I enjoy the finer things in life; train spotting, stamp collecting,
Star Trek and Dungeons and Dragons...I'm also very needy.

No! Seriously, I'm weirder than that! I'm a self-employed therapist and work from my home which is in Pimlico, London.

I'm a 30 year Brit Asian male born and brought up in south east London. (N.B. I come with NO cultural baggage whatsover! I have an extremely rare family that is totally open to other cultures.)

I'm confident (when reassured), out-going (with the right medication), humorous (well, trying now), attractive (so I'm told), a good listener (job requirement), earn good money (can provide for our kids), everything but tall [5'8"] really (brownie points lost on the last one I know ;)...

I'd like to meet you if you like having fun and can at least spell your name.

Seriously - I’d like to meet someone who is easy going, fun to be with any race/age between 18-40. If you have a creative leaning that would be cool but not necessary. I have no preference about how you look (so long as you aren’t suicidal, it’s on baby).

I’m open to meeting new people to see how it goes. I’d prefer a relationship as I’d like to settle down at some point, but am open to exploration.

I have a successful private therapy practice which specialises in deep emotional release work and trauma. I work from my flat which is in Pimlico, central London.

I also teach specialist psychotherapy skills on uni counselling courses. I earn a good living and am one of a rare breed – a man who can be responsible.

Listening (job requirement!!). Being attentive, present and humorous. I love laughing and I would say that my best quality is my ability to make people laugh. My other good quality is being open - emotionally open. I’m not afraid to feel or express my feelings (no don’t worry I’m not a wet new man, or wussed out new-age emo), just naturally unashamed of expressing myself. This translates to being highly empathetic (not just pathetic).

My bulging eyes ;) and then most probably my warmth, confidence and sense of humour.

Grace & Grit by Ken Wilber.
Swingers, Gattaca, Purple Rain, Irreversible, Charlie Kaufman.
Prince, 80’s, easy listening
Indian food (can cook too!).

Baked beans
Potatoes (highly versatile)
Sex
Prince
Friends
Family

(in that order??!!)

My writing, career, state of the world, why we feel how we feel…

At home crying on my pillow

U LIKE! (Said in Borat voice).