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Vinbad

49 M Valley Village, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:49am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am actually 54, not 49. I had to change it since I was getting messages from women who were much older than me. I seem to gravitate to younger women who have less baggage and less life thrown at them. No offense ladies.

I 'm not sure that OKC is the place to look for the love of my life, but I am open to the possibilities. I do know that I am in no hurry to find someone by tomorrow. I can wait until Friday.

That being said, I am also at a time of my life where I'm no longer willing to just settle. Yes, I miss the touch, the scent and the romance of being with someone special. But I want something that's a little deeper this time around.

Ultimately, I would like to meet a woman who is spiritual, honest, creative, sexy and romantic. A woman who handles her life with integrity and has a great sense of humor, as mine tends to lean a bit sarcastic (check my "You should message me if...").

I'm looking for a true partner who wants a mutually committed relationship that enhances both of our lives.

I'm also a single dad, which seems to limit the contestant pool. For me, it's the most incredible feeling to be able to see the world thru a child's eyes and know that I have a enormous responsibility to keep his lens as clear as possible. This isn't about finding a mom for him, he has one. It's about finding a great woman for his dad.
What I’m doing with my life
Staying fit, hiking, writing, reading and working while striving for balance.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. I can also cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
Maybe my smile, or maybe my quick wit and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
To Kill A Mockingbird, It's A Wonderful Life, Shawshank Redemption, You Can't Take It With You, Family Man, A Christmas Carol, Lincoln,
Sarum, The Agony & The Ecstasy, Great Expectations, The Sermon on the Mount, The Four Agreements, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, ODAT, Dexter, Mad Men, Ray Donovan, Breaking Bad, The Borgias, pasta, salmon, a nice filet, pizza and romano cheese in no particular order.
The six things I could never do without
My son and his laughter.
My family.
My sense of humor.
My health.
My passion and creativity.
My coffee maker.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Meeting a woman who's thinking about me while I'm thinking about her.
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe grabbing a pizza and watching a movie.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're tired of meeting guys who don't have their shit together...
You aren't looking to be rescued...
Your best picture isn't a selfie with you and your pet with drinks in your hands...
You did not post a picture in front of the Eiffel Tower. Do you realize how many people have pictures of themselves in front of it on OKC alone?
You do not have a picture of you and your dog in front of the Eiffel Tower...
Your picture will not have gained 100 pounds by the time we meet...
You feel just as comfortable wearing shorts at the Hollywood Bowl, an evening dress at the opera or some lingerie in front of the fireplace...
You look good in red lipstick getting out of the shower...