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51 • La Mesa, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 11:37am
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
I live a life of sex positivity - no shame in any type of sexuality, orientation, or sexual experiences. If you aren't hurting others (apart from consensual bdsm), then your kink and sexuality is a wonderful part of you!
I've learned to zen-out, relax, go-with-the-flow, and not worry about things very much. But don't mistake that for apathy or indifference. I'm passionate about many topics and have strong opinions. I'm passionate about language and literature, and I'm also an excellent listener. I'm always looking for great books to read.
* keeping an open mind
* kinky stuff and BDSM
* puzzles and games
* picking out thoughtful gifts for people
* making mixed drinks
* movie trivia
* packing the trunk of a car to use every last inch of space
I have a nice smile.
I wear smart-boy glasses.
Movies - again classics and best pictures -American Beauty, Chinatown, Gone with the Wind, Lawrence of Arabia, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Saving Private Ryan, The Deer Hunter, Apocalypse Now, and all of Kubrick - Lolita, the Shining especially. - and musicals! (West Side Story, The Music Man, Bye Bye Birdie, My Fair Lady, Mary Poppins etc.). Pixar Pixar Pixar!
Not much for TV - but our poly group is watching American Horror Story. Loved me some Battlestar Galactica (old and new!).
Music - raised playing classical piano (which I play poorly), and like all kinds of music, including standards from the 20s to today, and everything in between, with a penchant for classic rock. Not a fan of country music, but oddly enough I can stand some rap and hip hop.
Food - I enjoy good food but I wouldn't call myself a foodie. Not a fast food fan. Breakfast!
HOT: Honesty, Openness, Transparency
cuddlefucking, and other sexual experimentation!
my poly family
whatever I'm reading
the next kinky thing I want to do and learn
how to squeeze the most out of every day and keep up with everything!
Spending time with my Lolita (gf) and getting up to some kind of trouble, whether finding people to invite in, or going out. I like to let loose when I can and howl at the moon when possible.
Sometimes it's just a quiet night with a movie and cuddles.
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