Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi! I'm taken.
Since I am still getting messages almost daily from people
attempting to hook up:
If you are not already a partner of mine, I am not going to have
sex with you. I am not going to send you pictures of my genitals, I
am not going to cyber, text, etc with you. Please don't waste both
of our time.
If you want to talk about martial arts, in a friendly way, hit me
up, I'm happy to chat.
I am not looking to date or have sex with anyone on here, please
move along if that is what you are looking for.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Training to be a fighter, tending to my elderly horse, writing
magazine articles, loving my partners, with whom I am
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Loving. Finding my joy. Seeing the wonder in the world.
Working with animals.
Finding interesting people.
Well, honestly, I'm not very good at bragging about myself... This
is one of the most awkward questions on here. How do you answer
something like this without sounding like a total prat?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Honestly, my weight is often what people first notice about me- I'm
a really large girl, albeit not a tall one. After that, though, it
depends on the person. Maybe they notice the strange archaic mode
of dress. Maybe they notice the smile. Maybe they notice the way I
move, or the way I speak.
I can't read other people's minds. Heh. This section is all
guessing on my part.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love fantasy and science fiction, both books and movies. My
musical tastes run from classical to gothic to metal, with a number
of odd divergences in between. I am a foodie, though I do not
overeat. Asian foods are usually my favorite, especially nice spicy
Northern Chinese, Thai, and Japanese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
That's kind of a trite question. Oxygen, water, food, shelter in
some cases, medications where applicable.
I see they changed this from "live without" to "do without."
Yeah, there's a lot of neat stuff we WANT. You'd be amazed what you
can actually do without, if you need to survive, however.
Love. Joy. Gratitude. Will. Respect. Honor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Fighting, sexuality, human nature, horsemanship, music,
Also, how I'm possibly going to survive in this world.
I'm too stubborn to give up though! :}
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Rubbing Tiger Balm on my bruises from Thursday night, which is one
of my full contact knockdown training nights. Writing my karate
blog. Playing a computer game (I like RPGs, RTS, and FPS) or
watching a foreign film on Netflix. Chatting with people in my
martial art all over the world.
If I have a bit of money, I might be off at the local kink cafe
(yep, San Francisco has a cafe for kinky people) with my beloved,
or some friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have PTSD. Very solidly diagnosed. No, I don't like random
strangers asking me how I got it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can speak to me respectfully, as a human being. I am not your
personal sex toy. Speak like an adult, and treat me like a lady. I
will extend the same courtesy to you, should you do so. Speak to me
like a slavering troglodyte who stopped developing socially at
about age 12, and you might get squished, in a not fun way.
After getting about 50 messages from random people on here, I think
the following brief guide might greatly benefit a majority of the
denizens of OKCupid. At least the ones who actually bother to read
Good: "Hello there! I am SomeGuy, and your profile caught my
attention because of *interest* and *statement.* My interests
include *interest* and *interest,* and I'd love to hear more about
what you love about *mutual interest* Thanks for your time, and I
hope to hear back!"
Unimpressive: "hi how are you"
Fail: "u got sexy titties I wud lick them all nite. 999-999-9999
Pro Tip: would your approach, if delivered in person, get you
slapped, or possibly kicked someplace sensitive? Be honest with
yourself on this one.
Message me if you want to make friends and talk about horses, or
I just love:
Good law enforcement officers
Lastly, and to reiterate, if you want to converse with me, you
should message me if you are willing and able to engage in polite,
meaningful conversation with which we can get to know one another a
bit. "hey how r u" and "nice tits" will not convince me to skype
with you or call you. Please be willing to chat on here for a
while. Let's learn about each other's personalities and passions in
I'm not looking for anyone at this time, as I am very focused on my
primary and my play partner.
Hint: going on and on about your fetish and what you want to do
with me is not us getting to know each other.
I AM NOT GOING TO HOOK UP WITH YOU, PLEASE STOP TRYING.
DO NOT message me if you are going to try to hook up with me. I am
TAKEN. Thank you!
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