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33 Brea, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 27
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Friends say I'm very calm and patient, so I figure I'd start with that. But, they also say I'm prone to my mind racing off on different subjects. Hence, I'm a creative type.

I like to think I'm reserved, and dedicated. There's things I want in life and I'm going to get that, which is why I'm here.

For as long as I can remember the visual arts have called to me, especially so if it tells a story, and I've embraced it as best I can by becoming a digital artist. I have a love of painting, drawing, comics, animation and more. Alphonse Mucha, Craig Mullins, Ian McCaig, those names have meaning to me as both inspirations and a goal that I'm still striving to obtain.

I'm very much a skeptic, into critical thinking, science based medicine, politics, etc. Now, this is not the same as dismissing everything offhand, but just show me the evidence. A world where people based opinions on properly done science, no agendas, is a place that sounds better to me. Overcome Occam's razor, extraordinary claims, and all that. I can have strong views, but like to back them up with evidence before I subject people to them. But, most importantly, I respect others opinions, especially in areas that regard to more subjective human topics.

I have traveled, mostly through Asia, and plan to make my next big trip a roundabout trip through Europe, and this time I'll remember to bring my sketchbook. There's places I want to see before the sea swallows them.

Part of the reason I'm on here is I need an excuse to cook more. I've made such delectables as Irish cream cupcakes to Japanese restaurant style ramen with braised pork. I want friends and someone close to share it with, and maybe pitch in for ingredients.

I love teas, coffee, and strangely enough whiskey instead of beer. Usually coffee concoctions with names much longer than my own, and teas that are both delicate and strong. But, a good root beer can be harder to come by than either.
What I’m doing with my life
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Starting my own game studio, and losing way too much sleep over it.

Recently lost a lot of weight, hitting the goal weight I've been working towards for years. I'm not as athletic yet, but now that the weight is off I can focus on putting back on some muscle.
I’m really good at
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Drawing, writing, and cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a rather tall and broad shouldered Asian. Second is probably the hat, which I have taken to wearing. Finally the strong bass voice that I've cultivated with way too much singing along with musical soundtracks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've got a wide variety of favorites, but here's a few notables:

Books: Various science fiction and fantasy classics, Perdido Street Station & The Scar, The Dresden Files series, A Song of Ice and Fire series, Robert Frost Poems. A lot of shorts from Hemingway.

Movies: The usual science fiction and fantasy classics, Firefly, Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog, most Pixar films, the later Dreamworks animations.

Music: Showtunes, soundtracks, a capella music, music that mixes traditional orchestra with electronic music and processing.

Kind of a sucker for when movies use seemingly out of place jazz songs in place of all audio for crazy moments.

Food: Pasta with cream or light sauces, Japanese ramen shops (Shin Sen Gumi, Ajisen, and Santuoka!), croquettes, kielbasa, and anything I feel like baking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sketchbook, computer, my dependable economy car, pasta, podcasts.

And, um, the internet?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to craft the next story.

How do I make characters that are archetypal and easy to connect emotionally, without being cliche.

Should this plot point be revealed before or after another?

What color is the rim light for an object when the light hitting is reflecting from a purple surface?

Why aren't there more Asians in movies and TV?

"...When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up." - C. S. Lewis

I know, I have a lot of deep thoughts. Sometimes I--oh look, kittens!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Staying indoors snuggled up with a tea and a book, movie. Or out for some strange adventures with friends.

The club and bar scene just isn't for me, I tried it and it's not my style. It's also for the safety of said club goers, my horrid dancing could probably kill by way of sympathy pains.
You should message me if
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You're looking for some conversation that might turn into something more.