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Violet_Starfire

33 Fresno, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:14am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
4′ 10″ (1.47m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Hello!! :) Thanks for checking out my profile. I know its very long but I found its better to just put it all out there so there are no surprises latter- nothing worse than finding someone your into but when they find out what your all about and cant handle it - they disapear. I am really looking for deep connections with people.

A Bit About What I Am Up To:
I am a single mother of 2 little girls (8 & 9) {that I try to shelter from relationships unless its very serious- I dont want them getting attached to someone without feeling secure that they will be around for a long time}, they are the most impotrant thing in my life and always come first. I just moved back home with my folks as my dad is disabled and my mom needs a lot of help around the house. I am currently unable to work due to bad knees and am waiting to have surgery (hopefully this summer), after which I will return to work doing event security. I have 2 small dogs, 2 birds and some fish that are very important to me as well. I have green thumbs (and fingers) and spend a lot of my free time in my garden- I try to eat heathy and I grow as many veggies and herbs as I can and I love to cook with them.

A Bit About Who I Am:
I am a simple happy go-lucky girl. I believe being happy is a choice, not a mood. I take the time to stop and smell the flowers and count my blessings as often as possible. I am a bit of a free spirit and I'm pretty laid back and very easy going. I dont ask or want for much. I am not driven by money or material possessions. I believe that the simplest of things are what enrich ones life the most. I can be a lot to handle in a good way and I am a lot of fun, I can promise you that.
I grew up in the sierras so I am a total mountain girl. I am a bit of a redneck mixed with a touch of tom-boy, so I tend to be a jeans and tee shirt kind of girl. I thrive when living off the land, I would prefer to have a large garden and herds of animals on a piece of land up in the middle of nowhere rather than a fancy house, new car and brand name clothes. People say I am a self reliant nonconformist, (I like to think of myself as an Anti-conformist).
I am kinda co-dependent, not as in I need someone to take care of me and all that, I just need someone to sit next to on the couch, I like having someone to take care of domestically. So obviously I dont like living alone, however I do appreciate my "alone time". I believe my place is in the home, cooking cleaning and taking care of things. Being a housewife is one of my dream jobs.
As far religious and spiritual beliefs- I was raised a Christian but it never really felt right. Through my journey I realized that all religions have there pros and cons but paganism is more fitting to my own born instincts. I am quiet spiritual and try to expand my mind as much as possible. In the last few years I began studying the Asartu beliefs and found that to be quite fitting. I also believe its not what you believe in- its that you believe in something. I feel even if your belief in a purple spaghetti monster helps you get through your day, live a better life and gives you hope then its worth believing in.

A Bit About What I Am Into:
When asked what I am into, I usually say anything, cause the truth is with good company I can have fun doing just about anything. I try make the best out of every moment I am given, after all thats all life is, just a series of moments. What interests me the most are 4x4's and motorcycles, riding my horse, enjoying nature and simply having fun. I also enjoy cold beers on hot days, grilling and cooking, swimming, bon-fires, photography, singing (even though I cant), hockey, road trips, fishing, shooting, playing in the snow and mud, ranch work, turning wrenches, but mostly things that go fast, work hard or go kaboom, any thing with an engine and what ever gets my hands dirty.
When it comes to my sexual desires, it gets a little interesting... Now its obvious as human beings we are all looking for physical connections with someone but I want to find someone I am truely compatible with so we can thoroughly enjoy the time we share. I am bisexual, it is a fantasy of mine to live in harmony with both a man and a woman. I am into kink and bdsm. I am a switch but being submissive comes more naturally, I love role playing, toys and I am very into fetishes, I am fond of mutual grooming rituals and playing sexual games. I thoroughly enjoy "gentle forcefulness", sometimes I want to be treated with passion and love, sometimes I want to be pulled around by my hair. I want a someone who will take his time as we develop a sexual relationship based on trust and communication. I need to know my partner will not cause me harm mentaly, physically, emotionally or spiritually and my partner needs to feel the same. I do not like feeling pressure to have sex-its my biggest turn off. When I am ready to have sex with someone I will let them know. All the subtle hints and lames jokes in the world will not make me change my mind.

Parting Words:
I have been on these dating sites off and on for a while now and I have made some really great friends, but I havent found what I am looking for. I dont really have time to go out and meet people, I figured these sites are full of people looking for other people so my chances of finding someone are good, (I just try to keep in mind that somewhere out there, there is a good guy who is having just as much trouble finding me). I am looking for something simple. Someone I can spend time with, I need a buddy & a lover, someone to laugh with and who will help me take on this cold world. I need someone who can help me find the humor and good in even the worst of situations. I am looking for someone to share mutual respect, trust, attraction, affection, intimacy, passion and some sort of a connection and deep friendship with.
I just wanted to let you know once we find each other, I promise I will not play head games nor cause drama, but strive to improve the quality of our lives through happiness. I will always be accepting, open minded, attentive to your needs, and do everything I can to put a smile on your face everyday.
What I’m doing with my life
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What ever I want, its my life to enjoy! :)
I’m really good at
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Making people laugh and helping them realize how great life really is, even when it sucks!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My chest, then my smile- Oh wait! I meant people notice that I have a huge heart and I go out of my way to bring joy and help people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love all good food, seafood/sushi is by far my favorite but I love trying new things.

As far as music goes I like a little bit of everything as long as it has a good beat.
I like a little rock, metal, country, folk, hiphop, rap, dubstep and classical.

My favorite tv shows are Vikings, Family Guy, American Dad, and anything with Gordan Ramsey.

I have never really had time to watch movies but I did enjoy 300, the Fast and Furious series, American Beauty, Things to do in Denver and Bad Santa. I will watch anything with Jason Statham and Will Ferrell makes.me laugh my a** off.

I dont read much but my favorite book of all time was 'The Thief of Always' by Clive Barker. If I am reading its usually to learn about something.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, Water, Shelter, Family, Hope, Happiness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. Its going to be awesome!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Just doing whatever...
I am usually down to have fun and go out or hang out with my friends. I do try to enjoy every moment of life I can so I am usually up to something even if I am having movie night with the kids.
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