going dancing. I am an artist and work in tech to pay the bills (and do actually like my job as well).

For now I'm mainly looking to hang casually and have fun without a lot of immediate expectations. That doesn't mean I'm not looking for a real relationship - just that I like to take a little while to evaluate a situation and for us to get to know each other.

I'm a fan of good food whether it's fancy or from a hole in the wall. One of the best things I ever ate was a hand-pulled noodle soup made with numbing peppers, found near Jiuzhaigou (no idea if I'm spelling that right) in Szechuan China. I was violently ill for at least a day after eating it, and I'd still eat it again - it was that good.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am an artist in (at least) two styles, actively selling and showing my work. I just had a one man show of my work in a local gallery. I'm also in their regular rotation of artists and will likely show there again next year. I have Bachelor degrees in Art and Art History, speak French, some Spanish, and enough Mandarin to order a cold beer, dumplings, or ice cream. I work in SF as a Director of User Experience for an agency, and lived for a year in Paris a while back. I've also traveled all around Europe, and to Chile, Argentina, and China for vacations and some business.
I’m really good at
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Painting, Printmaking, Reading, Learning Languages, Sincerity, Laughing at Myself, Empathy, Interaction Design, Listening to and appreciating a variety of music, Painfully bad jokes, Iconoclasm, Not taking things too seriously.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Easygoing, happy, get along with a variety of people. A cocktail of endearing geekiness with a soupçon of confident intelligence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Master and Margarita (Bulgakov), King Queen Knave (Nabokov), The Shadow of the Wind (Zafon), Rats Saw God (Rob Thomas), Weetzie Bat (Block), The Passion and Written on the Body (Winterson), Sandman Slim (Kadrey).

TV: Adventure Time (srsly), Defiance, White Collar, Grimm, Firefly, Veronica Mars

Movies: When ill: Really bad romantic comedies. When well: just about anything, so long as it's well written. All time faves: Princess Bride and Raiders of the Lost Ark.

Artists:
Velasquez, Auerbach, Modigliani, Soutine, Manet, Monet, Schiele, Chardin, Singer-Sargent, Corot, Ingres, Banksy.

Musicians:
The National, Old 97s, the Kinks, the Beatles, the Clash, Stiff Little Fingers, Miles Davis, Buzzcocks, Iggy and the Stooges, The Caesars, The Sonics.

Poets: Wordsworth, cummings, Owen, Heaney.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Bacon
Intelligence
Personal space
Humor
My loved ones
Ice cream
You should message me if
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