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VennDia

23 Natick, MA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:10pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Construction
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Adam and I'm a huge optimist. I love being all over the place when it comes to life. I don't really like planning a full day. I much rather begin somewhere, and finish up with a completely new and interesting ending. I feel what's the point of living if you're not doing it to enjoy yourself. Although, I do have lots of goals and I care a great deal about people. I swear I've found the perfect amount of hedonism.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently at UMass Lowell studying Civil & Environmental Engineering. Now during the summer I'm working for a construction management company at a project in Boston, so I'm enjoying hanging around the city more often. I'm running around as assistant superintendent trying to make sure all the trades are happy and functioning it's always something new each day. I also work nights and weekends at a large electronics store cause I'm a huge nerd and love telling people about technology, also that discount is bomb.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I play devil's advocate a lot. Not to be "that guy" but just because I like to see situations from so many different angles, and always try to put myself in someone else's shoes. So one could say I'm good at being empathetic. Actually when someone mentions the word empathy, I get excited because it's such a beautiful concept. Anyways aside from that I've been told a couple times I have a "feel good" aura, which sounds pretty awesome, so I guess I can say I naturally make people happy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My dreadlocks! I cut all my hair off before high school graduation and haven't looked back since. Not gonna lie I kinda love my hair. I'd also say people notice my constant smile. It's actually really hard for me to make a straight face on command. Oh and that I'm probably wearing funky earrings too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Autobiography of Malcolm X, Badass: The Book, Howl's Moving Castle, The Book of Five Rings, The Illiad, Daisy Miller, Present Shock, Mindfulness In Simple Words, The System, and The Dharma of Star Wars. Also I read Harry Potter 1-4 as a kid but never opened 5-7 and I still have absconded from watching the movies in hopes I'll one day finish the books.

Movies: Fight Club, The Matrix, Bridesmaids, Butterfly Effect, Rush Hour series, Princess Mononoke, Old School Kung Fu movies, The Hulk (one with Edward Norton), and Grandma's Boy. Also my favorite Disney movie is The Hunchback of Notre Dame because it's way too intense to be a children's movie.

Shows: Cosmos, Planet Earth, Chappelle Show(RIP), Rick &Morty, Adventure Time, Regular Show, Broad City (I'm totally Ilana), mostly anything on Adult Swim, Workaholics, South Park, and Game of Thrones but it's really hard for me to invest myself in a whole season of a serious show, plus I hate cliffhangers so this is a big step for me.

Music: I'll be honest I love hip hop/rap above all else especially anything with heavy southern influences. However, I still have a wide range of stuff that I really jam to. Like holy shit do I love that Bieber song Where Are U Now. Alt, Folk, Indie, EDM, Rock, Pop whatev.

Food: So many types: Mexican, Thai, Ethiopian, Korean, Indian, Japanese, Vietnamese, Chinese...really whatever you put in front of me, with a penchant for really spicy food. Recently tried Cambodian food and it's already zoomed up the ranks of my favorite cuisines. I also enjoy cooking and I'm not too bad at it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Rapper ad libs
-Staying up the whole night to sleep at dawn
-Empathy gotta say it again
-Being around others
-Shaking my extremities
-POSITIVITY!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lots of time thinking about nothing. I enrolled in a meditation class senior year of high school and it was pretty cool. I kinda motivated myself to meditate at first because I figured it would help me manifest my latent Jedi powers. My username came about cause I love Venn diagrams and I'm always trying to see relations/similarities between things I'm usually the first to tell someone they look kinda like that famous person. It probably doesn't help that my mind jumps around quickly. Also I'm still trying to figure out how I can be a more helpful straight male ally to whichever causes I can contribute to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Blasting music and shaking my dreads, regardless if I'm at home or at a party. I really like to dance and if you can move (or you can't but you try anyways) then I'd love to share a makeshift dance floor with you. Seriously all you people out there that think they're hopeless, rhythm is just practice, no sweat!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I feel semi artistic I'll listen to Kate Nash, cause "sometimes I wish I was...like Ma-ri-ella!" I miss my oil painting class in high school.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you think there's more to me worth learning about, or you just want to show me awesome science videos. I'm an open book really just talk to me and I'll make sure I keep you interested!