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28 M Champaign, IL

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:23pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I apologize in advance for how pessimistic I sound on my profile, I am actually very easy to get along with and especially when I'm in a relationship with a girl I put her ahead of almost everything else in my life other than my job during the actual working hours, other than that, she'll know that I care about her and am thinking about her.

02/01/2014 Update: I'm pretty fed up with the whole online scene so one, if anything comes out of this, fine, if not, fine, and two, if you wanna chat, drop me a line but I will not be messaging back and forth forever. If you want to talk and get to know each other, let's meet over a coffee. Online friendships/relationships are only worth as much as the paper they're printed on in my opinion. Also, side note, I really hate the stupid Quickmatch thing. If you rate someone why can't it just let you see who rated you. If you can message people here for free then what's wrong with letting people see who rated them for free?

I'm a fairly traditional person and a hopeless romantic at heart. I like to do the traditional kinds of things for a girl (i.e. flowers, open doors, long walks, snuggling together next to a fire, etc.) I am somewhat shy at first but once you get to know me I am pretty open. I exercise regularly and eat healthy most of the time and would like to find a girl that takes care of herself too and hopefully shares at least some of the same interests and lifestyle choices as me...

BUT, let's be honest, how many people on here are actually looking for that? By my count, so far no one. Despite a few messages maybe exchanged, nobody seems to actually want any of that sappy, corny, traditional stuff in their lives. People want excitement, danger, mystery, spontaneity and not stability, loyalty, reliability, care, chivalry, and most of all true love. I will be very surprised if anything at all comes out of this whole thing. And since almost nothing genuinely real has come out of being on this site, I'm going to say now that I'm not really looking for anything serious anymore because serious doesn't seem to be anywhere on here so for now I'm just open to meeting new people, new friends, and hopefully having a good time some good conversation and if something good and lasting should come out of it, awesome, but I'm not holding my breath anymore.
What I’m doing with my life
Working at the News Gazette making videos, commercials, etc.

I'm also a freelance videographer for hire.

I'm also working on making my own short films. I work with Champaign Movie Makers as well as Champaign-Urbana Film Society as well as several other local film groups and local production companies.

If you're still interested, please check out my youtube channel and tell me what you think: Victor Miely's Youtube Channel

Just finished a short film as part of the local Pens to Lens screenwriting competition (Pens-to-Lens). And now I just recently got my own official IMDb page, check it out: Victor Miely on IMDb)
I’m really good at
Caring for others' needs before my own. I am a fast learner at most everything especially when it comes to technology and gadgets or mechanical kinds of things. I know how or can and love to figure out how most anything works. Yeah I'm a nerd and proud of it.

Sincere hugs and really good massages, I got me some magic fingers ;)

Random facts: I sing in my church's choir. I can bake a mean apple pie, and I can cook just about anything. I clean, and I like it (Yeah you read that right, I like to freakin' clean!! It's relaxing to me and depending on the activity, it can even be a bonding or romantic one). I can fix most things, or I'll figure out how, or I'll learn. Despite how unbelievable my affection might seem here on an online profile, if I am affectionate towards a girl, it's definitely for real. The hard part for me has been to convince a girl that I'm serious in my affection.
The first things people usually notice about me
Is my smile and sincerity. I work hard on everything that matters in life, myself, my job, my family, my friendships, and especially my relationships. Actually, you probably wouldn't figure that out about me until you've known me for a while. I suppose the first thing(s) people notice would be my quiet, shy nature, maybe my smile too. I like to sit back and observe and then join in if I feel like it. But you can tell me what you noticed first about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: Tom Clancy novels, The Complete Sherlock Holmes series
Movies: Guy Ritchie, Tony Scott, and Christopher Nolan movies
Shows: Seinfeld, Becker, Scrubs, Firefly, Castle, Sherlock
Music: too much to decide but have gotten a little into some electronic (Celldweller) and movie trailer type music (epic sounding stuff!!)
Food: home cooked, Italian, Chinese, Mexican, seafood, sushi
The six things I could never do without
God, my father, my friends, my relationships, love, my physical abilities.

Six is way too short of a list... The hell with it, I'm adding more:
Romance, kissing, cuddling, sex, giving massages, intimacy in general, being able to bring a smile to a girl's face, adrenaline rushes, exercising...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Improving myself in any and every way I can. (And when in a relationship, I think a lot about my girlfriend.)
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm in a relationship, I am usually out with or staying in with my girlfriend. If not in a relationship, I am usually just staying in working on stuff or relaxing with a movie or going out with some friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not a typical guy who spends most of his time on sports and drinking and hanging with the guys. I'd rather be spending time with a girl, getting to know her, treating her right, generally being the best gentleman and friend I can be for her. I don't care that I am not a typical guy but instead I take pride in being a good man especially for a girl.

At least, in an ideal world that's what I'd like to be for a girl, but considering it seems that most girls aren't looking for that or think that I'm not for real, and instead they're looking for the dangerous, bad boy kind of guy who ignores, neglects, and treats them as objects for their pleasure, I'm probably going to be spending my time endlessly looking and never finding.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to and/or if you share similar interests and/or lifestyle choices or just want to chat.

You know what, even if we're total opposites, drop me a line, you never know what might happen ;)

Please do not message me if you are not even in the same country or if all you can say is hi.

Oh and one last thing, I've seen a lot of girls saying they would like a guy who knows the difference between to, too, and two and your, you're and there, they're, and their. I earned two degrees so I definitely know the difference, I definitely know when and how to use them, and I get at least slightly annoyed when people continually misuse them and/or can't use proper grammar at all or mispronounce really common, simple words.