I am quirky, friendly, and love music.
My Self-Summary
I'm a single mom of 2, in grad school, and working full time. It's
a crazy life but I love it! I am upbeat and optimistic, and love
being around people who are positive too. I love art and music- can
be always be found doing some type of art project or checking out
live music when I can. Since I'm crazy busy right now, I'm not so
much looking to date- just really more of a penpal. A bit bored
with the local scene, I am hoping to get to know someone from the
UK for a change of pace!
What I’m doing with my life
I have 2 kids, who I am pretty much raising on my own- they are 7
and 4 and quite awesome. I am in grad school for psychology and I
work full time as a researcher in a psych lab at the hospital. I
have lived in different cities in the US and even overseas, but
seem to keep coming back to Providence- it's a nice place to be.
I’m really good at
Listening, making people feel comfortable/good about themselves,
making fun mix cd's (always with a theme!), cooking up a mean meal
of red beans and rice, applying black eyeliner cat-eye style, and
thinking of creative projects to do.
The first things people usually notice about me
I get a lot of compliments on my eyes. People also notice that I'm
short (5'1"). And that I talk very quickly when I get excited about
something fun!
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: I love magical realist fiction- Aura, by Carlos Fuentes is
one of the most amazing stories you'll ever read. Also love books
by Gabriel Garcia Marquez and Francesca Lia Block. Jewel Parker
Rhodes has a great historical fiction book about Marie Laveau-
Voodoo Magic. Oh, and any astrology book I can get my hands
on.
Music: Tom Waits, Nick Cave, Billy Bragg, the Pixies, the Ramones,
Leonard Cohen, Psych Furs, Suzanne Vega, Patti Smith. Iggy Pop,
Portishead. I love music- am playing something constantly.
Particuarly love going record shopping!
Movies: Pump Up the Volume, Legend of Sleepy Hollow, Shawshank
Redemption, Heathers, the Breakfast Club... and yes, I admit that
Mr. Bean makes me giggle!
Food: I'm pretty much down for whatever- learned to cook a lot when
I lived in the Dominican Republic- yum! Also love Chinese, Thai,
Italian, Mexican, and Greek. Not so much a red meat eater, but
really not so picky at all- like trying new things!
The six things I could never do without
Music, sunshine, Coca-cola, black eyeliner, someone to flirt with,
and of course my kids. Not neccessarily in that order. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Wow! What a long list... um- everything really- my mind is always
going- I do yoga, but find it so hard to stop thinking about a
million things at once!
On a typical Friday night I am
Oh, there's no such thing as a typical anything with me! Maybe I am
having movie/pizza night with the kids, out with the girls, out
with the boys, or up to any number of things if left to my own
devices!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
No way. Gotta ask me! :)
You should message me if
You want to be penpals, if you're from the UK and have an adorable
accent, if you have similar interests, or if you just want to say
hi!