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71 • Clinton, NJ • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 6:41pm
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Christianity, and laughing about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Might want kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
Life is too short to keep spinning my wheels. If you knew my last name, this play on words would make more sense. My intent here is to have face to face meetings, and ultimately a relationship. I rate interesting profiles 5 stars. As a result of a constant lack of replies to my messages, I usually wait for you to simply send me a simple "Hi", and/or rate me 4 or 5 stars. This is especially true if I am not within your indicated age range.
My background, experiences, and interests are very diverse. I enjoy learning and doing things. My background includes having been a mental engineer [high school science teacher], owning my own real estate firm [GRI], biological research, chemistry, acting [films and plays], and having done surgery, radiology, orthopedics, medical laboratory procedures, pharmacology, diagnosing, and prescribing. I also enjoy creative artistic pursuits, cultural activities, music, travel, photography, computer technology, home remodeling/repairing, sports [not a fanatic], representing artists, publishing their prints, and dancing.
Originally I am from the Midwest, I have also lived in Waukegan, San Diego, Wisconsin, and Tokyo. My travels have included several countries in Asia, parts of Europe and Russia [invited by Gorbachev to represent the U.S.A.], plus all 50 states. As always I continue to actively enjoy life, stimulating conversations, and serendipitous adventures.
Thankfully my cat, or am I hers... she adopted me, is an enjoyable and entertaining friend. Should you be interested, my Photos section has a photo album for her. It includes more about how I was able to get her to go from being a wild feral cat to a lap cat. I like animals, and have had both dogs and cats, along with a variety of other pets. Presently I am teaching a kitten how to meow. She was abandoned by her mother before she taught her how to make sounds. Update, she now meows; except not exactly like most cats. She also gets into and explores every thing.
I am also very active outdoors and in the surrounding areas of New York City and Philadelphia. This includes being a member of a Polo Social Club. You can find links to my Meetup groups [hiking, singles, dinning, photography, photo walks, Photoshop, and more], and Adobe User Groups at www.rjadventures.com/ .
Photography, walking, hiking, archaeological excavations, treasure hunting, creative healthful cooking and baking, dining out [hole in the wall to formal], dancing [casual to Victorian Balls], kayaking, canoeing, movies, charity events, camping and/or hotels, traveling [from spontaneous day or weekend to foreign trips], character acting, voice overs, and simply staying at home are some of the activities I enjoy. Do you enjoy doing, or are interested in possibly doing some of these?
Being naturally curious, I enjoy learning and exploring. This includes going off the normal pathways to meet, interact with, and learn others.
At the present time my highest possible match, as determined by looking at my own profile, is 93% Match - 97% Friend - 0% Enemy. This causes me to wonder how a straight guy seeking a female match can be a 93% match to himself. So my dear Watson, what is the 7% solution? Does this mean that to the OKCupid computers our sexual preference is only 7% of our match total?
How can the little thumbnails of other members, that are on the right side our profiles, indicate that we are more or less pure? Do we do start out here as being 99.9% pure and then degrade from there?
You should realize that the ability to enjoy communicating is critical to sustaining a romantic and mutually physically attractive relationship. Also of equal importance is the ability to have effective communications, that include the ability to flexibly disagree, without being caustic, demeaning or vindictive. Having an optimistic outlook on life, combined with the ability to observe and appreciate the beauty in all that surrounds us is a real plus. Realistically understanding that the aforementioned will probably need constant mutual cultivation, in that nobody is perfect; learning, forgiving, and forgetting are all relationship corner stones worth building upon.
If you simply view my profile, after I have viewed and rated your profile 5 stars, I will understand that by not saving me to your Favorites, you are indicating your lack of interest. Then, to try to prevent the umpteen OKC pop-ups alerting me to your signing-in, adding to your profile, and answering Improve Match questions, I will change my rating to one star, and hide you profile.
Reality is that if we truly click, then doing anything, including nothing, will be more enjoyable than doing it by ourselves. If you can relate to this, and the above paragraph, then we already have an understanding of something worth exploring. Are you also seeking a mutually appreciative, affectionate relationship?
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