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32 Happy Valley, Hong Kong Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:56am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from med school
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I'm just an ordinary girl living an extraordinary life. :) I'm a veterinarian and I absolutely love my job, but it's definitely not the only thing I'm passionate about.

I was born and raised in Tempe, Arizona, and have lived all over the US for vet school, internship, and residency. I've traveled internationally many times, but never lived abroad prior to my move to Asia. In fact, I'd never stepped foot in Asia until the day I moved here! It's been an amazing adventure so far and I love my new city.

I play acoustic guitar and write songs. I will do anything for a friend. I am a kid at heart. I am sometimes overwhelmed by all the possibilities the future holds. I've written a full-length novel and am most of the way through a new one, the latter of which I am fully planning to publish in the near future. I am partial to New Belgium beers, Rieslings, Moscow mules, and dirty martinis...but I'll try almost anything. :) I overuse smiley faces ;) and ellipses.............and am otherwise obsessive about good grammar.

I love (in no particular order): Sunny, breezy days; windchimes; hot tubs; boats of any kind; sushi; spicy food; holding hands; laughing hysterically; inside jokes; Caribbean vacations; lazy days watching movies (especially with someone special, preferably cuddling while watching said movies); roller coasters; exploring places; instant chemistry!

There's way more to me than that. :) But it's a start!

I am looking for a guy who's intelligent (above all!), liberal or at least open-minded, and who will keep me on my toes! He should also be passionate...about life, his career, his hobbies, at least something! Bonus points for musicians, writers, political junkies, hockey lovers, world travelers, science nerds, animal lovers, and hot tattoos. Eloquence in writing and/or speaking is a major turn-on. Egregious grammatical errors are not.

Basically, I'm looking for my best friend...who I can't keep my hands off. ;) Be sexy, be smart, and be adventurous!

PS - I realize I've written an essay-bordering-on-novella here. Just blame it on my boundless enthusiasm. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a vet! My particular specialty is pretty cool, but you'll have to ask me about it if you want to know more. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Typing! Possibly my geekiest trait...I can type 150+ words per minute. Yes, it's true. I think I missed my calling as a transcriptionist.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically, a lot of people comment on my eyes. There are two other things, too, but I'll keep this G-rated. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I'm an avid novel reader, and my Kindle doesn't help my addiction. Some of my recent faves: The Invisible Bridge, Someone Knows My Name, Whale Warriors, the whole Wicked series, The Time Traveler's Wife, and A Thousand Splendid Suns. I also unabashedly love the Harry Potter series, and if you want to geek out with me over that I am TOTALLY down.

Movies: I would love to say that I love artsy independent films, but, alas, I hate them. Some of my all-time faves are Jurassic Park, Good Will Hunting, The Holiday, and Love Actually.

Shows: House of Cards, Breaking Bad, Dexter, True Blood, OITNB, Entourage, House, The Mindy Project...need I go on?

Music: I'll listen to almost anything, especially if I can sing along. I was brought up on classics like James Taylor and Paul Simon, so I am kind of a flower child at heart. :)

Food: Sushi, Thai, and Indian are at the top of my list, but I will try anything and love finding new places! Usually the spicier, the better, though I'm a little more careful in Asia!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
My friends
My pets (a dog and two kitties)
My phone
A guitar
A computer or other writing implement!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. much stuff I still need for my apartment here!

Also, I am seriously considering creating a twitter feed based on the RIDICULOUS messages I receive on here daily. You should probably reconsider if you are planning on sending me (or any other human) any of the following messages:
- I love you
- I love ur boobs
- I wanna be ur slave

I could go on, but I'll spare you.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home to walk and feed my pup, then either out with friends or home decompressing after a busy week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've written a full-length romance novel. ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are reading this and saying over and over, "OMG! Me too!" :)

...and/or if you are interested in spending <10% of your time wasted out of your mind in LKF. #not21anymore