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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:32pm
Pansexual, Sapiosexual
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hi I'm Vinnie, the male counterpart to Lo-and-Vin. We are a poly age-gap couple, and part of a large polyamorous network of friends and lovers.

We are looking for a

* a bisexual poly couple
* a bisexual male
* a bisexual female

for casual dating and playtime!

We date both together and separately, but always with each other's knowledge. We practice ethical non-monogamy.

Recently, we've been exploring more dating separately, so if you're interested in either one of us separately, contact us!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm in an on-going polyamorous relationship - extremely successful, thus far, and enjoying a rather kinky and exciting life.

I live a life of sex positivity - no shame in any type of sexuality, orientation, or sexual experiences. If you aren't hurting others (apart from consensual bdsm), then your kink and sexuality is a wonderful part of you!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* knowing the difference between sex and love
* keeping an open mind
* listening
* kinky stuff and BDSM
* kissing
* puzzles and games
* picking out thoughtful gifts for people
* movie trivia
* packing the trunk of a car to use every last inch of space
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall and thin. I have a nice smile. I wear smart-boy glasses.

I'm usually surrounded by people much younger than me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Lolita and all the things on Kindle.
Movies - Classics, action, pixar pixar pixar!
Shows - live theater, American Horror Story. not much for TV.
Music - Classical piano, '60s-70s classic rock, Beyonce! (boo Country!)
Food - Breakfast, with a side of Bloody Mary, ftw!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
open mindedness
the ocean/beach
sexy times
sharing free time with friends
crazy nights howling at the moon
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my kinky life
my poly family
my dog
whatever I'm reading
the next kinky thing I want to do and learn
how to squeeze the most out of every day and keep up with everything!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a community kink event or spending it with my poly family or new friends. Being open to life and possibilities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am comfortable with my sexuality and am open to most new experiences.
You should message me if
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You are
*single or partnered AND available
*bisexual - a plus!
* a poly couple open to meeting up and being friends with a poly couple with a 20+ year age gap (I'm 51, she's 29).
*sex positive

Or some combination of the above!

Interested in or practicing polyamory