I am looking for someone special, But I am also interested in making friends as well. :) So, if U think we might get along as just friends, that's great ^-^ ; if U think we might get along well as more than friends, wonderful! ;) Please, don't forget to message! ;P .
In a relationship, I'm looking for something fun, and serious. ... I've written a general "what I'm looking for" essay. Its important to me, and also adds to this category, so here it is.
Before I say much, the first thing I should say is this: all these things that I'm am seeking, I am also offering. And, as we all know, love takes time; and the experience of finding that someone is involved and long, and also half the fun. So, for now I'm looking for someone who shares my views, finds my insites intriguing, is sweet, and with whom I can share a grand fun time! ;)
To help with all this, here's some other info. ...
I am looking for a man with a big heart. Someone who is responsible, and a gentle, patient, kind, intuitive, respectful, understanding, open-minded, and mature soul. Also a family minded person, and someone who can stand their ground, while listening to reason, and the adaptability to change their mind when new information changes their understanding on a situation, & someone who can be reasonable with and recognize compromises. And, if the opinions of family and friends are important, then he should be able to keep this from interfering with the relationship, irregardless of anything else.
I'm looking for a partner in my life.
Part of this means that I'm looking for someone to be my play partner! I always want to do new things - so someone with a good scoping ability for fun new things is someone I'd love to meet! I'm not so good at scoping, but I love to live any adventure- something new everyday would make my day everyday. There are some key things that I love: nature, being IN nature, board & card games, party games such as charades, general silliness, visiting people or volunteering at places such as nursing homes, reading writing and tv-watching my favorite ganras (nature/history/cultural stories & mythologies/intriguing biographies/fantacy/sci-fi/action/apocalypse), and anything that gets the blood pumping (including but not limited to: playing any sports game, action movies, haunted houses & hay rides, the wacky and weird, bungee jumping, a new project, practicing martial arts WITH FEELING :) , and so much more. I do love bonfires and camping/fishing). I am shy in groups and public places, but this does not mean that I don't enjoy them, in fact, I love these things! The more the merrier; groups tend to have crazy fun!
Being a partner also includes being a comforter. This means someone who will respect me, be kind to me, listen to what I have to say, care for what's in my heart - no matter what it may be, and be understanding and patient with me, and stand up for me and by my side. Someone with open arms and a shoulder to lean-on when the day turns sour, and a firm but malleable guiding hand when I'm at a loss; someone who won't give up or run when things turn tough or even confusing, but instead stands resolutely by my side, ready to take on whatever comes. Someone willing to help me through the hard things - through thick and thin - with those moments/times when life seems to explode, and even with those day-to-day irritations that sometimes aggravate life. This also means that both parties take care of their responsibilities, and don't forget to ask for help when it's needed.
Another aspect of partnership is the definition of the words partner & partnership: 'a person who takes part in an undertaking with another or others ... with shared risks and profits.' 'An association of two or more people as partners'. Both people should feel inclination toward doing their best to contribute their best to the relationship itself and all that it involves, and to full fill their own responsibilities. I don't expect the moon, but also I don't expect irresponsibility and ill-manners and poor attitude. Just looking for someone who is mature enough to have concern for taking care of the basics when it comes to both love and survival, the maturity to endeavor and appreciate the endeavors of both parties in meeting those needs, and the ability to understand that we all make mistakes and have bad days and that sometimes there is a need to have to "roll with the punches". Overall, I am looking for an appreciative, respectful, and openminded partner, with a penchant for happiness and fun!
I have seen a lot in life, and I'm looking for that person to call my home. I have a big heart, and I'm looking for someone to share all my heart with - the right someone, where we are right for each other. I'm someone who cares and will be loyal no matter what. I'm very understanding and patient, provided I'm not left anxious.
I am a unique person, with my own views and approach to life. I do love uniqueness and am always looking for that something or other that's different, odd, or otherwise stands out. It also means that my tastes on most things in life will probably be unusual. For the wrong person this will be off-putting. For the right person, this can be an experience, an entertaining adventure of discovery, and a source of various types of humor throughout time and probably at least on a daily basis; something I myself would find enjoyable in another.
Within a relationship, I am seeking someone who wants to be there for me, to back me up, and to stand by what matters to me, as well as the relationship, and decisions made as a couple, as well as his own cares. Someone who will be there no matter what, such as in hard times, and through such difficulties as loved ones of different mindsets and cares disputing a decision. I will stand by the side of anyone I love, through anything, and I have the savvy to resolve many complications in life that can't be walked-away from, albeit my solutions are often unexpected (but made with great care and as near total encompassment as I can gather!).
I understand that, to most people, family is their everything, and I will respect and adore this, but a word of caution; family members who cause a lot of interference is not something I will tolerate. Parents have their life, and their children have their own lives. Pressure from family to do what they want is something I will not tolerate. There are complicated reasons for this, and I will answer any questions regarding it if asked. Just know that I have no issues with family being a huge part of anyone's life, and in fact welcome this as a healthy part of life. I'd also accept with open arms being "welcomed into the fold", provided that I am listened to; this is in fact something I hope to find in my life-partner, in time. I have just seen the horrific affects of pushy family-members more than I care to remember. I do appreciate and understand that people will have a close-knit, loving, respectful family, filled with their own unique people and quirks ;) , and feel that getting to know all these people (maybe someday!) would be lots of fun! As long as we all respect one another. This is one of the joys of a relationship; and I will respect and have consideration for these facts-of-family, and expect respect and consideration for myself and my circumstances in return. And all of this should be reflected in any solid relationship, and always handled with.
If you find my profile compelling, I look forward to your message! I am often told I write to much, but, be assured, there is plenty more to talk about! ;D Truly, there is never enough time to do just about everything, but of course, take what you can. And have fun! Anyway, if you got this far, looking foreward to your message. :)
As for friends, Well, everything is better in company. If Ur nice, we'll get along. :) I really enjoy quirky people.
I really want to find people to do physically active outdoors stuff with, namely, biking, rock climbing, and proper hiking. I haven't done either of the last two before, but I've been itching to since I was young - I love using my body and feeling all the muscles work! And working up a decent sweat is healthy :) and leaves you feeling goooood ^-^ . And I love being out in nature just as much. So, of Ur up for that, I'm sure we'll get along well - just don't forget I'm a novice, so either we can learn together, or if Ur an expert perhapse U'll enjoy showing me the ropes? :)