Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You are about to read the profile of a good guy. That does not mean
that I'm boring, quite the opposite. It does mean that I am
thoughtful, communicative, happy, easy going, intelligent,
interesting, and I know how to compromise. I've seen many profiles
wherein women ask if there are any good guys left. Well, there are!
If you're not sure about me, or are on the "fence," contact me.
There's little to lose and potentially a lot to gain.
I moved to Chicago two years ago and thought that it would be easy
to meet intelligent women who were looking for a good relationship.
Surprisingly, it has been much more difficult than I expected. If
you are looking for a short term relationship (or hook up), I'm not
interested. REALLY! If you are into drama, or have some type of
relationship phobia, I'm not interested. REALLY! If you like to
play games and are passive aggressive, I'm not interested.
If you are looking for a stable man (not boy), with a great career,
who is romantic and affectionate, who does not live with his
parents, or a bunch of his frat brothers (or even worse his ex!),
then let me know. If you have not found the right guy yet, remember
the old saying - "The definition of insanity is doing the same
things over and over and expecting a different result." Let's chat.
I know that YOU are out there. Come find me!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have extensive travel/tourism and attractions experience. I am
working in an executive position at one of the leading museums in
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem solving and coming up with solutions that work. I am also
loyal, fun, and a good listener and friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is that I have a quick smile, I am interesting and that I am an
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Tough question! I have read hundreds of books (28 in 2014 alone).
For business the Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, the
Malcolm Gladwell books, Freakonomics and many more. The Power of
Now is a good one to help you enjoy life more. Jane Austin is
great. In the Sci-Fi/Fantasy world, the Ender's Game series and A
Song of Ice and Fire are outstanding. Also, The Lies of Locke
Lamora and The awarded Man. Not quite in the same league, but fun
were the Hunger Games and Twilight books.
My taste in music is pretty eclectic, but I tend to gravitate to
classic rock like the Beatles, Rolling Stones and the old crooners
like Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin, but I also love Bruno Marz,
Justin Timberlake, Maroon 5, Imagine Dragons and others.
As for food, there are too many to mention in a city like Chicago.
As a foodie, here are a few highlights, Classic Italian-Il
Vicinato; Cuban-90 Mile Cafe; Indian- Tandoor; brunch-Shaw's Crab
House; burgers- Butcher and the Burger.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Yorkie, Teddy
Life long learning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve myself and help my family and friends.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing, exploring, dining...You'll have to join me to find out
what this Friday will bring!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ok, it's true. I've been known to watch The Batchelor.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
There's something very special about you. You are curious
the world around you. You can take a joke and are not easily
offended. You believe that sarcasm is a spice of life. You can
(without using spell check), and are generally happy. You want
see the world and travel, love to kiss, you cuddle like a cat on
sofa, and shag like a tiger in bed. You are thin, athletic, (curvy
in the right places is a plus), your eyes are bright and convey the
depth of your spirit. You are beautiful inside and out, and you
think you can actually keep up with me. The rest is negotiable.
(well, you can’t be a blood relative)
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