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35 New York, NY Woman


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  • Ages 30–40
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  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5′ 2″ (1.57m)
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Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
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Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I am invested in living my life as an unfolding myth. I am wholly taken with the arts of self-transformation, and love spending time with similarly intense, creative people. I have a wanderer's spirit that I have grounded and transmuted and tend to journey more inwardly than I do around the world. I have deeply political values, and am probably as "left" as they come. I am a scholar of yoga. I am as ridiculous as I am serious. I am more interested in people, direct communication, and intimate stories than I am in just about anything else. I have experienced how love is healing and how healing it is to love, and I live to be reminded of this however it shows up.
What I’m doing with my life
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I teach yoga and facilitate transformational group processes. I'm a drama therapist, performance artist, and singer. I'm rediscovering my writing voice, and getting more and more political in my art!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making something outta nothing, and transforming "somethings" into nothings in order to clear the path.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Big eyes, curly hair, 5'2 with a whole lotta expression.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Laura Nyro, Kate Bush, Black Sea Hotel, Antony and the Johnsons, Brecht + Weill, Zap Mama, Tori Amos, Joan as Police Woman, Tori Amos, Fiona Apple, Robert Wyatt, Suphala, Jesca Hoop, Wildbirds + Peacedrums, Jose Gonzales, Leonard Cohen, Bob Dylan, Jeff Buckley, Rufus Wainwright, Lisa Germano, Alice Coltrane, Dirty Projectors, Dresden Dolls, Magnetic Fields, Beatlemania, Bobby McFerrin, Feist, Bjork, Old American Folk, Billie Holiday, Nina Simone, Jerome Kern, Irving Berlin, The Gershwins, Mia Doi Todd, Juana Molina, Le Mystere De Voix Bulgares, Anything tabla, romani, eastern european. Lately I've been digging Laura Mvula + Laura Marling's new albums. There was some fun stuff released in 2013! :)

Catching up with the western cannon after spending a long time swimming in the eastern stuff. Some thinkers/tinkerers I am influenced by: BKS Iyengar, Howard Zinn, Lowen, Osho, Fromm, Jung, Alice Miller, Desikachar, Brecht, Chekhov, Gandhi, JL Moreno, Sontag, Tolstoy, Didion, Benjamin, Yalom, Hazrat Inayat Khan, The Beats, Patti Smith, Boal, Krishnamurti, Yogi Bhajan, Gibran, + the Bhakti poets.


I'm a vegetarian feel happy and healthy about it after both carnivorous and vegan incarnations.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friendship and all forms of love.
yoga/spiritual practice.
creative process/collaboration
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People's hidden narratives. Nurture/nature debates.
How to turn what I see or feel into music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
writing, singing, with soul family, dancing, wandering, praying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I value
Not this online shit.
You should message me if
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You are beautiful! You go DEEP! You are BRILLIANT! You laugh like a drunken hyena because, because!

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