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Vin-and-Lo

51 La Mesa, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 18
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi I'm Vinnie! I'm the male counterpart to Lo-and-Vin. We are a poly couple looking to find other poly couples for play and friendship.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a writing teaching - that's how I make the big bucks. I'm in an on-going polyamorous experiment - extremely successful, thus far, and enjoying a rather kinky and exciting life. And I'm always looking for time to play with my gorgeous and fantastic Australian Shepherd. I've learned to zen-out, relax, go-with-the-flow, and not worry about things very much. But don't mistake that for apathy or indifference. I'm passionate about many topics and have strong opinions. I choose my moments when those must come to the surface. I do not have a problem speaking my mind. I'm also a student of language and linguistics and will no doubt pay attention to not only what you say (I'm an excellent listener) but how you say it! I'm always looking for great books - running out of them. I'm fairly well read.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* puzzles and games
* card games
* packing the trunk of a car to use every last inch of space
* picking out gifts for people thoughtful
* putting together surprise parties and outings so no one finds out
* movie trivia
* making mixed drinks
* baking
* kinky stuff and BDSM
* keeping an open mind
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall and thin.
I have a nice smile.
I wear smart-boy glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I studied literature for a profession - too many to list! Love classics - Anna Karenina, Lolita, The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, The Great Gatsby, Ulysses, The Waste Land, The Catcher in the Rye, One Hundred Years of Solitude, The World According to Garp, A Prayer for Owen Meany - most John Irving, everything by Faulkner, Homer, Shakespeare, Chaucer, Tristram Shandy, but then I like modern works too, This House of Sky, Fight Club, Howl, On the Road, and lots of non-fiction, too. I read widely and always have a book and a Kindle or two available!

Movies - again classics and best pictures -American Beauty, Chinatown, Gone with the Wind, Lawrence of Arabia, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Saving Private Ryan, The Deer Hunter, Apocalypse Now, and all of Kubrick - Lolita, the Shining especially. - and musicals! (West Side Story, The Music Man, Bye Bye Birdie, My Fair Lady, Mary Poppins etc.). Pixar Pixar Pixar!

Not much for TV - but our poly group is watching American Horror Story. Loved me some Battlestar Galactica (old and new!).

Music - raised playing classical piano (which I play poorly), and like all kinds of music, including standards from the 20s to today, and everything in between, with a penchant for classic rock. Not a fan of country music, but oddly enough I can stand some rap and hip hop.

Food - I enjoy good food but I wouldn't call myself a foodie. Not a fast food fan. Breakfast!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sex
my Kindle(s)
something to write with
open mindedness
the ocean/beach
sex and cuddlefucking - and sexual experimentation!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my kinky life
my writing
my poly family
my dog
whatever I'm reading
the next kinky thing I want to do and learn
how to squeeze the most out of every day and keep up with everything!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No set plans - being open to life and possibilities

Spending time with my Lolita (gf) and getting up to some kind of trouble, whether finding people to invite in, or going out. I like to let loose when I can and howl at the moon when possible.

Sometimes it's just a quiet night with some left over work or reading and a movie and cuddles.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am comfortable with my sexuality. I am listed as heteroflexible on Fetlife and striving for the flexibility of a gold medal gymnast. I like to keep not only an open mind but completely unfenced boundaries rivaling the Canadian Yukon for territory when it comes to circumscribing my sexuality.
You should message me if
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You are single, available, or a poly couple open to meeting up and being friends with a poly couple with a plus-20 year age gap (I'm 50, she's 27).

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