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29 / M / Straight / Single

Youngstown, Ohio

His Details

Last Online
Dec 1, 2011
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My name is Rich, I'm a recent transplant to Ohio from California. In moving to Ohio I've become the President of a small company currently preparing for a large expansion and need to update some of my info accordingly. Please be patient with some of it as I'm very busy with the expansion plans.

Most notable job: I worked for CAR, California Association of Realtors, in their political office. That's right, I worked not just for "the man", but the people that pay "the man" directly. It wasn't so bad. But then the market went to crap and so did my job. This was surprisingly the only job I've had that I actually liked going to work everyday and felt appreciated everyday. What a trip.

I remain optimistic and am trying to revamp my life a bit and enjoy. Boxing is something I'd like to return to for fun, but I've been out of the ring for 11 yrs and I'm not too sure If I'd be any good. But I did have a lot of fun when I was a kid. Maybe I'll just stick to getting back to pilates, hiking or whatever catches my interest. I'd love to learn Muay Thai and Wing Chun.

I'm a big supporter of organic meats, veggies and products but am saddened that there's no longer a co-op just a nice long walk away.

I am hyper-intelligent, kind, and a bit of an asshole

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What I’m doing with my life
Working and setting some short term goals to help take the haze away from other long term goals.

Trying to learn guitar on my own; kind of a challenge and thus far I've been lazy as all get out.

Other than that, I like to have fun. What about you?

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I’m really good at
Cooking, being a dork, and general goofball.

Oh, and I'm a human ladder for the shorties. (yes, you're short if you're 5'8" or smaller)

Not taking life too seriously.

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The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm tall (6'3"), and get along very easily with animals and children.

At a coin flip I can be shy or utterly brazen.

I have hazel eyes so I always get people telling me I have nice green or blue or occasionally weird yellow eyes (not the whites, i mean the iris) it all depends on the lighting, situation etc.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Changes pretty often, but I'll read nearly anything worthwhile. I love sci-fi and fantasy, I'm kind of a geek that way. I'll read a text book for enjoyment and to teach myself something. I love philosophy and the debating of. Psychology is a grand thing to read because there's always different hypotheses for why humanity is so broken =)

None of these are listed in a particular order.

Some great series that you should consider reading: Song of Ice and Fire, by George R.R. Martin; The Gap Cycle, by Stephen R. Donaldson; Kushiel's Legacy, by Jacqueline Carey. Other books: Guns Germs and Steel, Water Margin, Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Collective Works of Lu Hsun, Jihad Vs. McWorld.

Music: hyphy/hiphop/rap, r&b, folk, pop (non-american), non-emo rock, jazz, blues and developing an appreciation for punk. Other than that, whatever my most recent mix is. I chose to list genre's because it's easier than naming off a ton of artists.

Movies: I love Korean and Chinese movies.
Some of my favorite Korean movies are: Il Mare, No Mercy For The Rude, Windstruck, My Sassy Girl, Crying Fist, Old Boy and 200lb beauty.
Some of my favorite Chinese movies are:God of Gamblers, Once A Thief, and A Better Tomorrow. These are my older favorites by the way.
Hands down favorite Japanese movie: Memories of Matsuko
Some of my favorite Hollywood Movies: The Sting, PCU, Wag The Dog, Mystic River, Must Love Dogs, Super Troopers, Heat, Men of Honor, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, Moonstruck, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, and Breakfast at Tiffany's (...yeah, I said it, Audrey Hepburn was a stone cold fox back in the day.)

Food: Sushi (much love for Toro and Shiru Maguro), Chinese (always down for dim sum/yin cha), Thai, Indian, Italian and Mexican. Ooh, and if you know any any good hole in the wall Pho bangs. One of my favorite things gets a lot of weird looks though, Feng Zhua (I won't describe it as some of you are too easily squeamish and weird... UPDATE: Why do people keep asking only to send me responses of "that's gross?" No one said YOU had to eat it). =)

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The six things I could never do without
In an every day setting?
1. Honesty
2. Experience/learning
3. Humor
4. Books
5. All the people I consider Family
6. someone to keep life interesting.

I'm not materialistic. In the last year I discovered this when my ex destroyed most of my possessions and my apt over me taking an orange (yes, an orange, the fruit) to work. This is why I didn't list any "things" other than books.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life. Not the meaning of, but what I want from it. Life's kicked my ass enough times, but now it's my turn ^_^;; I hope.

Languages I'd like to learn. I'd like to get my Spanish and Mandarin back up to spec, but my priority now is my Mandarin. However Vietnamese, Farsi, Korean and Hindi are some language life goals of mine.

Names for the Shiba Inu I'd like to get down the road. I love intelligent animals and Shiba Inu's fit the bill being obstinate, cantankerous, wily, intelligent little bastards that would keep me on my toes.

I used to own cats and love em, but I can't personally own any again (this in no way means YOU can't own any, I <3 animals). Due to my move I was forced to give them up. They were like my little family and I'm not going to replace them.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends doing something remotely entertaining, working, or wishing I was out doing something far more interesting than what I AM doing.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Life experiences are what represent the decisions you make in life and affect how you became who you are.

If you treat me well, I'll do anything within my physical power to help you, but if you burn me, you're going to find I'm no longer there.

While I was growing up my mom became very racist and her actions made me distrust white people in general for a long time. So yes, I was a self hating cracker. I've since gotten over most of it, but every now and then a white person will say something so stupidly racist it makes me stop and wonder if I'm really over it.

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
If you like to have fun, willing to be goofy and just enjoy life on the whole then say "Hi". Or if you want to, AIM: viewfinderlife. Whether you're looking for a friend or just trying to feel me out, you never know if you don't try. ^_^

If you're not opposed to lifelong learning or languages (there was a girl on this site who seriously told me I'm "stupid for wanting to learn anything other than English and there isn't any point because you're in America"). So if you don't think like her, that's a huge plus.

If you're short, and/or have dark hair and a brain that is used often then you're at an advantage over other candidates. Intelligence and diverse interests are highly sought after and very attractive qualities in my opinion.

And if you can understand or identify with any of the following quotes:

"So it came to pass that as he trudged from the place of blood and wrath his soul changed."
- Stephen Crane 'The Red Badge of Courage'

空穴來風 'An open hole draws the wind'
- unknown

Had I the heavens' embroidered cloths,
Enwrought with golden and silver light,
The blue and the dim and the dark cloths
Of night and light and the half-light,
I would spread the cloths under your feet:
But I, being poor, have only my dreams;
I have spread my dreams under your feet;
Tread softly, because you tread on my dreams.
- William Butler Yeats

"If we could read the secret history of our enemies we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility."
- Longfellow

'Public opinion is a weak tyrant compared with our own private opinion. What a man thinks of himself, that is which determines, or rather indicates, his fate.'
- Henry David Thoreau

~Invictus~
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.
-William Ernest Henley

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Now for the negative
DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF ANY OF THE FOLLOWING APPLIES TO YOU:
1. You're racist (this includes non-white's with racist views). No 'if's', 'and's' or 'but's'. My friends are every color of the rainbow. Go ahead and make sure to list me as dead to you in your profile.

2. If you're pretty and dumb as a box of rocks. Huge turnoff and yes, my penis does in fact have standards.... most of the time.

3. You're ONLY looking for someone who has things in common with you. I crave diversity. I love when someone introduces me to something I haven't heard, read, done, tried and might not have ever done such if someone with different interests hadn't brought it to my attention. I want a relationship that stimulates me AND the other person. Opposites really do attract.

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