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VibrantLife4me

28 / F / Straight / Seeing someone

Oakland, California

Her Details

Last Online
Jun 16
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Swahili (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
8 characteristics that describe me (why 8? It's my favorite number)

- adventurous
- thoughtful
- mellow
- ambitious
- extremely eco-friendly
- sexy
- socially conscious
- progressive
What I’m doing with my life
Getting to know the bay area, working, on a path of self discovery. Living it and loving it!
I’m really good at
Tending plants
The first things people usually notice about me
My locs. Now that they are longer, I like to experiment and wear creative hairstyles.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I could go on for days, let's save the favorites for a glass of wine/tea if you're interested.

Books: Honestly, I haven't read a book in quite awhile. The last few I read where The Help, A Complete Reflexology for LIfe, Anger. Favorite authors: Daniel Quinn, James Baldwin, Nikki Giovanni, Thich Nhat Hanh, Alice Walker, Maya Angelou

Shows: I don't have cable, but I do have favorite shows: The Wire, Ugly Betty, Law and Order, 30 Rock, Parks & Rc, Bobs Burgers, South Park, Family Guy, Bernie Mac Show, Borgia, Ted Talks, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Bob's Burgers, Family Guy

Movies: Top 8 off the top of my head - City of God, Persepolis, Love Jones, Amorres Perros, The Secret Life of Bees, I am Sam, Austin Powers trilogy, Harry Potter series

Music: Too many to name. I'm an old school hip hop head think 89-97. A man behind a guitar melts me: Jimi Hendrix, Bob Marley, Jack Johnson...yes please. Soul, Funk, RnB. I don't often listen to the radio, so that genre of pop isn't on my palette, but I understand its place in life. I don't listen to that much rock on my own, but I'd love to be introduced to all types of music.

Food: Everything...literally. I'll try anything once. Favorites: Korean, Japanese, Thai, Mexican, Vietnamese. if it's Asian, I love it! The fresher the better!
The six things I could never do without
let's see outside of necessities for life (food, water, shelter, clothing)

plants
the ocean
music
intellectual conversation
wine - nectar of the gods
tea
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my future...I'm always looking forward and thinking about what's next

the haves vs the have nots/equity/equitable society/social justice

how can I make this tasty treat gluten free?

Health/healthy living

Love of all kinds: for family, friends, nature, religion, education, passion
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually I go to yoga after work, then head to my fav corner store, get my fav bottle of whatever I'm feel in like, then cannabis, vino, and laughter.

Often, I'm at a poetry reading, catching up with friends, at bike party, or First Friday.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you need a daytime drinking partner on the weekends

You'd like to walk around Lake Merritt with me

You like to go to farmer's market

You want to medicate with cannabis flowers with a cute girl

You want to drink wine. Lots and lots of wine

you have questions for me, I'm an open book