Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Most people find it very hard to self summarize. I, on the other
hand, find it very, very easy to summarize myself. I am very easy
to get along with (if I like you). I am not hard to read. I am
generally happy, I like my job, I love my friends. I do not believe
in being mean, just for the sake of being mean.
I do not look for someone else to make me happy....I can be happy,
it is a conscious effort. (this took awhile to come to
I have been divorced for a very long time, longer than I was
married. I think that we are all works in progress. I would never,
ever go back in time to change anything about my life, for fear
that I would not be the same person that I am right now...One
little thing could change the entire course of my life. I genuinely
like myself, and consider myself to be a great second half of the
I am a hard worker, a great friend, a loving daughter, a fun
grandma, concerned mother, loyal, honest and kind. I am not shy,
and can talk to just about anybody, and just about anything. I have
been told by many of my friends, they think I have a word quota.
Doesn't everybody. I think if I had to go a whole day without
talking my head would explode. :-)
I am kind, beautiful, and fun
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work everyday, and try to stay on the positive side of
I guess the most important thing that you should know about me it
that I am here, just like you are here (I hope) looking for LOVE.
Honest to goodness, true love!!! Heart stopping, palm sweating,
can't seem to breath with-out you.....LOVE!!!, I know its out
there. I have witnessed it first hand. I am just waiting for it to
land in my ever opened heart....I have been in love. I know it
exists. I wish I had taken better care of it while it was visiting.
Maybe it is just a little gun shy right now because it does not
know how it will be treated (oh so much better) this time when it
comes to visit. I guess only time will tell ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making friends, and having fun, whenever and where-ever. I am
someone who does not like drama, and will walk miles out of the way
to avoid it. I try to see the humor in everything, and am
constantly amazed and delighted by my friends and everything that
they teach me.
I never ever let something negative make me feel bad. Nobody can
make you happy, happiness is a personal choice. I hope that in the
end, people will remember me as someone who was genuinely kind and
caring. If you are my friend, or if I touched your life at all, you
will always know that you are important to me, and that I love you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I think we all go through many phases in life. I know I do, I have
different favorites at different times. And that includes just
about everything in my life.....food, books, movies, circle of
friends......Sometimes I like things and sometimes I don't.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My grown-ups, AKA my kids
and of course there are the essential elements, which I assume are
just a given
lets see.....my books, my movies, someone to talk to, someone to
help me keep my sanity and secrets...oh there is just so much more!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life in general, everything and nothing...I wonder lately that
maybe all those years that I said things out loud...oh, like...we
only get one great love in our lives....maybe, because I put it out
there, maybe just maybe, I jinxed myself......I'm a thinker, no
But, lately, I have come to realize that there is no limit to love,
and we should never, ever presume to limit ourselves to
anything....Life is limitless, love is endless, and kindness begets
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well, I guess that would depend on who I am with. If I am with
family, then it's family things, and if I am with friends, then
it's typically the things that friends do.....
Now, if the question is.....What would you like to do on a typical
Friday?, then my answer would be.....I would just like to be with
someone, who is kind and caring, interesting, who thinks that I am
interesting, sitting and enjoying MY SOMEONE SPECIAL'S conversation
and sharing the events of the day, good or bad, not being
judged.....just being validated!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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No way........... :-)...well okay, I am addicted to Facebook, come
and find me....Vicki Hensley Dudek
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