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51 • La Mesa, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, casual sex
- Last Online
- Dec 18
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
* card games
* packing the trunk of a car to use every last inch of space
* picking out gifts for people thoughtful
* putting together surprise parties and outings so no one finds out
* movie trivia
* making mixed drinks
* kinky stuff and BDSM
* keeping an open mind
I have a nice smile.
I wear smart-boy glasses.
Movies - again classics and best pictures -American Beauty, Chinatown, Gone with the Wind, Lawrence of Arabia, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Saving Private Ryan, The Deer Hunter, Apocalypse Now, and all of Kubrick - Lolita, the Shining especially. - and musicals! (West Side Story, The Music Man, Bye Bye Birdie, My Fair Lady, Mary Poppins etc.). Pixar Pixar Pixar!
Not much for TV - but our poly group is watching American Horror Story. Loved me some Battlestar Galactica (old and new!).
Music - raised playing classical piano (which I play poorly), and like all kinds of music, including standards from the 20s to today, and everything in between, with a penchant for classic rock. Not a fan of country music, but oddly enough I can stand some rap and hip hop.
Food - I enjoy good food but I wouldn't call myself a foodie. Not a fast food fan. Breakfast!
something to write with
sex and cuddlefucking - and sexual experimentation!
my poly family
whatever I'm reading
the next kinky thing I want to do and learn
how to squeeze the most out of every day and keep up with everything!
Spending time with my Lolita (gf) and getting up to some kind of trouble, whether finding people to invite in, or going out. I like to let loose when I can and howl at the moon when possible.
Sometimes it's just a quiet night with some left over work or reading and a movie and cuddles.
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