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32 M Norman, OK

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:24pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I make movies. I make music. I get paid to do these things when I'm lucky. I bite a pointy wood and plastic thing and blow through curly brass tubes while twiddling my fingers in secret combinations to create noises at predetermined frequencies. But enough about sex.
I like colors. Green particularly.
I make jokes which range from ground-shakingly hilarious to "that was a joke?" I believe in cosmic humor, and I'm able to laugh at myself, especially when I'm really stupid.
According to most people, I have weird taste. I've never thought my taste was all that unusual, but that's because I can recognize when a thing is awesome even if most people are complaining loudly about it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm making movies,
I'm seeing movies,
listening to music,
playing music,
writing music,
being a friend,
hanging out,
writing an agitprop musical about agitprop,
Also paying bills and therefore,
washing dishes :/
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Post-production audio.
Film music composition.
Saxophone (according to some).
Fake Portugese.
Keeping it real.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Here are some guesses:
I'm quiet when I don't talk, and a bit bombastic when I do.
My teeth are very straight.
I have a blond mustache.
I wear big black glasses.
I'm awkward.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like books which may or may not have "protagonists" or "antagonists," which includes nonfiction as well as unorthodox fiction. Lately, some books I have really enjoyed have been:
Harry Potter
Jitterbug Perfume
Geek Love
Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close
The Great Gatsby
Like Water for Chocolate
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay

Movies: I have seen so many God damn movies. I'll list my most influential movies like a spectrum, from accessible to esoteric:
A Night at the Opera
The Dark Crystal
Joe Vs The Volcano
Harold and Maude
Little Shop of Horrors (the musical)
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
There Will Be Blood
The Forbidden Zone
House (AKA Hausu)
8 1/2
The Holy Mountain
Mulholland Dr.

Music: Let's play the "shuffle music on the iPod and see what comes up" game. First twenty artists are:
Brian Eno
Of Montreal
Ghost of Monkshood
The Beach Boys
The Strokes
The Moldy Peaches
Angelo Badalamenti
They Might Be Giants
The Cardigans
Sly & the Family Stone
Andrew Bird
Elmer Bernstein
Rilo Kiley
Cab Calloway & his Orchestra
Oingo Boingo
Danny Elfman
Ennio Morricone
The Magnetic Fields
David Byrne

Food: I keep finding good food, and then forgetting about it, only to rediscover it. There's something joyous about that. Generally:
Indian (although of all that I've had, the curries are my least favorite. Saag is really underrated.)
Middle Eastern (this includes Greek, Iranian, Israeli-stinian, and Turkish)
Mexican (with a "shout out" to Tex-Mex, the redheaded stepchild)
Pasta in white sauces (or just things with white sauces in general)
Boba tea
Artichoke with lemon butter sauce
Mint chocolate chip or coffee ice cream
Chili sauce
Australian wine
Goat cheese
Dark, dark chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good conversation
physical contact
refreshing drinks
creative engagement
and change.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether the song I'm writing expresses a sentiment worth expressing.
Whether I'm too young to be as curmudgeonly as I am or too old to be as carefree as I am (there's a song in there! But would anyone care?)
How the current systems, which people both despise and rely on, could only change if people who weren't interested in money and power ran for public office, and how most people like that would make terrible "candidates".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A lot of the time, I like to just stay in on Fridays. I occasionally like to go to see a band or out for drinks; however, I'm not much of a rowdy party person and I can't think of many things more unappealing to me than someplace like Bricktown on a Friday night. Staying in usually involves a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really don't read very much, but people think I'm well read. I don't correct them, and wonder whether I'm committing some very light form of intellectual fraud.

Also, I have no "game" to speak of. Hence, online dating.
You should message me if
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You play a musical instrument for fun or profit.
You've written a story and need an unbiased third party's opinion.
You've made a film and it needs music.
You don't understand how anyone can meet anyone in a loud, dark, smoky, crowded bar.

You should also "message" me if you'd like to go somewhere and actually talk. You know, in person. I don't have much interest in having some life on the "internet." I spend enough time there by myself, thank you.