I'm Jesse. I'm currently 37, physically disabled, and a musician and photographer. I know
it's totally cliche, and everyone says this, but like many people
on here (and probably the main reason they and I are on here), I'm
super shy, and have a tough time introducing myself, but I open up
more once I get to know a person. I'm
hetero-pansexual/polygynosexual with pansexual tendencies, meaning
I like ciswomen,
transwomen, and
feminine intersex
and genderqueer people; basically anyone
of any gender whose identity, appearance, behaviour, and way of
thinking and speaking are all consistent with what my brain
interprets as "female". (If I had a choice in the matter, I'd be
totally pansexual, but I'm just not really into men, except for the
rare few I'd like to have sex with.) I've never experienced any
emotional attraction to a man; I'm occasionally but very rarely
physically attracted to men, mainly cute black and Asian (mainly
Vietnamese) teens (just to give you an idea, so far I've only found
one guy on this site I have any interest in: loveonmyway; he's SOOOOO cute, but too
far away). I'm also polyamorous (though the type of polyamory I'm
into doesn't include open relationships; specifically, I'm looking
for a three-way (or more) relationship with at least 1 ciswoman and
at least 1 passable non-op transwoman (so naturally I prefer
bisexual or pansexual women)), but also open to a monogamous
relationship.
Although I'm pretty open-minded about looks, I find short women extremely sexy. So I love that this site seems to be matching me with a lot of women around 5'0-5'3 (though I like 4'6"-5'2" best).
Professionally, I studied computer engineering in college, but wasn't able to finish due to a combination of health and financial issues which compounded each other, along with 2 failed attempts to pass C++. I've done a few programming contract jobs since then, but the only jobs I've been able to find in the field were government-sponsored programs, which dried up once I hit 30 and no longer qualified for those programs. There's been nothing since. I'm currently on disability, which sucks, but at least it pays almost twice as much as income assistance, no time limit, and lets me earn more per month without deductions. But I don't want to be stuck on that for the rest of my life, so I'm trying to build careers as a musician, photographer, and entrepreneur, still looking for IT jobs (though I can't do programming jobs any more due to my disability), and looking for other options.
BTW, if you're looking at my Personality section, I suggest swapping the "More Geeky" and "More Dominant" bars, as well as the "Less Spiritual" and "Less Into Exercise" bars.
Although I'm pretty open-minded about looks, I find short women extremely sexy. So I love that this site seems to be matching me with a lot of women around 5'0-5'3 (though I like 4'6"-5'2" best).
Professionally, I studied computer engineering in college, but wasn't able to finish due to a combination of health and financial issues which compounded each other, along with 2 failed attempts to pass C++. I've done a few programming contract jobs since then, but the only jobs I've been able to find in the field were government-sponsored programs, which dried up once I hit 30 and no longer qualified for those programs. There's been nothing since. I'm currently on disability, which sucks, but at least it pays almost twice as much as income assistance, no time limit, and lets me earn more per month without deductions. But I don't want to be stuck on that for the rest of my life, so I'm trying to build careers as a musician, photographer, and entrepreneur, still looking for IT jobs (though I can't do programming jobs any more due to my disability), and looking for other options.
BTW, if you're looking at my Personality section, I suggest swapping the "More Geeky" and "More Dominant" bars, as well as the "Less Spiritual" and "Less Into Exercise" bars.
