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43 Santa Monica, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 2
White, Other
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
More than $1,000,000
Seeing Someone
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Esperanto (Poorly), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a passionate, creative . . . uh, fuck that - I'm a bronco-bustin', steer-roping guy that's a cross between greased lighting and the place where it hits.

I also just moved to Cali June 1, 2013 for a career change - yikes!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to be more conscious.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Knowing how many 1969 Pontiac GTOs were built with the Ram Air IV motor.

- Hearing a song and knowing what year it's from.

- Introducing people to new things like food and music.

- Connecting the dots among different realms of popular culture.

- Killing people with kindness.


- Putting shopping carts where they belong at the supermarket.

- Riding my bike and not being a douchebag.

- Kissing doggies.

- Irony without the fuckin' mustache.

- Not wearing black.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
- My lips

- Then, that I don't hold back.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
You can ask me about my hobbies, goals/aspirations, my uniqueness, and my taste in music if you'd like.

However, I think there's a lot of other things that are much more interesting to talk about . . . like connections, energy, and the yin/yang of men/women.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Food
- Water
- Shelter
- Rock, paper, scissors
- Ice cream
- Urges my daddy told me were private
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Why many here feel so compelled to name-drop quasi-obscure authors, philosophers, directors, etc. as if there's a need to show our intellectual or political credentials. It reeks of sanctimony …. perhaps like this comment.

- (Like I said above), Ice cream.

- Whether you're telling the truth about your age.

- Trying to find the fine line between passion and compulsion.

- Why people feel it's alright to behave in a less-than-polite manner just because this is the Internet.

- How you're not as punk rock as you think you are.

- Whether everyone here is a sarcastic nerd.

- How independent thought in NYC is truly lacking (and LA too?).

- Whether you're looking at my profile because I said I make a cool million a year - I mean, really?

- How the "Personality" section doesn't necessarily really reflect me, and how I look back at some of the Q&A and think, "I answered it *that* way?"

- How come it's the guy who always has to initiate conversation? Didn't Gloria Steinem change things, or am I mistaken?

- Boobies
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
. . . curling up with you, naturally.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I may have been the first straight, white male who was a victim of a hate crime.

And I don't give a shit if you don't like emoticons. :-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are the XX-chromosomed version of me.

(Currently in a relationship but networking's cool.)