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39 • Berkeley, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Feb 16
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Aries, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from med school
- Rather not say
- Likes dogs and likes cats
I tend to be a bit quirkier than I appear on the surface but I'm not too hard to get along with. I've also found that I'm actually much more sociable and talkative than I ever thought, although I tend to start slowly and don't always do my best impression when first meeting people.
I have found the balance I crave in relationships via consensual and honest polyamory. I also enjoy what some would call kink, although it's not a requirement for me in every relationship.
I am recently married and very happy about that. There are a number of outstanding people with whom I share various degrees of physical and emotional closeness with the full knowledge and consent of my wife, who is also polyamorous and involved with some outstanding people too. I'm happy to make new friends and not opposed to friendship evolving into something more if the chemistry is right.
Some people call me Dr. PeePee...those people being individuals with profiles on fetlife or who have been involved in the SF kink scene. It's not about an interest in watersports in case you are wondering. :-)
Personally I'm cultivating great friendships and experiencing the many good things in life.
If I am wearing a shirt without a collar the real first thing people notice is the big chain around my neck.
I like virtually all kinds of food, Mexican is my stand-by, Indian was my favorite but I think I am more into Japanese now. I'm pretty eager to try new things in general and that definitely applies to food.
I don't watch TV and seldom see movies although I enjoy them...most times I wind up going to the Castro theater for movies to see something at a film fest or an old classic.
As far as music goes I am pretty open to most types but electronic is my favorite for routine listening. I tend to gravitate towards hard dance, techno, and occasionally dubstep...there are times when lounge or ambient are entirely appropriate too.
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