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VidderGirl

24 F Potomac, MD

My Details

Last Online
Apr 2
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Unemployed
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I've recently realized/decided I'm asexual. So I'm not interested in sex. I pretty much am looking for someone who's asexual like me. I know this sucks for the vast majority of you on the site. But the asexual dating sites are so lame... so I'd like to keep my profile here, and hope I can find a fellow asexual who wants everything else in a relationship, just not the sex. If you don't understand asexuality, just look it up!! :P And yes it's different for everyone, so I can explain my own thoughts and feelings further, sure. I'm unique, as is everyone, when it comes to what exactly being asexual means for me.

I don't even like kissing. But cuddling is nice! I want all the intimate friendship stuff, w/ a special guy I consider my boyfriend, rather than just a friend. Romantic things too, like cuddling and... idk. I've never slow-danced - that's romantic, right? I want everything like that. I have a long term goal of getting married, etc. Eventually. With someone. But no sex. Etc. ;) I don't even need to do the physical stuff. I just want a special intimate friendship where we can talk about anything/everything and share interested. It doesn't even necessarily have to be a guy. I've been thinking lately that maybe I'm more aromantic and looking for a queerplatonic partner of either gender, or I'm biromantic or panromantic or something. I don't know. I've thought I was heteroromantic for so long, and now I'm just unsure. On the sexual side... I'm pretty much not interested. I've given it a chance already. However, I'm open to maybe compromising for the sake of a partner. : P Doing some sexual stuff, sometimes. I'm not ruling that out.

And um the rest of my profile hasn't been updated lately. I... was in a great relationship with a guy I found on this site. I disabled my profile for the sake of being with him. But he was sexual. So it didn't work out. He was great but I could tell he wouldn't be able to be happy in the long term if he stayed with me. I set him free, it was kind of a mutual break-up, and we both said we had no regrets. ;) I've now re-enabled my profile here. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Not quite sure yet. I graduated Boston University and have returned to live with my dad (& my younger brother who's often away at University of Maryland, College Park) in Potomac, Maryland. I don't have a job yet. I have a Linguistics degree. ;) I am considering becoming a technical writer at the moment. Have a job interview for that later this week, actually. I had an extremely major foot surgery, my uncle died... things have been happening to slow down my quest for a job. I worked in a temp position helping a place that sells group insurance packages to employers at one point though... idk. :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV shows - oh so hard to narrow down but ER & Gilmore Girls usually get tying #1 fave shows of all time in my list. Also love(d) Chuck, Nikita, Heroes, The Office, Scrubs, Six Feet Under, Modern Family, Bones, Parenthood, The Vampire Diaries, Grey's Anatomy, Life Unexpected, Smallville, Private Practice, Kyle XY, Arrested Development, Friends, Seinfeld, Family Guy, That 70's Show, Dead Like Me, Pushing Daisies, White Collar, Covert Affairs, Psych, Southland, Veronica Mars, and more. :P
Recently watched/new to me favorites: Friday Night Lights, Beauty and the Beast, Nashville, House, Joan of Arcadia, Castle, Switched at Birth, Teen Wolf.

Criminal Minds is my current obsession. I'm watching all 9 seasons in record time.

By the way, I'm doing this out of order. which should be obvious.

Harry Potter (books) or various other books I read as a "young adult" would really count most for my "favorite books" section.

Movies... idk. Monsters Inc, The Back to the Future Trilogy, Forrest Gump, etc. are some of my absolute faves.

Favorite movie actors include Will Smith, Tom Hanks, Steve Carrell, Jason Segel, etc. Another hugely favorite actor of mine is Milo Ventimiglia but his movies suck - I love him and am aware of his talent thanks to TV. :P

Favorite actresses include Drew Barrymore, Kristen Bell, Amy Adams, and Emma Stone. :D Totally adore these women. :P

Music: I don't know. Matchbox Twenty, Thriving Ivory, SafetySuit, Bowling For Soup, OneRepublic, Marianas Trench, Kevin Rudolf, Boyce Avenue & Tyler Ward & Sam Tsui covers... gosh where are the women I like? I guess Taylor Swift, Florence + The Machine, etc. I have a lot of favorites. These are totally my faves at the moment. I love so so many more bands/artists though.

Food! :D Um... Bree cheese or Chinese food are probably tied as my two favorite things ever. Chinese food is kinda broad but I just love quite a few different Chinese dishes a lot! I also eat pasta pretty much every day. Elbow Macaroni, Shells, Penne, various types of long pasta... with tomato sauce and Romano or Parmesan (or Mozzarella) cheese or with no sauce and just the Romano or Parmesan - or Extra Sharp Cheddar - cheese! I like some Mexican food like tacos made from a grocery store kit or Enchiladas/Nachos in restaurants. :D I love chocolate... pudding... ice cream. :D Sugar. Sweet things. I drink a ton of milk... love pineapple juice. ;) I also do really love fish/shrimp/seafood in general. I'm a Maryland girl and do love crabs. :D
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next fanvideo I'm going to make. Also atheism vs. religion... also free will vs. determinism and morality and other ethical things... also thinking about my TV shows too much. :P

I like all sorts of philosophical things - and social issues tend to interest me too. I have a lot of thoughts... I've thought a ton about sexuality and asexuality and everything in between as well.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting at home doing nothing - or well, eating dinner & watching TV, those kinds of things. Working on reading/writing fanfiction or watching/making a fanvideo is also common.

VERY rarely I might go on dates then.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 21–24
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You actually, after checking out everything on my profile, think I'm someone you are interested in talking to/getting to know. You should only message me if you'd be willing to message back and forth a bit before actually meeting in person. I'm not quite ready to go out on a date with someone from this site right away. I've only been on a total of about 5 dates in my life with 2 different guys, both of whom I've found on online dating sites, and I only kissed 1 of them. If my extreme inexperience with this whole dating thing and the fact that I've never even gotten to the "boyfriend/girlfriend" stage doesn't scare you away, then I'd be thrilled to talk to you.

I'm interested in a guy who's not religious/doesn't believe in any gods & who doesn't smoke. Someone who doesn't want me to drink alcohol with him (and who doesn't need to get "crazy drunk" pretty much ever). You can drink, but don't make me drink with you. Don't pressure me into doing any drugs (including pot). I won't get you arrested for doing them, but I personally just don't want to be a part of it.

I would, of course, not want you to pressure me into having sex before I was comfortable. In that sense, I'd almost expect you to treat me like I'm still a teenage virgin, even though I'm a 23-year old one.

Ideally my dream guy might be quiet, emotional/sensitive, nerdy, relatively (or very) inexperienced in romantic relationships, fans of similar TV shows as me (I also appreciate Dexter & Breaking Bad from the few episodes I've seen, for example), interested in philosophy, very pro-civil rights and ending poverty and that type of political thing (at least in terms of your thoughts on the issues - you don't have to have actually done anything about it)... non-aggressive, and open-minded. If you're most of these things, please don't hesitate to message me! :D