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Vesser

53 M Richmond, VA

I’m looking for

  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 22, 2013
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Random thoughts floating through mind today.

Wondering about myself now for some reason. Why is it so difficult to find friendships anymore? Is it me? Or is it others, probably a combo of both. I am very hesitant to be open to new people at first, and not sure if that turns them off wanting to be friends or even lovers, but am trying to work on that issue. Perhaps I have been hurt or rejected too many times in past or just plain ignored. Dunno, but the close friends I have, I treasure dearly and always keep them in my thoughts.

I have been told by friends they do not understand why I am single or attract the loosers and/or psychos. Maybe I have if you psycho, here I am tattooed on my forehead, but for the life of me I cannot see it there. Who knows, looking for someone who can accept me for all my foilables and to get to know the real me.

Most people consider me warm and caring, and not one to be just out for self gratification. I have a sacarastic wit which does take some time to get use to, but hopefully you'll get the joke. I am an old fart, by gay standards, and most guys my age are going for the 21 year old twinks (I wouldn't turn one down but not limiting myself). I am an overweight guy, so if you cannot look past that and get to know me, then keep on going on by. You are missing out.

I am funny, open minded, and accepting
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well I am a state worker, trying to keep my job by the tipy tips of my fingernails, and praying I will see a raise again before I retire. Other than job, I have varied interests which we can discuss if you are interested.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people feel comfortable (right now have str8 guy here comfortable enough to run around naked). wink (plus he is hot hot hot and got me to complete this profile crap)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am fat. But once they get past that first impression they realize that I am a good person to know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am pretty much an open book just ask and my big mouth will answer
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books
Music
Friends
My pets
worry free state of mind
maybe you????
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
too many things run through this poor brain at any one time, so give me something to think about
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am either hanging with friends or home with the pets
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
open book here, not much i keep hidden -
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
hey give it a shot, you never know, at the very least we could be friends or we could be more. we can always find something to chat about