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VenusAsABoy17

39 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 35–75
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:44pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's see, I think I can best describe myself as part pixie and part sensual intellectual. I am on the prowl for a little fun, adventure and romance. I do tend to be a bit of a wistful romantic, with a poet's sensibilities. Luckily these gentler tendencies are tempered by a fondness for pragmatism, a healthy amount of the cerebral and good sense. I am a boyish somewhat androgynous FTM who savors having a foot in both worlds. I prize empathy, honesty, a commitment to justice, the splendor of the natural world and the mystery of existence. I am in an open LTR.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
By craft I am a poet and a playwright. I am currently working on a play. I really enjoy live music, theater, hiking, yoga, writing (of course), reading, eating good food, long sensual sessions and introspective discussions and ramblings. I have eclectic interests and have a pretty incurable zeal for knowledge. I have my Masters in Ecology and I am also a Reiki practitioner and Somatic therapist. Neuroscience is my geeky hobby, especially interpersonal neurobiology and eco-systemic change paradigms. Systems or game theory anyone? Yeah, I am a major geek, but a super foxy one! Of course, I also enjoy sci-fi and fantasy. Recently I've been really into going to the symphony and opera, I know it may make me seem old skool or worse snobby, but a gentleman likes what he likes!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* Experiencing & Expressing Empathy
*Deeply appreciating beauty, splendor & vulnerability
*Intuitively understanding others
*I'm a great tease & the most honey-tongued pillow talker you will ever have the pleasure to meet! (This is why you should all take a poet to bed)
*I am witty, funny & can hold my own in any conversation-I am a generalist specialist and know a little about many things
*Cerebral, yet emotionally intelligent
*On a good day, I am wise beyond my years & wise enough to know I still have much to learn
*Remembering details that everyone else forgets (like you Aunt Rosie had a broken leg when we last spent time together, how is she?)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, my warm, open demeanor, my hands
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A few of my favorite things, aye.... Well, I am an incurable enthusiast so I often find new(or new to me) music, authors or poets to get hung about. Here are some currents:
Music: Rachmaninoff, Tchaikovsky, Dresden Dolls, Chopin, Mozart, Daft Punk, Yeah Yeah Yeahs (oh, how I love Karen Oh), 80's new wave, Muse (yes, me & the Tweeners), Jack White, Broken Bells, Andrew Bird, Tom Waits, Jolie Holland, Stan Getz, oh I could go on & on....

Authors/ Poets: Neruda, Rilke, TS Elliot, Tennessee Williams, Emily Dickinson, Lorca, Junot Diaz, Mary Oliver, Elizabeth Bishop, Ursula Le Quinn, Octavia Butler, George RR Martin, Dostoevsky, George Saunders

Film/ TV: Lilies (John Greyson), Sammy & Rosie Get Laid (by same author as My Beautiful Laundrette which I also like but not as much), The Wire, Sopranos, Six Feet Under, True Blood (queer soft core vampire porn, I am All over it!), The Cook, The Thief, His Wife and His Lover, Almodovar (especially early), Woody Allen (especially early), Harold & Maude, The Baghdad Cafe, Serenity, Firefly, Monty Python, Kids in the Hall, 30 Rock, Nurse Jackie
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Empathy
Beauty (and appreciation of)
The lessons of my ancestors
My cultural identity as a Jew
Humor
Sensuality and the pleasures of life in a human body
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My plays & creating in general (I'm now have several works in progress & staged my second one act on in an 8 performance run this past April which ended on the 27th!)
transformation on the micro/ macro levels--what catalyzes it & sustains it
the nature of love
neurobiology
desire
balancing my triune brain
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sometimes seeing a performance or play or having dinner with friends. I just moved into a great new house and it is perfect for dinner parties. I love cooking, so I am looking forward to lots of these & becoming the best host since Martha Stewart (if Martha Stewart were trans, as nellie as the day is long & Jewish!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There are few questions I won't answer, you've but to ask.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You'd like a lover that won't drive you crazy (perchance a bit crazy, but in the best possible of ways)
You like a bit (or a lot) of kink
You value true connection & affection
You are an artist, writer or musician who likes to connect with other artists, writers, creative types for inspiration, creative support, or collaboration
You like long sensual sessions
You're interested in helping a novice plant some roses
You know how to run a hot tub chemical free (you'll get use of my hot tube in exchange should this interest you!)
I've intrigued you & you think we'd get along