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VestaMorgan

25 Rockford, IL Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it matters a lot
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Medicine
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a very playful and fun person. But I start out shy at first. I take time to warm up to someone, but very much enjoy getting to know new people. I like to get out into town and have fun, and I enjoy the company of friends and family, and really enjoy chilling at home with family and good friends. As for entertainment; with good company, just about anything can be fun, though my favorite things to do are: to go out exploring new places and areas; arboreatums, museums, zoos, and theme parks; card, board, and party games, perhas over a drink, or not, and movie marathons (themed meals as a bonus!), over a drink, or not. :) . That being said, I don't drink often, but I'll happily drink socially once in a while, or alot socially for a week or so once in a blue moon. I do love being shown and taught new things, as well.

I am looking for someone special, But I am also interested in making friends as well. :) So, if U think we might get along as just friends, that's great ^-^ ; if U think we might get along well as more than friends, wonderful! ;) Please, don't forget to message! ;P .

In a relationship, I'm looking for something fun, and serious. ... I've written a general "what I'm looking for" essay. Its important to me, and also adds to this category, so here it is.

Before I say much, the first thing I should say is this: all these things that I'm am seeking, I am also offering. And, as we all know, love takes time; and the experience of finding that someone is involved and long, and also half the fun. So, for now I'm looking for someone who shares my views, finds my insites intriguing, is sweet, and with whom I can share a grand fun time! ;)

To help with all this, here's some other info. ...

I am looking for a man with a big heart. Someone who is responsible, and a gentle, patient, kind, intuitive, respectful, understanding, open-minded, and mature soul. Also a family minded person, and someone who can stand their ground, while listening to reason, and the adaptability to change their mind when new information changes their understanding on a situation, & someone who can be reasonable with and recognize compromises. And, if the opinions of family and friends are important, then he should be able to keep this from interfering with the relationship, irregardless of anything else.

I'm looking for a partner in my life.
Part of this means that I'm looking for someone to be my play partner! I always want to do new things - so someone with a good scoping ability for fun new things is someone I'd love to meet! I'm not so good at scoping, but I love to live any adventure- something new everyday would make my day everyday. There are some key things that I love: nature, being IN nature, board & card games, party games such as charades, general silliness, visiting people or volunteering at places such as nursing homes, reading writing and tv-watching my favorite ganras (nature/history/cultural stories & mythologies/intriguing biographies/fantacy/sci-fi/action/apocalypse), and anything that gets the blood pumping (including but not limited to: playing any sports game, action movies, haunted houses & hay rides, the wacky and weird, bungee jumping, a new project, practicing martial arts WITH FEELING :) , and so much more. I do love bonfires and camping/fishing). I am shy in groups and public places, but this does not mean that I don't enjoy them, in fact, I love these things! The more the merrier; groups tend to have crazy fun!
Being a partner also includes being a comforter. This means someone who will respect me, be kind to me, listen to what I have to say, care for what's in my heart - no matter what it may be, and be understanding and patient with me, and stand up for me and by my side. Someone with open arms and a shoulder to lean-on when the day turns sour, and a firm but malleable guiding hand when I'm at a loss; someone who won't give up or run when things turn tough or even confusing, but instead stands resolutely by my side, ready to take on whatever comes. Someone willing to help me through the hard things - through thick and thin - with those moments/times when life seems to explode, and even with those day-to-day irritations that sometimes aggravate life. This also means that both parties take care of their responsibilities, and don't forget to ask for help when it's needed.
Another aspect of partnership is the definition of the words partner & partnership: 'a person who takes part in an undertaking with another or others ... with shared risks and profits.' 'An association of two or more people as partners'. Both people should feel inclination toward doing their best to contribute their best to the relationship itself and all that it involves, and to full fill their own responsibilities. I don't expect the moon, but also I don't expect irresponsibility and ill-manners and poor attitude. Just looking for someone who is mature enough to have concern for taking care of the basics when it comes to both love and survival, the maturity to endeavor and appreciate the endeavors of both parties in meeting those needs, and the ability to understand that we all make mistakes and have bad days and that sometimes there is a need to have to "roll with the punches". Overall, I am looking for an appreciative, respectful, and openminded partner, with a penchant for happiness and fun!

