I was a goth boy for a long time, but I'm kind of over that mindset these days. I am enjoying the optimism and good people that Hawaii provides. I can still be a bit cynical, but I'm not moody, and good company usually lightens that up.
I am polyamorous and kinky, and prefer to be around people who are wired the same way. I have been this way for a long time, and have no drama about it. Neither do any of my partners. I'd prefer it to stay that way.