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29 Jersey City, NJ Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:20am
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's difficult to avoid sounding immodest when nearly every sentence will begin with "I," but here goes:

I am fucking awesome.

Just kidding. I was born and raised in a Caribbean community in Brooklyn. My parents and maternal grandmother immigrated from Trinidad. I moved back to the area in August 2012 after finishing up grad school and living abroad for a bit.

Un pensamiento que me hace sonreír: Quisiera sentarme afuera de un café con una mujer bella, tomando un cortado, mirando a la gente, y disfrutando el silencio entre nosotros dos.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Risking friendships while playing Taboo. Worth it. Tilting my head back, closing my eyes, and slapping one of my knees when I laugh.

I organize and lead international immersion opportunities for university students. A few times a year, I travel abroad, learn about the world with my students, and try to have that inform their politics at home. I also teach an intro level religious studies course.

I'm also trying to keep up my language studies. If anyone wants to speak Spanish together, the first round is on me. The first two rounds if you're willing to teach me French. So serious about this; including totally platonic encounters.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking charge when needed. Balancing my assertiveness with a thoughtful openness. Wearing bowties. I'm really bad at: tying bowties (big fingers).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Class, sass, and ass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot for work & personally. These days it's a lot about prisons, policing in Black & Brown communities, and how WOC/ QTPOC are uniquely vulnerable to the first two.

I'm listening to whatever comes on my Nina Simone, salsa, and bachata pandora stations.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good coffee/ drinks/ food, good books, my important people, curiosity, my journal, and my passport. Honorable mention: Soul Glo.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mischief. Sex, race, gender, food, anti-oppression politics, justice. And of course: Yo mama jokes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cliché about not having typical Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have the voice of an angel.

You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Do it. It's better than skulking and leaving without a "Hi, it was nice to creep on your profile for five minutes."

You own a pug. Seriously. You enjoy people watching & making up stories about folks.

You are fabulous. The adjective, not the rapper. Well, the rapper, too, I guess. Pause.