Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am open to all kinds of connections and interesting experiences.
As you read on, consider if we can be great friends or great lovers
or anything in between.
Beyond meeting people and making new friends, I am looking for
someone to build more with and would be most interested in people
who understand this from the get go, and treat me to experiences
that let us explore the possibilities of how intimate and invested
we could be. I want the serious heavy stuff but not without the fun
and pleasure. Physical, emotional and intellectual chemistry is a
must. And I am in no hurry on this journey.
I am opinionated and love learning about new things. I really enjoy
the company of people who challenge me and push me to think about
things in new ways.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I manage my own daycare business, and have previously worked all
varieties of jobs all over the world. I also regularly volunteer my
time towards animal rights activism and other important causes. For
fun, I am big on dancing, hanging out at local socials, eating out
at veggie restaurants.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing, baking, seeing both sides of a situation, flirting,
traveling with little or no plans, finding good deals, waking up
early, cuddling, organizing, saying exactly what I want (and where
;) ) cutting hair, making my own handmade beauty supplies.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, hair, laugh, and depending on what I am wearing, my
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: So hard to narrow this down to a few titles. Let's just say
I had way too many boxes of books when I moved. Also I'm a big fan
of libraries, and I just got an ereader- so great! This past year I
loved Maddadam in the Atwood trilogy.
Movies: The Sound of Music, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind,
Groundhog Day, Incendies, documentaries (many!)
Shows: I tend to watch less TV these days unless it's a netflix
binge: currently Marco Polo & House of Cards
Music: This is also tricky because I hate when people judge someone
based on their music choices. So as a random sample, these are the
first 10 things that come up on my ipod using shuffle: Lauryn Hill,
Beyonce, Mirah, Smashing Pumpkins, Sleigh Bells, Florence & the
Machine, Tori Amos, Jay-Z, Rent soundtrack, Annie Lennox. Judge
Food: Anything vegan. I love to bake, and give away much of what I
make to friends. I also try to eat healthy and organic as often as
I love eating out, but to be budget friendly I try to cook as much
as I can. My go to dish: veggie stirfry w sesame tofu, rice noodles
and peanut coconut sauce. I've won over many a picky child w this
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Captivating company (friendly and intimate)
Sharing amazing vegan food
My three cats (and really, all animals)
My chosen family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Cooking, trying and inventing recipes (I have a serious cookbook
- Making conscious choices about the life I am building and the
people that I want to be a part of it
- Animal and environmental rights and what roles I can play to
- Places I would like to visit and experiences I would like to
- Kids and how fun/quirky/frustrating they can be all at the same
- And if I am with someone, I probably spend a good amount of time
thinking about them
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday evenings are the first chance I get to unwind from the
workweek. So most of the time it turns into a night-in of relaxing
and enjoying low-key activities (movies, games, a great home cooked
But catch me on a Saturday night and you’ll see me enjoying a great
vegan meal at a local restaurant and hitting slow/fast/in-between
dancing spots with friends (mainly at queer friendly spaces). I
also like a night of board games and snacks as a great way to catch
up with people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Even though I am confident and know what I want, I am very shy
about eye contact. If you do manage to hold my gaze, then great
conversation will just be a start to much more.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a confident and engaging person looking to make friends or
start something more.
I'd love to meet you if you:
-Really enjoy dancing
-Are willing to share interesting things about yourself and your
view of the world
-Can hold your own when drawn into a challenging and insightful
conversation, and still always be willing to laugh
-Are more on the femme side
-Enjoy being around kids of all ages.
**I only date people who are veg. This might seem restrictive but I
know what works for me :) and yes I'm serious. If you msg me and
say "I'd be veg except I love cheese/bacon/whatever", we would not
agree on some basic fundamentals.
** If you wear a Canada Goose jacket, (or fur in general) chances
are we would be neither friends nor date material.
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