Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a person that is VERY engrossed in the arts and it's many
diversities. It flows through my veins and I present it
aesthetically in conjunction with what I do. Music is IMPERATIVE to
my LIFE and I seek solace in it whenever I can, driven to the
ALTERNATIVE or HEAVY side of it. I ALSO have a PASSION for
classical pieces with an EMPHASIS on piano fortes, I am not only
ABLE to READ music, I can PLAY it. I am NOT easily amused and DON'T
tolerate DRAMA in any form or fashion. Life is too short to be
SQUANDERED on INCESSANT NONSENSE or the INSTANT BULLSHIT. Being
from Chicago, I do not START trouble, HOWEVER if it comes to ME I
WILL FINISH IT.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have MANY responsibilities and it is IMPORTANT that I tend to
EACH and EVERY one. I work hard and enjoy travel, new experiences,
locations, and people. My love for going to the gym is evident as
it clears my MIND, relieves STRESS, and makes me STRONGER. Running
5K's is my current obsession, and I plan on indulging in the ROCK
AND ROLL half marathon this autumn. I also want to eventually do
the "FILTHY FIFTY" at some point. I participate in CHARITIES
whenever I can, PARTICULARLY those dealing with WOMEN and CHILDREN
surviving ABUSE or battling Cancer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I consider myself an extrovert and can converse and interact with
ANY type of personality. Truth be told, I LOVE people and I rarely
EVER meet a stranger. My work is EXTREMELY important to me, and I
pride myself on PERFECTING my skill and bringing out the BEST
artistic result in my endeavors.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I do NOT look like everyone else and that is the EXACT intention.
Most people take notice of my hair, makeup, clothes, and tattoos.
It gives me a chance to interact with a DIVERSE genre of people and
invite them into a small window of my world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am an avid lover of the classics along with some modern writers.
I am drawn to that Gothic - historical type of writing and do some
creating myself. I enjoy going to the movies and there are too many
favorites to choose from. Musically, I prefer HEAVY, HARD CORE
styles. From OLD SCHOOL l to MODERN I embrace it all. I am ITALIAN,
therefore I'm sure the cuisine I prefer is pretty evident. I can
also cook like a MOFO, pretty much any style of FARE. I also try to
eat pretty healthy with chicken and salads being my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my purpose is in this life, and whom I ALLOW to enter and
enrich it. I am EXTREMELY selective pertaining to this METHOD and
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Considering I work all week, there may be times when I wish to go
OUT. There are OTHER times I wish to just stay home and relax in
the comfort of my surroundings.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I AM a rock star, but NOT a PARTY person. I like peace,
introspection, intellectual discourse, relaxation, and have ZERO
TOLERANCE for DRAMA and NONSENSE. Being a STRONG personality, there
is NO hesitation calling someone OUT. I live a VERY clean life and
do NOT do anything to poison my body such as smoke excessively, (I
DO indulge in the occasional CIGAR) drink, use drugs, or have
RANDOM intimate encounters with males. I'm OLD SCHOOL and prefer to
KEEP it that way. I'm true to HOW I was raised and fully UNDERSTAND
my WORTH and what I have to offer. Males who are looking for the
proverbial SIDE BONE, move the HELL on, I am wanting someone who
UNDERSTANDS I'm the ALPHA and the OMEGA, and can put it DOWN as
such. NON-NEGOTIABLE. This portion of what I wrote is NOT
"private", everyone who KNOWS me comprehends the fact I WILL NEVER
"settle" for being SECOND.
You should message me if
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I will ONLY accept conversation from people who are mentally SOUND,
INTELLIGENT, QUICK WITTED, CHARMING, and have GOALS and life
AMBITIONS. I am NOT looking to be any ones COUGAR experience, nor
will I play NURSE to an INVALID. I prefer someone who is MATURE in
what they BELIEVE and understands the mind is the ONE true
aphrodisiac and ALL laws of attraction begin THERE. Communication
is of UTMOST, PARAMOUNT, importance, second only to TRUST, in
conjunction with a METICULOUS appearance, and sense of HUMOR. The
MORE sarcastic the BETTER. I am not the type of woman who grabs her
purse and runs out the door to meet some male on SHORT notice, I am
a slow roller and prefer to get to know someone in depth via IM,
texting, phone conversation, and messaging before I FEEL
comfortable enough to take the NEXT step. It will NOT happen until
I am at ease with the person, therefore, do NOT ask nor pressure me
to do so. Do NOT message me if you are looking for a MEANINGLESS
sexual encounter, because you will be PISSING into the WIND on that
mark. A MEETING of the MINDS, a CONNECTION of SOULS, a fire RAGING
between two HEARTS. That is the EPITOME of ecstasy AND satisfaction
to the nth degree.
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