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26 Indianapolis, IN Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:43am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
**STOP. Are you going to proposition me to have sex with you and your significant other? Please don't, because I will just delete your message. Actually just don't proposition me for sex at all.**

If you don't like exposed tats on girls, keep moving. I have a couple and plan on getting many more. I also have my septum pierced and I don't care what you think about this.

I have a wicked sense of humor and I love to make people laugh.

I love animals of all kinds and I am the fur-mom to two adorable ferrets. I also have an adopted a 2yo border collie/australian shepherd mix and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. She's my best friend and down for anything. She's the perfect adventure buddy and I love to take her pretty much anywhere she's welcome! I would have more pets if I wasn't in an apartment. I have a big bleeding heart and my place will quickly turn into a zoo if I'm not careful.

I like good beer, dive bars, meeting new people, traveling, and live music. I also draw, paint, and make mixed media art a bit.

I like to work hard and play hard.
I try to always be honest.
I wear my heart on my sleeve.
You will never have to wonder what I'm thinking because I am very frank. I have no filter and it sometimes bites me in the ass. You will either appreciate this about me or completely hate it.

I am a feminist. I don't hate men. I love men. I just think that men and women are equal in every way and should be treated as such. I am fascinated by the way gender and sex influence our roles in the world, and how this is changing. I also think there are way less differences between the sexes than we have been conditioned to believe. Don't make generalizations about women and apply them to me. I'll afford you the same luxury.

I love Reddit and I'm generally pretty nerdy. I also love NPR. I like to get news from there, and my favorite programs are "A Way With Words Radio", "Prairie Home Companion", "Car Talk", "Moth Radio Hour", "Vinyl Cafe", "Wait, Wait, Don't Tell Me", and "All Things Considered". Really, I guess all of the damn programs, huh?

I took that big personality test that seems so important, here is my result:
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently the most important thing to me is fully discovering who I am and continually pursuing my own personal happiness. I spend a lot of time on introspection.

I'm the mom to a 6yo boy of whom I have shared custody with his father. (Is this an intimidating thing? My son is an amazing, hilarious, intelligent, well-behaved, and well-rounded human being. I don't have any "baby daddy drama".) I absolutely adore my child, but motherhood does not define me.

I am the property manager of an apartment complex and I love my job. I'm definitely very career and goal-oriented.

I like to dance, spend time with my friends, ride my bike, go to concerts, and spend as much time enjoying the outdoors as possible. I love camping, hiking, boating, swimming, etc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Treating people with respect. Trying new things. Planning adventures. Listening and talking. Relating to people. Snuggling adorable animals. Snaking my way through a crowd to get closer to the stage. Giving advice. Not judging people, and having an open mind. Camping. Dancing like no one's watching. Singing in the car. Using my crock pot. Forgiving, but never forgetting. Vocabulary. Puzzles of all kinds.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a big voice. The volume of my voice is naturally just a little higher, and I have a lot to say. I also get a lot of comments on my eyes, because they're BIG and GREEN(ish)! I am alpha as fuck. I curse like a sailor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Media is so important to me! I am very passionate about my "favorite things" so us having these in common would be great!

Books: I LOVE to read but lately I hardly have time. I am huge fan of Harry Potter. I am also really into anything by Philip Pullman; The "His Dark Materials" trilogy was hugely influential on me as a young adult. I'm mostly into reading sci-fi/fantasy, but I like other stuff too... I most recently finished "The Casual Vacancy" by JK Rowling and "The Leftovers" by Tom Perrotta.

Movies: Indie flicks, dramas, foreign films, musicals. Some of my favorites include "Repo! The Genetic Opera" and "Pan's Labyrinth". I'm also a huge fan of Jim Henson and I adore "The Dark Crystal" and "Labyrinth". Anything dark and/or weird will inevitably hook me.

Shows: I loved LOST, and I've been watching Once Upon a Time. I also like most of HBO's programming: Girls, True Blood, Game of Thrones. I just finished watching all of "The Guild" on Netflix. I don't watch much cable, as it's all reality TV garbage. I also love anime. Some of my favorite series include: "Full Metal Alchemist", "High School of the Dead", "FLCL", and "Darker than Black". Cartoons in general really. Spongebob, Adventure Time, Regular Show, Powerpuff Girls, Family Guy, Robot Chicken, etc.

Music: I can find something I like in any genre. Mostly I like an overall upbeat sound. I am an indie darling and I have a special penchant for female vocalists. My favorite bands of the moment include: METRIC (saw them last summer in concert and was blown away), Portugal. The Man, CHVRCHES, The Wombats, Ted Leo & the Pharmacists, Tilly and the Wall, Matt and Kim, Rise Against, Joy Formidable, Sleigh Bells, Cults, Santigold, Radiohead, Deap Valley, Nico Vega, Jagwar Ma, Menomena, Red Hot Chili Peppers, The Shins, Neutral Milk Hotel, Fruit Bats, MGMT, Bloc Party, Frightened Rabbit, Caspian, Sulfjan Stevens, Explosions in the Sky, Cursive, Minus the Bear, Manchester Orchestra, Bright Eyes, Rancid, The Rolling Stones, the Ramones, Muse, Smashing Pumpkins, Airborne Toxic Event, The Flaming Lips blah blah blah. I could keep going.
If you have Spotify, you can check out my favorite songs here:

I REALLY love live music, so if that is something we have in common that would be awesome!

Food: Oh, jeez. Anything and everything. :) I especially love spicy food, ethnic food, and sushi! Yes! I am honestly the least picky eater I know. Get it all in my belly.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Coffee
2. My family
3. My free time
4. My friends
5. Freedom of Speech
6. Dessert
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. Who I am and where I'm going, how I'm getting there.

- I've come to realize this answer is as cliche as all get-out, but it still remains true.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With some good company; exploring, or drinking, or listening to music. Why not all of the above?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not a robot.
You should message me if
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You're not going to use the stupid instant messenger.
You recognize me from real life and want to laugh about it.
You like what you saw here, and you have your shit together.
You actually like DOING THINGS. Homebodies need not apply. I am very active. Not saying I can't get down on some cuddles and Netflix a few times a week, but the weekends are mine and I maximize the free time I have.
You live within an hour of Indianapolis.
You are into taking trips, whether of the physical or psychedelic kind.