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VioletSir

34 Wesley Chapel, FL Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:59pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Administration
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Hi, I'm a 34-year-old happily married guy who moved to the Tampa area in October of 2012. I'm here to find people who may have similar interests and likes. Moving from another state, it's kind of hard to meet new people, so I figured I'd give this a try.

Let me also state that while my wife (she's on here too: synthcuttlefish) and I are polyamorous, and open to the possibility of romantic relationships, we are looking for friends first and foremost - people who have common interests with us. Board games, Disney, camping, film, MST3K, theatre, period costuming and cosplay, and enjoying life. If we connect, then we can look at possibly allowing the friendship to blossom into something more.
What I’m doing with my life
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My wife and I moved from Maryland to Tampa in October of 2012. I work full-time as an administrative assistant, and have a Bachelor's degree in English and a Master's in Publications Design. We have really blossomed in Florida - spending time at the beaches, exploring the area, and days/weekends at Disney. My wife is also an administrative assistant and is all kinds of awesome. We've recently begun to dip our feet in polyamory, and so far we are really enjoying it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
theatre, board games, film trivia, being a good listener/friend, web design, and more.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My sense of humor and my eyes. I'm a bigger guy, so I'm sure that's noticeable too!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:
Fiction: Carl Hiaasen, Michael Crichton, Stephen King
Nonfiction: Anything on the history of Disney Parks, The Ethical Slut, Opening Up.

Film: Rocky Horror, MST3K, Monty Python, Disney Animation & Live Action, - really, I love a lot of films, and have seen a lot.

Television: Anything paranormal, Doctor Who, X-Files, Law & Order: SVU; Embarrassing Bodies (UK), IT Crowd, Big Bang Theory, MST3K, Lost, The Walking Dead, The Wire, etc.

Music: Jimmy Buffett, Cowboy Mouth, Oingo Boingo, Billy Joel, The Me First and the Gimme-Gimmes, Monkees, Rock, Classic Rock, Musicals, Soundtracks, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My wife.
2. Good friends.
3. Non-"Vanilla" indulgences.
4. My movie collection.
5. Music.
6. WDW Annual Pass.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My wife, friends, family, living and loving life in Florida!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't always have a typical Friday night - movies, Disney, board games with friends, kink events, and more!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My wife and I are into the kink scene, and enjoy geeky, kink-friendly people in our lives. We don't live the lifestyle 24-7, but I am interested in learning more about it, and being the best, most loving Dom I can be. Also, while I identify closer to heterosexual than bisexual, I do not rule out men completely - I have had positive experiences with my wife and a male friend, but we generally connect more with women/femme, I suppose.
You should message me if
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Currently, I am looking for friends who are into Disney, video games, board games, theatre, film, and/or kink. I'm not specifically looking for kinky people, just those who are not bothered by it and accept it. <3 <3

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