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2in7billion

41 M Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:03am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Do you ever get the feeling we're just a couple of human needles looking for each other in a ginormous haystack of online dating profiles?

If we like each other, we don't act elusive or play 'hard to get'. We believe in calmly discussing, not arguing. We're apologetic & forgiving. We love closeness, intimacy, & cuddling (yes, I'm a hetero swm who really does like cuddling :-)

Friends, acquaintances, & clients say beautiful things about my personality, intellect, insights, & sense of humor - I just try to be the best me that I can be.

I'm looking for the 'real thing', not just hookups. And the 'real thing' is much more difficult to find, which is why I'm here - I hope you're here for the same reason.

I enjoy my job & make more than enough to comfortably support myself. I love playing tennis. I also love romance, passion, and spoiling (& being spoiled by) you. I like subtle, cerebral, sarcastic, quick-witted, observational humor. I'm a good listener & enjoy easy, open communication.

I'm an INFP personality type (click the link - it's nice having something so special in common with someone as cool as Johnny Depp). Unconventional, talented, kind, confident, & humble.

I'm a simple (in a nicely complex sort of way), monogamous good guy who's not intimidated by anyone, and who always stands up for myself, for you, & for others (including animals). Brainy, fit, & strong - and if you appreciate my sense of humor, I love making you laugh!

And you? Cute, communicative, sweet, sincere, & monogamous, with a good sense of humor & some emotional maturity - you know how to be silly & serious. Your personality is more important than your physical appearance - you're not arrogant, loud, angry, critical, or a 'princess'.

Ideally we'd meet by accidentally bumping into each other at a grocery store, spilling our items, helping each other pick them up, & feeling a mutual connection with chemistry - maybe we can do something similar here - got groceries?

I don't mind if you have baggage (I think everyone has enough to fill an airport luggage carousel) - just be totally open to sharing your feelings & emotions. Chemistry & patience are essential for both of us, and we're always positive, appreciative, supportive, & encouraging with each other. ♥
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an independent computer consultant, training hundreds of clients all around the Bay Area in personal computers (Mac & PC), mobile devices (iOS & Android phones & tablets), Wi-Fi, the Internet & cloud computing, search engine optimization & search engine marketing (SEO / SEM), and more. I enjoy being able to help so many people, and our interactions are more personal than typical business relationships. (Here and here are links to my business websites, and here's a link to my Yelp business listing if you'd like to know more about me and what I do (be sure to read Yelp's 'filtered' reviews too).

For outdoor exercise & fitness, my favorites are tennis & running - perhaps we can introduce each other to some fun things we can enjoy together.

And - like most of us - I'm usually trying to make the world a better place in whatever ways I can.
I’m really good at
- being a loyal, supportive, encouraging, reliable friend
- listening and helping
- teaching gently with patience
- making people laugh without causing spontaneous combustion
The first things people usually notice about me
that i like to compliment things i notice about them
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- books: i'm not exactly a 'typical' reader - i research things i want/need to know for myself and others, identifying the substance, skipping the filler, and extrapolating - my interests include medicine, nutrition, fitness, law, technology, and more

- movies: i tend to prefer well-written, well-produced, & well-acted drama and suspense - i especially appreciate a really good premise - faves include 'three days of the condor', 'the fugitive', & 'secret window'

- shows: not a big tv watcher - mostly reruns of seinfeld & columbo (the two best tv shows ever!), some sports, and an occasional movie

- music: most anything reasonably contemporary that's easy on the ears - yes to a nice melody combined with good lyrics and a beautiful performance, totally no to rap & hip hop - fave singers include gloria estefan, celine dion, & josh groban

- food: high protein, low carbs - wild red salmon, fruits (esp. bananas & berries), veggies (esp. dark leafy greens & tomatoes), milk, eggs, & other dairy, cinnamon, spicy foods, and most things that are nutritious, delicious, & lightweight
The six things I could never do without
(i don't believe in 'never do without' - i believe in 'forever do with')
- health
- love
- miracles
- kindness
- friendship
- communication
- intimacy
- patience
- forgiveness
- humor
- exercise
- happiness
- and infinitely more
I spend a lot of time thinking about
seemingly everything (possibly even more)
On a typical Friday night I am
usually working with clients, having dinner with friends, listenig to live music, or working/relaxing/other at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
just between me, you, & the seven billion other people on the internet?
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you think we're a good match...

...and...

...you want to talk on the phone & meet for something simple where we can relax & get to know each other a bit...

...and...

...you desire a lasting, passionate, monogamous relationship with a good guy ♥