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VincebusEruptum

42 M Santa Monica, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Esperanto (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a passionate, creative . . . uh, fuck that - I'm a bronco-bustin', steer-roping guy that's a cross between greased lighting and the place where it hits.

I also just moved to Cali June 1, 2013 for a career change - yikes!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to be more conscious.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Knowing how many 1969 Pontiac GTOs were built with the Ram Air IV motor.

- Hearing a song and knowing what year it's from.

- Introducing people to new things like food and music.

- Connecting the dots among different realms of popular culture.

- Killing people with kindness.

- GGG

- Putting shopping carts where they belong at the supermarket.

- Riding my bike and not being a douchebag.

- Kissing doggies.

- Irony without the fuckin' mustache.

- Not wearing black.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
- My lips

- Then, that I don't hold back.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
You can ask me about my hobbies, goals/aspirations, my uniqueness, and my taste in music if you'd like.

However, I think there's a lot of other things that are much more interesting to talk about . . . like connections, energy, and the yin/yang of men/women.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Food
- Water
- Shelter
- Rock, paper, scissors
- Ice cream
- Urges my daddy told me were private
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Why many here feel so compelled to name-drop quasi-obscure authors, philosophers, directors, etc. as if there's a need to show our intellectual or political credentials. It reeks of sanctimony …. perhaps like this comment.

- (Like I said above), Ice cream.

- Whether you're telling the truth about your age.

- Trying to find the fine line between passion and compulsion.

- Why people feel it's alright to behave in a less-than-polite manner just because this is the Internet.

- How you're not as punk rock as you think you are.

- Whether everyone here is a sarcastic nerd.

- How independent thought in NYC is truly lacking (and LA too?).

- Whether you're looking at my profile because I said I make a cool million a year - I mean, really?

- How the "Personality" section doesn't necessarily really reflect me, and how I look back at some of the Q&A and think, "I answered it *that* way?"

- How come it's the guy who always has to initiate conversation? Didn't Gloria Steinem change things, or am I mistaken?

- Boobies
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
. . . curling up with you, naturally.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I may have been the first straight, white male who was a victim of a hate crime.

And I don't give a shit if you don't like emoticons. :-)
You should message me if
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You are the XX-chromosomed version of me.