If you like to have fun, willing to be
goofy and just enjoy life on the whole
then say "Hi". Or if you want to, AIM: viewfinderlife. Whether
you're looking for a friend or just trying to feel me out, you
never know if you don't try. ^_^
If you're not opposed to
lifelong learning or languages
(there was a girl on this site who seriously told me I'm "stupid
for wanting to learn anything other than English and there isn't
any point because you're in America"). So if you don't think like
her, that's a huge plus.
If you're short, and/or have dark hair and a brain that is used
often then you're at an advantage over other candidates.
Intelligence and diverse interests are highly sought after and very
attractive qualities in my opinion.
And if you can understand or identify with any of the following
quotes:
"So it came to pass that as he trudged from the place of blood and
wrath his soul changed."
- Stephen Crane 'The Red Badge of Courage'
空穴來風 'An open hole draws the wind'
- unknown
Had I the heavens' embroidered cloths,
Enwrought with golden and silver light,
The blue and the dim and the dark cloths
Of night and light and the half-light,
I would spread the cloths under your feet:
But I, being poor, have only my dreams;
I have spread my dreams under your feet;
Tread softly, because you tread on my dreams.
- William Butler Yeats
"If we could read the secret history of our enemies we should find
in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all
hostility."
- Longfellow
'Public opinion is a weak tyrant compared with our own private
opinion. What a man thinks of himself, that is which determines, or
rather indicates, his fate.'
- Henry David Thoreau
~Invictus~
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.
-William Ernest Henley
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Now for the negative
DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF ANY OF THE FOLLOWING APPLIES TO YOU:
1. You're racist (this includes non-white's with racist views). No
'if's', 'and's' or 'but's'. My friends are every color of the
rainbow. Go ahead and make sure to list me as dead to you in your
profile.
2. If you're pretty and dumb as a box of rocks. Huge turnoff and
yes, my penis does in fact have standards.... most of the
time.
3. You're ONLY looking for someone who has things in common with
you. I crave diversity. I love when someone introduces me to
something I haven't heard, read, done, tried and might not have
ever done such if someone with different interests hadn't brought
it to my attention. I want a relationship that stimulates me AND
the other person. Opposites really do attract.