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35 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
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5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I am invested in living my life as an unfolding myth. I am wholly taken with the arts of self-transformation, and love spending time with similarly intense, creative people. I have a wanderer's spirit that I have grounded and transmuted and tend to journey more inwardly than I do around the world. I have deeply political values, and center my work around issues of freedom of self-expression, and emancipation. I am a quintessential quadruple virgo in my unflinching love of being pure-of-heart, yet I could care less about spending my free time dust-bustering the fridge :). I I am more interested in people, direct communication, and intimate stories than I am in just about anything else. And yes, I'm unapologetically eccentric, and hope you are too :).
What I’m doing with my life
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I work full time on an inpatient psychiatric unit as a drama therapist, which in part means that I spend my time holding the stories of, and wholeheartedly caring for severely mentally ill people. I think of my work as a bootcamp for learning how to shape my love for each person into the type of expression that will ultimately serve their needs. It's a crazy (literally) and rewarding job. I also teach yoga, yoga teacher trainings, and facilitate transformational group processes related to therapy and spiritual practice. I make therapeutic theatre as part of this larger work. Community is hugely important to me. My first love is music and I feel most like myself when I'm singing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing and deeply respecting other people's realities, conjuring up infinite creative possibilities, collaborating, calling upon my inner-rascal to maneuver mischievously in dominant culture paradigms, composing songs for wild voices, pining quietly and loving purely.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Big eyes, curly hair, 5'2 with a whole lotta expression.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Laura Nyro, Kate Bush, Black Sea Hotel, Antony and the Johnsons, Brecht + Weill, Zap Mama, Tori Amos, Joan as Police Woman, Fiona Apple, Robert Wyatt, Suphala, Jesca Hoop, Wildbirds + Peacedrums, Jose Gonzales, Leonard Cohen, Bob Dylan, Jeff Buckley, Rufus Wainwright, Lisa Germano, Alice Coltrane, Dirty Projectors, Dresden Dolls, Magnetic Fields, Beatlemania, Bobby McFerrin, Feist, Bjork, Old American Folk, Billie Holiday, Nina Simone, Jerome Kern, Irving Berlin, The Gershwins, Mia Doi Todd, Juana Molina, Le Mystere De Voix Bulgares, Anything tabla, romani, eastern european. Lately I've been digging Laura Mvula + Laura Marling's new albums. There was some fun stuff released in 2013! :)

Catching up with the western cannon after spending a long time swimming in the eastern stuff. Some thinkers/tinkerers I am influenced by: BKS Iyengar, Howard Zinn, Lowen, Osho, Fromm, Jung, Alice Miller, Desikachar, Brecht, Chekhov, Gandhi, JL Moreno, Sontag, Tolstoy, Didion, Benjamin, Yalom, Hazrat Inayat Khan, The Beats, Patti Smith, Boal, Krishnamurti, Yogi Bhajan, Gibran, + the Bhakti poets.


I'm a vegetarian feel happy and healthy about it after both carnivorous and vegan incarnations.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friendship and all forms of love.
yoga/spiritual practice.
creative process/collaboration
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People's hidden narratives. The differences between fantasy, inspirational healthy imagining and "reality". Nurture/nature debates. Dogs. Futures. Pasts. How to turn what I see or feel into music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I relish in the sacred times of the week when we're all given permission to slip into subversiveness. I love expanding the quaint, the hushed, the calm.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hmmm…I don't think any of the things I could say in this box indicate true vulnerability. Those sacred interiors come with trust and time, regardless of how much we all feel apt to share awesome, factual eccentricities.
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Listen, it would be a miracle, a MIRACLE to find an awesome partner on OK Cupid. I am here to simply roll the dice.