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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 6:29am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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As of February 14, 2015, I'm a married man! Believe it or not, I met her, right here, on OKC. She's my best friend, my dork, and my angel.

I can only wish that every one of you find the same happiness that I'm now living. Best of luck to you all! =)

With that, I'm updating this so that maybe I can help some folks out there, rather than just sounding ranty.

A lot of profiles say "I hope this site works". Well, it works as well as you do, and it all stems from what you want. If you want the right thing, you'll end up finding it. If you want the wrong thing, you'll find that too, which will probably end up in you wondering why guys are jerks lol.

My experience in dating had, up until meeting my Wife, been hit or miss, with 'miss' being the winner. Every time. I lost count of how many times I've heard "you're SUCH a great guy....but...I just want to be friends". Honestly, with that, I did come away with a few actual friends off of here, and I appreciate that, because they were the ones who weren't full of crap, simply brushing me off as politely as possible. (yayy run-on sentences)

The problem with dating is that everyone is so used to online shopping, that that's how this is seen. Clicking through countless profiles, looking for the perfect product, and dismissing anyone who doesn't meet said criteria.

I recommend, to the women, to browse other women's profiles sometime, and see what guys see. A loooot of women more or less demand the utmost respect and thoughtfulness, and entitlement and describe what they want and yada yada. Nowhere do most (that I'd seen) of them even hint at what they'll give in return. No I don't mean sex. I mean common courtesy and respect.

I promise you that a guy would rather hear that you're not interested, than nothing at all. Sure it might suck, but we get over it and move on. I did, many times, and for the better.

I'm a short guy. Aside of a handful of semi-successful dating partners, I got shot down, almost every time, for that reason, and nothing else. Thank god, too, or else I wouldn't have met my Wife. =)

I'm not sure what advice I could give guys, as guys....on a dating site....can vary in who they are, what they want, and how they approach it all. Also, I was so trial-and-error in my ways, that I still don't know what I could have done better or worse.

I guess I could tell guys to always be respectful, no matter what, because you never know when 'the one' will answer your message, and end up the one you're looking for. The shallow ones don't matter, and you don't want them anyway.

Women...don't be so damn picky that you end up never meeting that one guy who could be the answer to all your questions. Looks fade, but the soul is always there.

That all said, I wish you all the best. Now go find your soulmate!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Visual Effects and motion graphics artist\
Being a big kid and a goof ball.
I'm equal parts gentleman and asshole
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at a lot, and suck at other stuff. Sometimes I'm really good at sucking. Wait, what? No. Not like that. Stop giggling.

Kissing, Problem-solving, troubleshooting, fixing things, learning quickly, making you laugh, misplacing something I just put down, tripping over the air in front of me. Are you sold yet? XD
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My glasses, and that I'm proudly a nerd.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like a variety of all of the above, and I'm not horribly picky. I'll watch/read/listen to/eat anything, to at least try it..

T2 has a special place in my heart as the movie that made me want to get into film/editing/vfx - And it's just an awesome friggin' movie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think I could do without most things. I'm resourceful and creative, like that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
--When someone will inevitably invent Skynet.
--If my dad would be proud of me (R.I.P.)
--If I'll meet anyone, worth dating, on a website.
--If putting "casual sex" would be worth it/lead to anything good.
--Seriously wtf is 'short term dating'? Who plans for that?
--Is it even possible to make this profile shorter, and still get a decent first impression across?
--What it would be like to go back in time and hang out with my dad at the same age I am now, or even as a teen.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A little of this, a little of that. Playing with my step- sons. Being a superhero. Watching movies. Best times ever.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a thing for necks.

I'm a sucker for glasses and geekiness.
You should message me if
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Eh if you feel like it. I'm rarely on here as it is, except to update my profile. You can never have too many good friends.