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35 Wesley Chapel, FL Man, Cis Man

Man, Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 6:33am
Straight, Heteroflexible, Questioning
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Full figured
Post grad
Wants kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
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Hi, I'm a 35-year-old happily married guy who moved to the Tampa area in October of 2012. I'm here to find people who may have similar interests and likes. Moving from another state, it's kind of hard to meet new people, so I figured I'd give this a try.

My wife (she's on here too: VioletSwitch) and I are polyamorous, and open to the possibility of romantic relationships or play partners outside of our primary one. We are not looking for a third to join us - although if we met the right person, we would consider it.

I'm looking for friends first and foremost - people who have common interests with me: Board games, Disney, theme parks, camping, film, MST3K, theatre, day trips around Florida, and the beach. If we connect, then we can look at allowing the friendship to blossom into something more.
What I’m doing with my life
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We moved to Tampa in late 2012, and absolutely love it here. We're an hour away from Disney and the Gulf Coast, so there's always something to do. I currently work as an Administrative Assistant in higher-ed. We've also begun to get involved in the local kink/poly scene, and thoroughly enjoying it. It's a close-knit community - which is wonderful.
I’m really good at
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Musical theatre, Disney, & film trivia; web design; being a good friend & listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My sense of humor and my eyes. I'm a bigger guy, so I'm sure that's noticeable too!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fiction: Carl Hiaasen, Michael Crichton, Stephen King
Nonfiction: Anything on the history of Disney Parks, The Ethical Slut, Opening Up.

Film: Rocky Horror, MST3K, Monty Python, cult films (John Waters especially), horror, action, sci-if, Disney Animation & Live Action, - really, I love a lot of films, and have seen a lot.

Television: Anything paranormal, Doctor Who, X-Files, Law & Order: SVU; Embarrassing Bodies (UK), IT Crowd, Big Bang Theory, MST3K, Lost, The Walking Dead, The Wire, etc.

Music: Nate Ruess, The Format, Jimmy Buffett, Cowboy Mouth, Oingo Boingo, Billy Joel, The Me First and the Gimme-Gimmes, Monkees, Rock, Classic Rock, Musicals, Soundtracks, etc.
The six things I could never do without
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1. My wife.
2. Good friends.
3. Non-"Vanilla" indulgences.
4. My movie collection.
5. Music.
6. WDW Annual Pass.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My wife, friends, family, living and loving life in Florida!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't always have a typical Friday night - movies, Disney, board games with friends, kink events, and more!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My wife and I are into the kink scene, and enjoy geeky, kink-friendly people in our lives. We don't live the lifestyle 24-7, but I am interested in learning more about it, and being the best, most loving Dom/top/Daddy I can be. Also, while I identify closer to heterosexual than bisexual, I do not rule out men completely - I have had positive experiences with my wife and a male friend, but I generally connect more with women/femme, I suppose.
You should message me if
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Currently, I am looking for friends who are into Disney, video games, board games, theatre, film, and/or kink. I'm not specifically looking for kinky people, just those who are not bothered by it and accept it. <3 <3

So if you're looking for a friend, play partner, or something more, send me a message!