I have seen a lot in life, and I'm looking for that person to call my home. I have a big heart, and I'm looking for someone to share all my heart with - the right someone, where we are right for each other. I'm someone who cares and will be loyal no matter what. I'm very understanding and patient, provided I'm not left anxious.
I am a unique person, with my own views and approach to life. I do love uniqueness and am always looking for that something or other that's different, odd, or otherwise stands out. It also means that my tastes on most things in life will probably be unusual. For the wrong person this will be off-putting. For the right person, this can be an experience, an entertaining adventure of discovery, and a source of various types of humor throughout time and probably at least on a daily basis; something I myself would find enjoyable in another.

Within a relationship, I am seeking someone who wants to be there for me, to back me up, and to stand by what matters to me, as well as the relationship, and decisions made as a couple, as well as his own cares. Someone who will be there no matter what, such as in hard times, and through such difficulties as loved ones of different mindsets and cares disputing a decision. I will stand by the side of anyone I love, through anything, and I have the savvy to resolve many complications in life that can't be walked-away from, albeit my solutions are often unexpected (but made with great care and as near total encompassment as I can gather!).

I understand that, to most people, family is their everything, and I will respect and adore this, but a word of caution; family members who cause a lot of interference is not something I will tolerate. Parents have their life, and their children have their own lives. Pressure from family to do what they want is something I will not tolerate. There are complicated reasons for this, and I will answer any questions regarding it if asked. Just know that I have no issues with family being a huge part of anyone's life, and in fact welcome this as a healthy part of life. I'd also accept with open arms being "welcomed into the fold", provided that I am listened to; this is in fact something I hope to find in my life-partner, in time. I have just seen the horrific affects of pushy family-members more than I care to remember. I do appreciate and understand that people will have a close-knit, loving, respectful family, filled with their own unique people and quirks ;) , and feel that getting to know all these people (maybe someday!) would be lots of fun! As long as we all respect one another. This is one of the joys of a relationship; and I will respect and have consideration for these facts-of-family, and expect respect and consideration for myself and my circumstances in return. And all of this should be reflected in any solid relationship, and always handled with.

If you find my profile compelling, I look forward to your message! I am often told I write to much, but, be assured, there is plenty more to talk about! ;D Truly, there is never enough time to do just about everything, but of course, take what you can. And have fun! Anyway, if you got this far, looking foreward to your message. :)

As for friends, Well, everything is better in company. If Ur nice, we'll get along. :) I really enjoy quirky people.

I really want to find people to do physically active outdoors stuff with, namely, biking, rock climbing, and proper hiking. I haven't done either of the last two before, but I've been itching to since I was young - I love using my body and feeling all the muscles work! And working up a decent sweat is healthy :) and leaves you feeling goooood ^-^ . And I love being out in nature just as much. So, of Ur up for that, I'm sure we'll get along well - just don't forget I'm a novice, so either we can learn together, or if Ur an expert perhapse U'll enjoy showing me the ropes? :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In truth, I'm currently working most of the time. I'm a Direct Support Personnel, caring for the daily needs of developmentally disabled individuals. Something I do much love, as a profession.
When I am off and have time to do more than just sleep before returning, I try to devote some time to my projects/hobbies, including life-improvement efforts, writing books, and making time for quality-of-life things such as relaxation, reading a good book, and catching up with family. :)
I have been trying to work somewhat less, to keep free time in my schedule, and, while there are some crazy weeks once in a while, delightfully, that has been going well. :D
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
art, ingenuitive projects - throw it at me and theres a good chance i can do it if Im not pressured - , critiquing information [English major] (NOT spelling, which I'm HORRIBLE at), pulling out a lot of facts and getting to the bottom of a situation - including problems - very quickly, and, I'm a very slow reader, but I'm also very good at reading. And I can be pretty sure footed, when I'm relaxed and having fun, which is good for hiking and the woods in general :)

