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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm the best hyperbole ever.

I'm a nice guy who is down to earth and has his stuff together. I'm educated, intelligent, fit and health conscious (I've lost over 35 pounds in the last year, and not many of my photos reflect that. Yes, I'm bad at current photos...working on that). I'm an athlete, a nerd and a musician who has been lucky enough to call himself a professional at all of those things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying myself as much as humanly possible. I work to live, and I'm good at it. I've got a fantastic career that pays well, has excellent benefits and great job security. Not only that, when it comes time to call it a day I don't have to even THINK about work until I head back in the morning. This allows me to pursue my many hobbies and interests - golf, softball, board games, video games, reading, bass guitar and piano, to name a few.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Looking awesome when I golf.

(Apparently mobile versions of OkCupid are lame and don't allow HTML. If you want to understand the significance of this statement [which is actually a hyperlink on the main site], google '2013 NCGA 4 Ball Net Championship')
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told I have pretty blue eyes, a nice butt, and I'm often told that I smell nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Far too many to list here, of all of these things. Here's an arbitrary list of random things in no particular order that is supposed to give you an idea of the things I like:


1. Booty Swing, Parov Stelar
2. Breakfast at Tiffany's, Deep Blue Something
3. Some Nights, fun.
4. Here Comes the Sun, The Beatles
5. What's Golden, Jurassic 5


1. The Girl on the Bridge (French)
2. The Matrix
3. Big Hero 6
4. In Bruges
5. Kiss Kiss, Bang Bang


1. Peace Like a River, Leif Enger
2. Neverwhere, Neil Gaiman
3. Catch-22, Joseph Heller
4. Infinite Jest, David Foster Wallace
5. Dragons of Autumn Twilight, Margaret Weis and Tracy Hickman

TV (which I really don't watch much of):

1. Firefly
2. Battlestar Galactica
3. Archer
4. Parks and Recreation
5. The Wire

Food: I'll eat anything, as long as it doesn't have coconut, cooked mushrooms or coffee in it. Favorites include sushi, Cajun (recently taught myself how to make a pretty mean jambalaya), salads and other things that are edible.

Board Games:

1. Eclipse
2. Risk: Legacy
3. Settlers of Catan
4. Splendor
5. Terra Mystica

These lists are woefully incomplete - I have over 31,000 songs in my musical library, I own over 300 books and I would run out of space in here telling you about restaurants I love in the area. And let's not get started on my board game collection...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, oxygen and food/water are a given, so here are six more things:

Board Games
My Piano
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'm possibly going to cram as many of the things I want to do with my life into my life.

Also, time travel. Time travel would be helpful with the former.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Rehearsing with my band, playing board games with my roommates, trying out a new restaurant with some friends or rushing to finish my round of golf before the sun sets.

Recent edit: these days, probably working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've actually read the Twilight series. I lost a bet. They were awful.

Also, I'm apparently not 5'10" anymore. I've tried to change my height on my profile several times, and I just can't seem to do it. Ego is a terrible thing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are awesome. don't take yourself too seriously.'re willing to try new things.'re willing to show ME new things. have a book, band or an album to suggest to me. are single, and you don't intend to date multiple people at once. think that kissing is an extremely important activity that should be done often, well, and for longer than a few seconds at a time.