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57 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 44–56
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:02pm
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Polish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Although it's difficult to categorize myself, here is an expurgated version of my background info and preferences! I am the "charming international banker" type according to certain well placed observers - articulate, literate, know my way around the NYC cultural scene, successful and yet very down to earth. I am a native NYer who has lived much abroad, divorced, no kids and suffer from no communicable diseases except an infectious smile! I am seeking a unique woman - creative, vivacious, intelligent and able to keep up with me in terms of energy level, sense of humor, spontaneity and kindness. I do not believe there is one perfect match, but that people come together with differing sets of interests and proclivities and can build a great relationship if the right chemistry and outlook happen to align at the right place and time. Does that make sense? I invite you to investigate further. Aren't you tempted by unopened doors? PS - I am an unusual mix of hard charging corporate executive, waspish intellectual and down to earth country squire types. Would rather discuss Marcus Aurelius than the latest episode of "American Idol", would rather go out for a great dinner with you than hang around with the guys in the office, would rather go kayaking on Edgartown Great Pond than go to a comedy club.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Managing my career, growing emotionally and intellectually, looking for the right partner, enjoying the fruits of my labor, working on my tennis forehand....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Would you click off if I said "absolutely nothing"? Choosing the wine, organizing getaways, kissing, Monopoly, sensing your mood, sorting things out, much more. You just have to find out for yourself!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My self confidence, droll wit, commanding presence, blue eyes, good listening skills, ability to get things done and still get along with (mostly) everybody.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too numerous to mention. Books - most works of Goethe, Dickens, Seneca, Cicero. Examples - Moby Dick, The Prince, Faust, John Adams, Bleak House

Films- The Wizard of Oz, The Searchers, Lord of the Rings, The Crucible, Gunga Din, Romancing the Stone, Thin Man series, most Woody Allen movies (loved Midnight in Paris), Margin Call, Jaws

Music - Handel, Bach, Lully, the Beatles, Sinatra; also cumbia, reggae, big band, some jazz, bluegrass, world music

Food - New American, almost anything ethnic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The answer to this one really requires more profound self awareness than I can muster at the moment, but here goes:
My friends, my dog, the Western Canon, tropical beaches, the smile of my lover (missing at the moment) and a good attitude (mine and others').
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I relate to other people, the parlous state of the world, whether I'm doing the right thing, complicated loan structures (my job) and which tie I should wear today!

And one more thing. So many women write profiles that definitively state they are not interested in one night stands. Who is doing all these one night stands? Pas moi! Did I miss the staff meeting?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner, at a movie, walking around MMA or pondering the greater verities of life over a rum and tonic.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll tell you later, if you are worthy of knowing.
You should message me if
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You're tired of the ordinary and seek someone who will challenge you, grow with you and cover your back.