Being respectful and bending the rules, at the same time, and as a matter of course.
You can't really do one without the other. Life is too non-black-&-white for it to work any other way.
Often times, 2 people need your help or time, and often in clashing ways... and if its urgent for both of them, they'll appreciate you doing what you can to get things done.
Here's another way of looking at it; I like rules, and barriers. I like to flow between them like water, and to use them to jump from one to the other. Without direction its hard to find your way or to maintain traction as you walk though life. But I'm not interested in bull-dosing through them (ruining people's lives), nor in following the norm; it's not my place. I like to have adventure, and fun, and having something to do is a part of that, and, without the rules, there'd be nothing to do -.- and nothing to provide bearings. Its a fun grand maze, just there for the taking, and I love to bring people along with me for the fun and the ride! And, I'd love for someone to bring me along for their ride - it would be a whole new adventure!

Not being Hasty. I take things in stride, and I take my time. Everything is always more complicated than it seems, no matter what anyone says about it, and things always go so much faster when you take your time; taking your time means you can consider more and therefore ensures that there's so much less mess in the aftermath to clean up, and I'm not one to waste my time, I've got to much to do in my life already, lots of plans, and so little time to get it all done. So I wont be persuaded to waste my time on hasty and therefore resource-wasteful decisions.

And, I always try to consider everyone involved; it's neigh-on impossible to not have someone(s) get the short end of the stick in any situation, but at least that short end can be a little less short if everyone tries their best to be good to everyone, and I certainly try my best to do that. If everyone's lucky, when they get to their turn to have the short stick, hopefully it'll be long enough to not bother worrying about. ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Todays strong oak tree was yesterdays nut. ^.^

I'm shy.
I'm weird, and sorta awkward :P .

I like to have fun.

People often tell me I'm very giving and kind, usually pretty soon after getting to know me. But, I'm not going to claim that about myself - I have no way of knowing if its true :P .

Also, people notice that I don't know geography, except where Michigan, Wisconsin, Illinois, Florida and California, ... Indianapolis, and Chicago are. So, wherever you live, I promise I will have no idea where it is. Even if it's a well known town.

And I can't spell, like, at all, lol :p .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Firstoff, I like annimation, Anime, and Real-Action; types are - Action combined with story and Sci-Fi/Fantacy, and others.

science magazines, switchers, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Shelters of Stone, The Elevator (something), The Jade Horse, Storm Dragon series, The Immortal Instruments series, The books about the Grey Wolf line (Demon King, +), Eragon, - stuff on philosophy, psychology, science fiction, magic... :) .

Lord of the Rings series, Harry Potter Series, Thor and all the Avengers, X-men movies, Transformers movies (not the new gf though, lol), The Seeker, Dr. Who, Lie to Me, NCIS, Bones, Prehistoric Predators, Life After People, The Future is Wild, The Science of Dogs, Dr. Doolittle stuff, Flubber, Jumangi, Mrs. Doubtfire, The Secret Garden, Benjamin Button, Big Fish, The Notebook, the country 555 movie, ..

I LOVE: TV Shows: Once Upon a Time, Grim, Smallville; Anime/Manga: Bleach, Sekirei, and FairyTail; documentaries on - animals, ancient cultures such as the Easter Island, Maya, Aztec, and Inca cultures, plagues and historical social structures and economies; and real crime shows such as true story cold cases and solved murders :0 . I'm also quite into DGrey Man (Anime/Manga), animated disney, Warner Brothers movies, and documentaries of histories and biographies.

