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39 M Venice, CA

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Working on med school
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
“The phrases men are accustomed to repeat incessantly, end by becoming convictions and ossify the organs of intelligence.” — Goethe

On Exactitude in Science
Jorge Luis Borges, Collected Fictions

…In that Empire, the Art of Cartography attained such Perfection that the map of a single Province occupied the entirety of a City, and the map of the Empire, the entirety of a Province. In time, those Unconscionable Maps no longer satisfied, and the
Cartographers Guilds struck a Map of the Empire whose size was that of the Empire, and which coincided point for point with it. The following Generations, who were not so fond of the Study of Cartography as their Forebears had been, saw that that vast Map
was Useless, and not without some Pitilessness was it, that they delivered it up to the Inclemencies of Sun and Winters. In the Deserts of the West, still today, there are Tattered Ruins of that Map, inhabited by Animals and Beggars; in all the Land there is no other Relic of the Disciplines of Geography.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in grad school and I have a job and everything. I like to think that I burn the candle at both ends-- but I recently purchased a really nice couch and suddenly I have found time to read for pleasure and nap. (that doesn't mean that I am a couch potato by any means, but more of a couch tater-tot or a couch pommes-frites, depending on what I am reading.)

There! You will think this a dreadfully preaching letter! I suppose I have a natural tendency to preach just at present because I am overwhelmed with my work. I enjoy being a bartender, and I like to do the work and have my hand on the lever. But it is very worrying and puzzling, and I have to make up my mind to accept every kind of attack and misrepresentation. It is a great comfort to me to read the life and letters of Abraham Lincoln. I am more and more impressed every day, not only with the man’s wonderful power and sagacity, but with his literally endless patience, and at the same time unflinching resolution. --- From a letter to Kermit Roosevelt Oct. 2, 1903
I’m really good at
“There are two kinds of men, those who are capable of wonder and those who are not. I hope to God that it is the first who will forge our destiny.”
The first things people usually notice about me
Sometimes the pot should ask the kettle's opinion.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oxford American
Lapham's Quarterly
Hayes Carll
"Conditions Uncertain & Likely to Pass Away"
De La soul, Wu Tang,
Charlie Rich
Ginger ale
Jason Molina/Songs:Ohia/Magnolia Electric Company
"A Fan's Notes" (Basically a manual for english usage.)
"Wait until spring, Bandini."

Recently I really enjoyed "A Place Beyond the Pines."
"Check it out"
The six things I could never do without

(And The Integratron)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
“The central function of imaginative literature is to make you realize that other people act on moral convictions different from your own.” — William Empson
On a typical Friday night I am
Typically I'm on a stake-out, undercover. No one knows-- mostly it appears that I am "at work" at my "cover job" or "eating at a restaurant;" I'm very subtle during my investigations.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
In all things:

“The better part of Valour, is Discretion; in the which better part, I haue saued my life”
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
In 1957, as a joke, the BBC TV program Panorama reported a bumper harvest from the “spaghetti trees” of Ticino, Switzerland, thanks to a mild winter and the “virtual disappearance of the spaghetti weevil.”

Britons at the time knew pasta mainly as canned spaghetti with tomato sauce; hundreds of viewers called to ask for advice about growing their own trees.

The BBC reportedly told them to “place a sprig of spaghetti in a tin of tomato sauce and hope for the best.”