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25 Indianapolis, IN Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 20–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 3
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Full figured
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Fluently), German (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Updated 1/2015. Don't trust the bisexual tag; I consider myself more queer. I'm interested in all genders, for friends, friends with benefits and casual dating. I'm married, polyamorous and in several loving, committed relationships.

Type-1 diabetic, queer, musician, doodler, writer, gamer, nerd, roleplayer, dancer, reader, death-defier, adrenaline junkie, worrywart, and rhythm-game expert.

What makes life worth living to me? My friends. Sex and all its outrageous, messy trappings. Music and making it. Reading. Learning. Strange clothes.

I am voll suß, nerdy, and a cynical optimist
What I’m doing with my life
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Transplant from PA to Indianapolis, IN -- I've lived here for about 2 1/2 years. I work as a contractor in the wireless technology field. I intend to run out my contract and hopefully move to another tech or writing job if I'm lucky.

I'm reading constantly and writing less than I should.

I make music sometimes on the piano; I love to sing and love all types of dance, current class: pole dancing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing, video games (especially rhythm games,) words, bumping into stuff
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The giant tattoo of an eye on the inside of my forearm.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: A Clockwork Orange, 1984, Harry Potter series, Dark Tower 1-3, Watchmen, the Dark Elf Trilogy, Ender's Game, Locke and Key , Chew, Brave New World, The Handmaid's Tale, Battle Royale, Richard III, Of Mice and Men, Love Medicine, Wide Sargasso Sea ... and many more.

Movies: School of Rock, , Star Wars, Sweeney Todd, My Neighbor Totoro, Spirited Away, Aladdin, Kinsey, Miss Congeniality, Legally Blonde, Interview with a Vampire, Secretary, Pan's Labyrinth, Zack and Miri Make A Porno, I Love You, Man The Image, A Good Old-Fashioned Orgy, Exit Through the Gift Shop, Dear Zachary, Paris is Burning, The Babadook, The Lego Movie, Guardians of the Galaxy

TV: Arrested Development, Metalocalypse, 30 Rock, Parks and Recreation, Whose Line Is It Anyway? The Office - US, Bob's Burgers, Archer, Star Trek: TNG, shows about food, controversial programming, Comedy Bang Bang, Blackish, Review, The State, Reno 911, The Mindy Project

Music: Rammstein, Eisbrecher, Queen, Aerosmith, Led Zeppelin, KMFDM, Billy Talent, Kamelot, Stratovarius, System of a Down, Infected Mushroom, Zeromancer, Sigur Rós, Lords of Acid, Ludo, MC Frontalot, Aesop Rock, Puscifer, Control Machete, Kabuto the Python, Tech N9ne, Krizz Kaliko, most rappers signed to Strange Music, Venom, WarHorse, Floor, Sleep, Bongzilla, Uncle Acid and the Deadbeats, Godflesh, Ministry, Eye Hate God, Electric Wizard, King Diamond, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Astor Piazolla, Barcelona, Audioslave, Tenacious D, Schaffer the Darklord

Food: I'm not picky - but I really like chicken fajitas and Crystal Light Iced Tea. Cucumbers, cheese, bread. Sushi, even the weird stuff. I'm all about trying new, weird foods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, alone time, the internet, words, sex and death as subjects for poetry (bonus: incense)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, yesterday, other people's feelings, tomorrow, food
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cleaning or maybe out doing something fun, having a few drinks. Having dates with my poly family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I enjoy dirty rap songs. I'm a crazy cat lady. I take pole dancing lessons.
You should message me if
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You want to make a cool nerdy friend. You speak Spanish. You live in Indianapolis and want to help me learn the city. You are an independent, liberal-minded woman; you are self-aware and unusual. You are okay with the fact that I am married and in an open relationship/polyamorous. You're willing to be honest about your feelings and work within the network of my current relationships.

What I'm looking for: New friends of any kind (all orientations - pan - GQ and trans folks - kink-friendly) in my area and women of all kinds for friendships and possible short-term, casual dating. Not looking to trade pics, cyber or Skype. Looking to develop a friendship first of all. I'm in several happy, committed relationships and I'm just looking for occasional dates and hangs. Especially interested in tattooed and alternative folk, nerds and long-haired men. Also, friendship must precede sex.

You want to dance or speak Spanish with me. You like video games and pop culture. You know metal.

Note: If you send me a message of "hey" "how are you" "hello" or any other bland greeting, I will not respond. Come up with something a little more engaging, yeah?

Be present in the conversation.