I really really enjoy these TV Channels: Food Network, Animal Planet, History, Discovery, Sci-fi, and also enjoy Hallmark, Lifetime, LMN, and some HBO.

Italian, French, Nepalese/Indian, Chinese and American are okay... Casseroles and stakes. Bacon but not much other pork. Chicken, venison, and veil. Would love to try other game like kangaroo, or ostrich.

Country, folk, pop, soft rock, jazz, classical, study music.

Favorite Songs -
~ Red High Heals
~ Somebody
~?Somebody to Lean On
~Lady & The Tramp Cell Song by Girl Dog.
(~ Mouse Song in Thumbelina)

Favorite Characters -
~ Stella - From Balto 3
- Runner ups Balto, Jenna and Borris
~ Sam - from Lord of the Rings
~ Lady & the Tramp , and the philosopher dog in the jail cage.
~Beast - Beauty & the Beast
~ Nevil & Luna - Harry Potter Series [movie and book]
~ Hiccup - How to Train Your Dragon [animation movie]
~ Bruce & Dorrie - Finding Nemo [digital animation? movie]
~ Jock & the Puffin - Swan Princess [animated movie]
(~ Cell Dogs ('specially the Philosopher and singer girl) - From)
~ Ebi, Yukenari & Miharu - Girls Bravo, S01 & S02-end [Anime]
~ Timcampi - D. Grey-man [Anime]
~ Kevin - Switchers [book]
~ All main characters from Damian Demon King [Anime [dub]]
~ All Main Bleach characters [Anime [sub
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
imagination/ingenuity
Serenity, Contentment & Joy
life & living life
love/loved ones
food and resturaunts :D (I'm not fat [yet :'( - Still :D !! ])
humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
First and foremost, though not the most often; I'm looking for a friend to share my life with. I'm looking for a serious relationship, to win though, and last through the hardships and good times of life, equally. The person i end up being with, they will be my partner, and my best friend. We should be equal to one another, they should not expect to run things nor expect me to run things; sometimes someone needs to take charge when times get complex, but in the end, that's a part of being there for one another and we should ultimately stand on even ground.
I'm looking for a person I can share more of myself with than anyone else, by a long shot. They will be someone I trust implicitly, and someone I also trust to have the brains to safely handle that trust.

Again... Todays big oak tree was yesterday's nut.

If your worried about something like... if the earth speeds up you'll gain weight - don't worry, if that happens you'll have bigger problems to deal with. The grass can always be greener, for better or worse :p .

I'm always contemplating something interesting. How numbers work, how matter works... how the concept of a line, infinity, and a sphere are all interrelated.... did that when i was around 12. Just think about the facts of life and how they interact with each other. There's some pretty wacky stuff that can come out of it, some humorous stuff too, and some stuff you could spend a week laughing at, really :p.

And... I love to organize... but can't remember where I put anything :p - can you imagine??
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hoping to have fun at a party, a movie, a camp fire... something!
And if I'm really lucky I'll actually do one of those! lol. There's gotta be people there for those to be fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well, that depends on whose asking. :)

One big one; I'm still a kid ^.^ . You wouldn't know it when you're first talking to me, but trust me, I am. It's a kid that loves to just get out and have fun. :D !

I'm sooooo very shy, but I can be very outgoing with the right peope. I'm told I'm quirky; and if I really really trust someone, they'll get to see that! ;)

Yiff.

I looove the rain, midday bright sunshine, and that bright orange morning sunshine ^-^ .

And, I love my documentaries!
And my emoticons! Don't hate on the faceys :O ! Lol :P

Another bigger thing: I've been through hard times, in the past.

(The hair isn't curly :'( - I worked hard for those curls in that one pic. )
You should message me if
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Soo, message me, if...

you think we might be able to enjoy a good conversation :) .

my profile looks interesting ;D ...

or, for any other reason :) !

So, anyway, if your up for a good time, please say hello! ;D

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