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39 Claremont, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 2
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly other
Not at all
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Artist seeks the Smartest -

You can call me Vince, I'm a creative jack of all trades who works with art, music, video, acting etc. I would like to meet an intelligent lady for conversation, inspiration and romance! You could be an artist yourself, or just someone who has an appreciation for the arts! It takes all kinds of people to make the world work, and you can learn something from any of them.

I am a white man in my 30's, thin, and of average height - I have a larger voice than you'd expect by seeing me! ( singing, "radio voice" etc. ) Of the famous artists, I most look like Van Gogh or Lautrec, hence the name. My work might remind you of Warhol, Kandinski, Murakami or Miazaki?
( I do change my hair and beard style a lot to go with a particular acting role or project - see photos. )

Sometimes I am outgoing and talkative, a great storyteller! At other times, I am quiet and meditative. As a boyfriend, I am very caring and physically affectionate. I respect my fellow human beings, and don't believe the cliché that "nice guys finish last"! Nonsense. I believe strongly in the value of a positive attitude toward life!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a Freelance video editor, media designer and voice actor. Also I am a musician and performer.
Previously, I was the Co-Director of an Art Gallery and before that I worked at an Art School.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1 thinking of new ideas
2 teaching or inspiring people to be creative
3 listening as well as speaking or singing
4 enjoying the random elements of life
5 VJing, though you may not know what that is!
6 writing far too much
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When they hear me, people are surprised by my "radio" voice. Some say I have an unusual accent - ( can you place it? ) and formal way of speaking. I can do character voices, and sing in many different styles.

If they see me first, they would notice my clothes, or hats - I do look the part of an artist, designer, or musician.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
this could take FOREVER to list! best get started...

Unlike most guys, I have no interest in watching sports teams, or network TV in general - it is usually a waste of time. My only purpose for cars is transportation ( though I can appreciate a well designed, or customized vehicle ) I do require high-powered computers, cameras and music gear, for what I do, however!

FILM is a prime interest ( and I make my own! )
LIVE ACTION: Auteur Directors, such as Stanley Kubrick, Terry Gilliam, Tim Burton, Michel Gondry, Orson Welles, Guillermo Del Toro, John Woo, Tarantino, etc...
TV Doctor Who, Netflix, Documentaries
I'm an expert in world animation and Anime -
FLCL, Evangelion, Giant Robo, Gankutsuoh, Captain Harlock

Electronic Music (Is my favorite style, and I make my own.)
IDM, Electro, Indie-Tronic, Industrial, Trip Hop, Experimental, etc. etc.
Rock Music (I like some classics more than modern pop crap.)
The Doors, The Animals, Iron Butterfly, Gothic Rock, Beatles, Elvis, Dylan
Classical Music is my antidote to too much modern music!
Hip Hop, R/B - Again, mainstream sucks. I like: Del, Gnarles Barkley,
Outkast, Kanye, classic Snoop.
I like world music, and also TOTALLY RANDOM music, to inspire me,
as in flipping through the radio channels.

I eat a very healthy (though not vegetarian) diet of "california food".
I sometime like exotic food, Indian, Thai, Japanese, Ethiopian, Persian...
but don't always eat it due to spice overload.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Pen / Pencil / Brush and ink or paint
2. Paper / Something to draw on

with those, I will never be bored.

3. Love and Friendship
4. A Challenge / A Quest

these are what life is about!

5. A Computer / Synthesizer
6. A Camera / Tape Recorder

these are my high tech tools.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
art, the meaning of life, romance, ethics and the future of humankind
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
getting ready to do an art show or concert!
Would you like to meet me there?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Okay, I admit it.... I like..... Karaoke. It's fun, good band practice! Don't hate me.
Come to the bar and I'll sing Sinatra or Jim Morrison for you.
Or sing some for me?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. You like artists, musicians, and creativity. You don't have to be an "artist" yourself, as long as you value it.

2. You are intelligent and like good conversation. (yes, I think glasses can be sexy!) If you can write double entendres, you may earn great favor.

3. You like affection - a sensitive, romantic guy who is not afraid to talk about emotions and such. I like to cuddle a LOT, human touch is great.

4. You get the random idea to send me a note about whatever... Keeps life interesting.

5. You are tired of the "average joe", because I am definitely not him! You have probably "never met someone like me before"... That sounds pretentious, doesn't it? but people do often tell me that...

6. Long-winded discussions like the previous don't scare you away. You like to read and write long in depth emails, and actually respond to what I say, because I will do it for you. ;-)>