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38 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–42
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:48pm
White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am a free spirit. I look at the world through the eyes of an artist, filter it with experiences I have had then turn them into what ever piece I am currently working on.

Fancy way of saying I see, I saw, I crafted.

I am polyamourus, it fits the way I look at life, however I am fine with being monogamous if my partner is. My last two relationships were with individuals who wished for our relationship to stay monogamous.

Polyamoury has a bad reputation because some people don't understand its core statement that love isn't finite, I don't want that fact to scare off potential people I meet on here.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have found the job I want to do till I die. Even better I am working it. I am a manager for a Seattle based Comic Book store and I look forward to going to work every day. Never knew it was possible, however here I am.

On top of this I have the free time to do metal working, painting and other artistic hobbies I do. I currently have a painting in a restaurant on Queen Anne. They change their theme every few months and I’m one of their painters. I am currently working on the next piece to be hung.

I have reached a place in my life where I am happy most of the time and am able to enjoy all the great things in my life. This is the sweet spot of age, where I am wise enough to make less mistakes but young enough to find new ones to make.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything I put my mind to (other than math, something is broken in my brain on that one). I am good at painting, sculpting, poetry, and photography. I am a good enough cook that I have had friends offer to do my dishes for me to cook for them. I’m good at meeting people and being open to them. I like to think I’m a good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm in their way somehow. It's a magical sixth sense I've had since I was a kid to stand in the exact spot someone needs.

About me physically I'm not sure, maybe my beard or my eyes... Maybe the fact that I can be really loud when I need to be.

Random encounter once:

A guy on the bus who was staring at me said “You have the most wonderful aura, I can tell you’re a kind person.” Then he just got off the bus. It kind of stuck with me and makes me smile when I think about it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love books. At one point in my life I had five bookcases of books double stacked deep and a pile starting on the floor begging for another. When I liquidated my collection it took two trips to Half Price Crooks.. books, to unload them. (trunk, backseat, and passenger seat were full both times.) When I moved to my new place I had to trim down again, Took a duffle bag full (it was HEAVY).
A snippet of what is currently on my shelf: Wild Card series (complete) edited by George R.R. Martin, 3 shelves of Roleplaying Books, The Hobbit by Tolkien, Practical watch repair, the bible, The complete Metalsmith by McCraight, Watchmen, and The Anarchists Cookbook. (those are what I can see from my desk, I have a few more.)

On movies I am also a lover and my tastes are just as wide and varied. During the purge I went down from 200 movies to maybe 20. Firefly –Season 1, Wizard of oz, Nothing but Trouble, Earth girls are easy, Jeremiah –season 1, First Blood, Terminator 2, Venture brothers season 1, Streets of Fire, Brazil, Sin City.

I don’t own a TV by choice although I do watch Netflix. I love Doctor Who, Torchwood, Star Trek: DSN, Burn Notice, Warehouse 13, Alphas, Soul Eater, Baccano, and even a little My Little Pony (Don’t laugh).

Music I have over 15 Gigs of music, pretty much everything other than modern rap and modern “country.” On rap modern means anything written after the late 80’s early 90’s.

Food is the only real addiction I have. I love a well cooked steak just as much as a good butter chicken or red curry. I love cooking with pineapple. I make a mean omelet and my Killer Mac and Cheese (from scratch none of that box junk) has been described as orgasmic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
One: My personal illusion of freedom.
Two: The ability to be true to myself.
Three: affection, physical and emotional.
Four: The rare people who call me their friend.
Five: Being able to creating something.
Six: The ability to question the world around me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything, nothing, and something. My mind is going over something or chewing at a problem all of the time. It keeps me up at night with constant quandaries and calculations.

When I am working on a painting, converting a miniature, making a wire tree, making a twisted metal ring, or even planning to cook myself something for breakfast. Hundreds if not thousands of thoughts flash through my mind like a Midwestern thunderstorm.

I try and think of how I can stand apart from my fellow males which I in general never really felt like one of. I don't like sports, cars are boring, and beer tastes like crap.

That dates should have a comment card at the end of them. On a 1 to 5 please rate this date and so on.

Why so many people don't understand what the word feminism means.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I will be working from 4 pm till 12 am running a Magic the Gathering event for my store. I do it every Friday. Most of the time my Saturdays are free however. Which I generally devote to painting or wandering around the city.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am an open book so if you want to know something about me just ask. However this comes with a warning, don’t ever ask me something you didn't want to know. I have no problem giving all the details about myself on something. You have been warned.

I am one of the founding staff of Geek Girl Con. It is something I'll always be proud of.
You should message me if
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If you want to meet someone different. Someone worth taking a chance on.