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35 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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Thoroughly creative, deeply introspective, progressively eccentric, soulful with a heart of gold, whimsical + practical, tenacious and thorough, survivor, love of selfless service, zany, intellectually dextrous, clever but kind, highly ethical, social justice conscience, daily spiritual practice, truth teller, old soul but childlike, lover of simplicity, art/science, sensual and natural, erudite, salt of the earth with a big dose of ether, collaborator, earth, body, city, music + ordinary goodness.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just graduated with my master's in drama therapy. Yoga teacher + educator, performance maker, singer, arts-based researcher, East Villager. Passionate about working with others and facilitating opportunities to live in authenticity, with more love and creativity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being able to hold complexity and contradiction in myself and others. I enjoy living poetically - the storyteller in me is ever present and I love making meaning out of the nuances of daily living.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Big eyes, curly hair, 5'2 with a whole lotta expression.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Laura Nyro, Kate Bush, Black Sea Hotel, Antony and the Johnsons, Brecht + Weill, Zap Mama, Sia, Joan as Police Woman, Fiona Apple, Robert Wyatt, Suphala, Jesca Hoop, Wildbirds + Peacedrums, Jose Gonzales, Rufus Wainwright, Lisa Germano, Alice Coltrane, Dirty Projectors, Dresden Dolls, Beatlemania, Bobby McFerrin, Feist, Bjork, Old American Folk, Juana Molina, Cinematic Orchestra, Anything tabla, romani, eastern european. Lately I've been digging Laura Mvula + Laura Marling's new albums. There was some fun stuff released in 2013! :)

Catching up with the western cannon after spending a long time swimming in the eastern stuff. Some thinkers/tinkerers I am influenced by: BKS Iyengar, Lowen, Osho, Fromm, Jung, Alice Miller, Desikachar, Brecht, Chekhov, Gandhi, JL Moreno, Sontag, Tolstoy, Didion, Benjamin, Yalom, Hazrat Inayat Khan, The Beats, Patti Smith, Boal, Krishnamurti, Yogi Bhajan, Gibran, + the Bhakti poets. I'm looking forward to reading fiction again - soon!

NO TV! I did just finish season II of Orange is the New Black. Closer to my life than one might believe. Love classic films, + movies in general.

I'm a vegetarian feel happy and healthy about it after both carnivorous and vegan incarnations.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friendship and all kinds of love
yoga/spiritual practice.
creative process/collaboration
Listening to and creating music.
earth, wind, sky, water, city.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to keep growing and expanding. People's hidden narratives. Melodies and rhythms. Geeky yoga things. Nurture/nature debates. Weird daydreams. How to face my fears with love, and how to love through fear.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Open to creative possibilities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You want to keep it real. I love hanging out with original thinkers and with people who have done a lot of work to shine the diamonds in themselves. No time for anything but authenticity. Perhaps your bohemian mutt-ness is intrigued by my bohemian mutt-ness.