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24 F Indianapolis, IN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Fluently), German (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
New profile after long hiatus. Don't trust the bisexual tag; I consider myself more queer. I'm interested in all genders.

Type-1 diabetic, queer, musician, doodler, writer, gamer, nerd, roleplayer, dancer, reader, death-defier, adrenaline junkie, worrywart, and rhythm-game expert.

What makes life worth living to me? My friends. Sex and all its outrageous, messy trappings. Music and making it. Reading. Learning. Strange clothes.

I am voll suß, nerdy, and a cynical optimist
What I’m doing with my life
Majored in English and Spanish, recent college grad. Trying to break into publishing/doing anything related to writing, reading and translation. Recently moved to Indianapolis after getting married; still learning the city and looking for new friends.

I'm reading constantly and writing less than I should.

I make music sometimes but not very often. I want to sing more and rap some more too.
I’m really good at
dancing, video games (especially rhythm games,) words, bumping into stuff
The first things people usually notice about me
The giant tattoo of an eye on the inside of my forearm.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A Clockwork Orange, 1984, Harry Potter series, Dark Tower 1-3, Vampire Chronicles series, Watchmen, the Dark Elf Trilogy, Ender's Game, The Scarlet Letter, Brave New World, The Handmaid's Tale, Battle Royale, Richard III, Of Mice and Men, Love Medicine, Wide Sargasso Sea ... and many more.

Movies: School of Rock, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, American Psycho, Sweeney Todd, Wedding Crashers, My Neighbor Totoro, Spirited Away, Aladdin, Kinsey, Miss Congeniality, Legally Blonde, Dune, Interview with a Vampire, Secretary, Pan's Labyrinth, Meatballs, Botched, Zack and Miri Make A Porno, I Love You, Man Fanboys, Gladiator, the first Matrix movie, The Image, Quills, A Good Old-Fashioned Orgy, Exit Through the Gift Shop, Dear Zachary, Paris is Burning.

TV: Arrested Development, Metalocalypse, 30 Rock, Parks and Recreation, Whose Line Is It Anyway? The Office - US and UK, Bob's Burgers, Archer, Star Trek: TNG, Twin Peaks, shows about food, stand-up comedy, American Dad, Top Gear

Music: Rammstein, Eisbrecher, Combichrist, Queen, Aerosmith, Led Zeppelin, KMFDM, Billy Talent, My Chemical Romance, Kamelot, Stratovarius, System of a Down, Infected Mushroom, Zeromancer, Cherry Poppin' Daddies, Michael Bublé, Sigur Rós, Kevin Max, Lords of Acid, God Module, Ludo, MC Frontalot, Ultraklystron, Benjamin Bear, , YTCracker, Beefy, Aesop Rock, Puscifer, Control Machete, Celldweller, Deafinition, Deine Lieblingsrapper, Kabuto the Python, MadHatter, Shael Riley, Tech N9ne, Krizz Kaliko, Vampire Weekend, Tonedeff, Apathy, Service Lab, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Astor Piazolla, Barcelona, Audioslave Soundgarden, Electric Six, Tenacious D,Schaffer the Darklord

Food: I'm not picky - but I really like chicken fajitas and Crystal Light Iced Tea.
The six things I could never do without
Books, alone time, the internet, words, sex and death as subjects for poetry (bonus: incense)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex, yesterday, other people's feelings, tomorrow, food
On a typical Friday night I am
Cleaning or maybe out doing something fun, having a few drinks
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I enjoy dirty rap songs. I'm a crazy cat lady.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want to make a cool nerdy friend. You speak Spanish. You live in Indianapolis and want to help me learn the city. You are an independent, liberal-minded woman; you are self-aware and unusual. You are okay with the fact that I am married and in an open relationship.

What I'm looking for: New friends of any kind (all orientations - pan - GQ and trans folks - kink-friendly) in my area and women of all kinds for friendships and possible short-term, casual dating. Not looking for a third or "unicorn." Not looking to trade pics, cyber or Skype. Looking to develop a friendship and maybe something more... I've always wanted a lover. Especially interested in tattooed and alternative folk, nerds and long-haired men. Also, friendship must precede casual sex.

You know how to dance salsa. You want to talk coding, pop culture or literature.

Note: If you send me a message of "hey" "how are you" "hello" or any other bland greeting, I will not respond. Come up with something a little more engaging, yeah?

Be present in the conversation.