I tend to be a bit quirkier than I appear on the surface but I'm not too hard to get along with. I've also found that I'm actually much more sociable and talkative than I ever thought, although I tend to start slowly and don't always do my best impression when first meeting people.
I have found the balance I crave in relationships via consensual and honest polyamory. I also enjoy what some would call kink, although it's not a requirement for me in every relationship.
I am recently married and very happy about that. There are a number of outstanding people with whom I share various degrees of physical and emotional closeness with the full knowledge and consent of my wife, who is also polyamorous and involved with some outstanding people too. I'm happy to make new friends and not opposed to friendship evolving into something more if the chemistry is right.
Some people call me Dr. PeePee...those people being individuals with profiles on fetlife or who have been involved in the SF kink scene. It's not about an interest in watersports in case you are wondering. :-)