Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am actually 55, not 49. I had to change it since I was getting
messages from women who were much older than me. I also seem to
gravitate to younger women who have less baggage and less life
thrown at them, but I am always open to the possibilities.
Chivalry is not dead, just most of the men who practice it. I'm
still not sure that OKC is the place to look for the love of my
life, especially since I am in no hurry to find someone by
tomorrow, so maybe it can wait until Friday.
That being said, I am also at a time of my life where I'm no longer
willing to just settle. Yes, I miss the touch, the scent and the
romance of being with someone special. But I want something that's
a little deeper this time around.
Ultimately, I would like to meet a woman who is spiritual, honest,
creative, sexy and romantic. A woman who handles her life with
integrity and has a great sense of humor, as mine tends to lean a
bit sarcastic. I'm looking for a true partner who wants a mutually
committed relationship that enhances both of our lives.
I'm also a single dad, which seems to limit the contestant pool.
For me, it's the most incredible feeling to be able to see the
world thru a child's eyes and know that I have a enormous
responsibility to keep his lens as clear as possible. This isn't
about finding a mom for him, he has one. It's about finding a great
woman for his dad.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Staying fit, hiking, writing, reading and working while striving
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. I can also cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Maybe my smile, or maybe my quick wit and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
To Kill A Mockingbird, It's A Wonderful Life, Shawshank Redemption,
You Can't Take It With You, Family Man, A Christmas Carol,
Sarum, The Agony & The Ecstasy, Great Expectations, The Sermon
on the Mount, The Four Agreements, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari,
ODAT, Dexter, Mad Men, Ray Donovan, Breaking Bad, The Borgias,
pasta, salmon, a nice filet, pizza and romano cheese in no
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son and his laughter.
My sense of humor.
My passion and creativity.
My coffee maker.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Meeting a woman who's thinking about me while I'm thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe grabbing a pizza and watching a movie.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're tired of meeting guys who don't have their shit
You aren't looking to be rescued.
Your best picture isn't a selfie with you and your pet with drinks
in your hands.
Your best picture isn't one of you in front of the Eiffel Tower. Do
you realize how many women have pictures of themselves in front of
it on OKC? Was it a tour?
Your best picture isn't one of you and your dog in front of the
Your picture of you and your dog will not have gained 100 pounds by
the time we meet.
You feel just as comfortable wearing shorts at the Hollywood Bowl,
an evening dress at the opera or some lingerie in front of the
You look good in red lipstick getting out of the shower.
On a side note, for those who want to send me nasty messages about
their dogs, I have a dog and I love him, so please take this
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