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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 9, 2014
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A recent transplant from London. Go to California, they said. Sunny weather, warm beaches, bikini-clad girls, they said. Ack, I was mis-sold!

There are loads of things I'm passionate about - from summitting Alpine peaks to playing African drums. Profile-writing isn't one of them.

I'm outdoorsy (climber, mountaineer) yet love big cities with character. I've lived/travelled almost everywhere. I'd rather not rattle off my weird-and-wacky travel CV here and risk sounding pretentious - say hello if you want to know more. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to write a second book, climb lots, looking for a new motorcycle to replace my poor old Kawasaki.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
In no particular order
• Cooking steak. Really well. And not well-done.
• Making cocktails, drinking cocktails
• Getting lost in the mountains and feeling awesome about it (after scaring the living shit out of myself)
• Finding adventure. Even when I don't want to.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sarcastic sense of humour or the fact that I'm a cunning linguist. I can be pretty puntastic. If you are into cunning linguists I'd love to hear from you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I know these lists are meant to give you an idea of what I am like, but by the time you're halfway through this shit you'd have gone away distracted by recent spam email. So in the interest of brevity, I'm going to keep things short(-ish):

Currently reading Kahneman's "Thinking Fast and Slow". Big fan of Coupland and Rushdie, as well as classics like Conrad. I still indulge in travel/adventure/mountaineering literature from the likes of Tim Butcher.

My taste in music is heavily influenced by my metalhead youth. I still indulge in a bit of 70's and 80's metal, classic and punk rock, enjoy some smoky blues (Clapton/Van Morrison/Nina Simone) but have been exploring other genres as far off as electro-swing (Parov Stelar!) and Afrogroove in more recent times.

Thanks but no thanks to R&B, dubstep and their bastard cousins.

Food: Almost anything as long as it's cooked with care and passion. I love being experimental with food. One of life's pleasures that deserve in-depth exploration.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
• A sense of humour - the more politically incorrect and rude the better - and being surrounded by people with such a sense of humour
• Technology (you gotta learn about it!)
• Ideals worthy of Epicurus himself: fine wine, good food, passionate love
• Analytical thought and a curious mind
• The great outdoors
• Keeping fit, being healthy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
• Language-related humour and puns. E.g.: this video clip
• How I really need to make each day last 36 hours
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

• Doing something normal
• Doing something abnormal

I.e., there's no such thing as typical and this is a shit poor question, fabricated by a certifiable moron.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I sometimes listen to Meat Loaf.

Ok, that's not very private, but I can't really write about my coke habit, the dead hooker in my hotel bathtub or the number of bastard children I've sired, can I?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you're witty, energetic, very passionate, think you can amuse me and are not a member of the GOP! Bonus points for GOP jokes.

You enjoy your food, wine and good cocktails, and want to meet up and get a drink. You feel like climbing or hiking sometime. You like being tied up.