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Vespario

32 Sacramento, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:33am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi thar! I'm a honest and passionate guy, and a bit of a geek. I like my guys a bit dorky with a good sense of humor and gamers are always a plus! I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone that I can eventually settle down with. I'm obsessed with most everything Japanese besides anime (language, culture, games, music), especially music. Not much for mainstream music though.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working and going to school. I have 2 or 3 semesters left til I get my degree in horticulture. I'm a busy beaver, but I can make time for anyone =)

I've been growing exotic succulents as a hobby which goes hand in hand with what I'm doing in school. I even built a decent sized greenhouse. There's just a few too many plants to keep track of now and it keeps me busy for sure XD
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Artistic input, detail oriented things, written Japanese, making people laugh, cooking kinda, and a lot of sadistically difficult video games cause I'm hell bent lol.

Diving head first and neck deep into "hobbies". I don't think Scorpios know how to do things casually XD
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my eyes or my height.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: Japanese and Thai tied for 1st, Mexican in 3rd.

TV: I feel like naming shows is irrelevant now, especially since everything gets cancelled after the 2nd season!! I watch a lot of comedy and stand up and some sci-fi. I love sharp witty humor. I'm also a big RuPaul fan.

Movies: I seriously hardly ever remember movies I liked XD A couple that come to mind are The Labyrinth, Inception, Running with Scissors, Sombie Strippers lol...I know there's more...

Music: Too much (no really), but I don't listen to the radio and hardly any domestic music anymore. I'm really big into J-core and Doujin music. If you know anything of that, you just got hella points! Some non Japanese artists I like: Moloko/Roisin Murphy, Esthero, Xploding Plastix, Meat Beat Manifesto, 12 Rounds, Bong-Ra, Alpha.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music
Internet
Caffeine
Friends
Nostalgia
Carmex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Video game nonsense, brainstorming possibilities for creative outlets, wondering if that plant I didn't feel like getting to is dying.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working cause I work retail, lol. On a retail "Friday", staying up really late and nerding out to my games and music and possibly drinking. On a day off, doing everything else and hitting up my peeps =)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm living at home again. It was too stressful to afford living on my own while paying for school out of pocket. I'm perfectly secure with my self staying here and will be moving back out when I get my degree. Hope this isn't a problem!

I've also started drag as a hobby, and diving in head first definitely applies here! And while I don't really have plans to perform, I'm very new to this so who knows where it will go! Don't worry, I don't look busted ;-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You're funny, witty, and employed.
-Cute nerds are a plus =)

Pet peeve of mine, please say something more than "Hi how're you?" and the like. I'm looking for a connection, not just a pretty face, and there's a lot of info here to work with.

OR

Drag queen friends! I don't have a lot of gay friends in general, I'm like Sharon Needles in a crowd of gays. Weird, unconventional, yup, that's me! And there's only so many ideas you can bounce off female coworkers before they get sick of it lol.