Eccentric INTJ, heavy on the I.
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32 • San Francisco, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 28-45
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 12:12pm
- Open relationship
- 6' 1" (1.85m)
- Body Type
- Atheism and it’s important
- Doesn’t have kids but wants them
- Has dogs
Eccentric INTJ, heavy on the I.
"Slow is smooth. Smooth is fast."
• The Intercept
• Al Jazeera English
• Science Daily
Blogs - more news on topics I like:
• NPR - The Salt
• Summer Tomato
• Michael Ruhlman
• Mark Bittman
Books - nonfiction all the way:
• Quiet: The Power of Introverts
• The Tyranny of Niceness: Unmasking the Need for Approval
• Sway: The Irresistible Pull of Irrational Behavior
• The Signal and the Noise
• The God Delusion
• Sperm Wars
• Guns, Germs, and Steel
Movies - memorable favorites include:
• Ex Machina
• Bram Stoker's Dracula
• The Fall
• What Dreams May Come
• Pan's Labyrinth
Television - only occasionally:
• Game of Thrones
• Mr Robot
Music - jazz to trip hop to fado to bossa nova:
• Julie London
• Frank Sinatra
• All India Radio
• Late Night Alumni
• Cocteau Twins
• Chet Baker
• George Winston
• Erik Satie
• David Nevue
• Cristina Branco
• Bebel Gilberto
Food - favorites include:
• French braises (okay, French everything)
• Seafood, including raw
• Spicy Cajun/Creole
• Tangy lemon desserts
• Full fat dairy like Greek yogurt, cream top milk, and real ice cream
• Great pho and bánh mì
• Intact grains, fresh herbs and produce, and endless inspiration
I feel very fortunate to live during this time of having endless information and a wonderful means of connecting with others thanks to the interwebs. I'm ravenous for information, news, culture, and the arts, so thanks, you wonderful series of tubes, you.
This leads to another important priority in my life; a skeptical outlook fueled by critical thinking. I believe this is the true measure of intelligence and that everyone can achieve more in this area. It isn't always what you know, but how you think.
Another thing I love in my life is my small, but exceptional, group of friends and mentors. Each of them has passions and ambitions that keep me inspired to continue to strive in my own life. They challenge me, surprise me, and remind me that life is a wonderfully complex adventure. Thanks once again, internet, for keeping us all close.
I also very much adore my well appointed kitchen. I'm finally at that point where I have good (and well maintained) knives, some great copper and cast iron cookware, and lots of extra toys, like an ice cream maker! I cook daily with beautiful, fresh ingredients, and feel very fortunate to eat like royalty. I have a couple ceramic crocks waiting to begin fermenting my own wine vinegars next!
Exercise is another one. I adore being active every day, as I see fitness as not only a means to longevity, but to a quality daily existence. The body, in my opinion, is very much directly linked to the mind, and both need maintaining. Sure, being all sexy-fit is great as well, but for me, that is more of a delightful bonus. Along with eating well, staying fit keeps me feeling healthy, strong, and capable of anything. I couldn't live a balanced life without it.
This brings us to sex. Just as I am passionate for food and art and learning, my sexual appetite is ever smoldering beneath the surface as well... and strongly so. I love enjoying my body and worshiping someone else's. I crave connection and release and I simply cannot imagine an existence devoid of tension, teasing, and taking.
• You lack belief in gods
• You are breathtakingly intelligent and/or beautiful and/or talented
• You strive to live an authentic life
• You enjoy an active and fit lifestyle
• You are excessively accurate in your use of language
• You are just as seductive via written word as in person
• You make it your business to be high in cultural capital
• You are more maximizer than satisficer
• You have high standards of yourself and others
• You have discerning tastes
• You are direct and bold when in pursuit of what you desire
• You are deliciously witty and/or flirtatious
• You are unapologetically romantic
• Our match percentage is notably high
Bonus points for -
• Remarkable height
• A sharp and/or rugged and/or sexy sense of personal style
• Old fashioned manners
• A notably high sex drive
• A huge co.... llection of cook books
Try messaging me, but don't get your hopes up too high if -
• You have something other in common with me than one or more television shows and the fact that you like eating food
• You have a book, music, or movie recommendation for me that would likely suit my tastes
Special note to the ladies -
• Don't be shy! I'm very open to meeting women.
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